“Can I Kiss You?” is one of the most inclusive and sought-after programs for providing specific how-to skills for teaching consent, respect in relationships, bystander intervention, and addressing sexual assault. Each year, the program is delivered to tens of thousands of students on campuses all over North America.
Students describe this keynote as:
“enlightening” “educational” “empowering” “needs to be at every college”
Build a culture of respect with the . . .
“Can I Kiss You?” Program presented by Mike Domitrz, CSP, CPAE
Program Overview/Takeaways:
in a 60 to 75 minute “Can I Kiss You?” program, college students discover specific how-to skills for . . .
- Asking First for Consent.
- Treating every person with dignity and respect
- Supporting Survivors of Sexual Assault.
- Intervening when Danger is Present at Parties and Group Settings with Alcohol & Other Drugs
- Understanding why “No” is never mean
- Creating a Cultural Shift on Campus.
20+ Years of RESULTS from 60,000 student surveys speak for themselves:
Over 97% of students say they are more likely to take the following actions after experiencing Mike's program:
- Ask First before engaging in sexual intimacy
- Intervene when someone is using alcohol or other drugs to facilitate sexual activity
- Reach out to family and friends to let survivors know they are supported
Evidence-Based & Proven: Mike Domitrz’s presentation is one of the few college educational programs to have been researched and evaluated by a third-party research firm. The results? The “Can I Kiss You?” show has been proven to be evidence-based AND that it creates a statistically significant impact on college audiences!
CAMPUS PRESIDENTS ARE TALKING
Mike Domitrz is more than an author and speaker, he’s a partner. For the past ten years we, at Central College, have benefitted from his work through his active and engaging presentations and the voice he brings to a subject that may be awkward for students but is absolutely essential for their well-being.
Mike Domitrz is more than an author and speaker, he’s a partner. For the past ten years we, at Central College, have benefitted from his work through his active and engaging presentations and the voice he brings to a subject that may be awkward for students but is absolutely essential for their well-being.
TITLE IX IS ENDORSING
We are incredibly grateful that we had the opportunity to bring Mike Domitrz and his Can I Kiss You? presentation to our campus community. Mike has a unique ability to engage and connect with students while addressing important topics such as consent, healthy relationships, bystander intervention, and supporting survivors. His relatable and impactful approach encourages students to take responsibility for their actions and recognize the role they play in creating a safer, more respectful campus environment. We highly recommend Mike to any campus looking to educate, empower, and inspire students to make a meaningful difference in their community.
We are incredibly grateful that we had the opportunity to bring Mike Domitrz and his Can I Kiss You? presentation to our campus community. Mike has a unique ability to engage and connect with students while addressing important topics such as consent, healthy relationships, bystander intervention, and supporting survivors. His relatable and impactful approach encourages students to take responsibility for their actions and recognize the role they play in creating a safer, more respectful campus environment. We highly recommend Mike to any campus looking to educate, empower, and inspire students to make a meaningful difference in their community.
PROGRAMS for RESIDENCE LIFE
Mike's humor and empathy weaved with audience engagement helps to educate students on consent and bystander intervention into a way students can understand. ‘Can I Kiss You?’ opens the door for students to start having conversations about consent and how they can support one another, while relating to their current university environment and everyday situations. Our students' feedback speaks for itself: Mike's session is one of the most memorable from orientation!
Mike's humor and empathy weaved with audience engagement helps to educate students on consent and bystander intervention into a way students can understand. ‘Can I Kiss You?’ opens the door for students to start having conversations about consent and how they can support one another, while relating to their current university environment and everyday situations. Our students' feedback speaks for itself: Mike's session is one of the most memorable from orientation!
CUSTOMIZED PROGRAMS for GREEK LIFE & ATHLETICS
Your show is truly impressive, moving, informative, and, I have no doubt, has moved many people to make a change in their behavior. I know it opened my eyes. I wished half-way through that I were taking notes!
Your show is truly impressive, moving, informative, and, I have no doubt, has moved many people to make a change in their behavior. I know it opened my eyes. I wished half-way through that I were taking notes!
WELLNESS CENTERS ARE PRAISING
"Mike Domitrz delivered an exceptional program for our campus community, engaging an audience of more than 700 students in a meaningful conversation about consent, respect, and healthy relationships. What sets Mike apart is his ability to approach a sensitive topic with authenticity, empathy, and humanity. Beyond focusing solely on policies or definitions, he helps students understand why consent matters and how respect serves as the foundation for every healthy interaction.
"Beyond his skill as a presenter, Mike was a true professional to partner with. He was flexible, collaborative, and able to seamlessly adapt to last-minute changes and technical adjustments without missing a beat. His energy, expertise, and genuine commitment to students make him an outstanding partner and speaker. In fact, before the evening was even over, campus partners were already asking when we could begin planning to bring him back!"
"Mike Domitrz delivered an exceptional program for our campus community, engaging an audience of more than 700 students in a meaningful conversation about consent, respect, and healthy relationships. What sets Mike apart is his ability to approach a sensitive topic with authenticity, empathy, and humanity. Beyond focusing solely on policies or definitions, he helps students understand why consent matters and how respect serves as the foundation for every healthy interaction.
"Beyond his skill as a presenter, Mike was a true professional to partner with. He was flexible, collaborative, and able to seamlessly adapt to last-minute changes and technical adjustments without missing a beat. His energy, expertise, and genuine commitment to students make him an outstanding partner and speaker. In fact, before the evening was even over, campus partners were already asking when we could begin planning to bring him back!"
Mike made asking for consent practical and doable for our students!
Mike’s program gives Survivors the comfort of knowing that they are not alone and that someone is there for them to talk to.
'Can I Kiss You?' is an awakening experience that opens the door to what intimate boundaries should really look like. Mike creates a safe space for students and empowers them to make respectful choices in dating situations. He approaches serious topics with just the right amount of humor to keep your attention.
Mike was an incredible speaker for both our student and employee sessions! He actively engaged the audience and kept everyone involved in the conversation and training. He made talking about the sticky stuff way more comfortable and fun! Several students shared powerful feedback with the college after Mike’s engagement and we can’t wait to bring him back to continue to share the importance of respect, consent and how to go above the standard and be the exceptional!
WELCOME WEEK, ORIENTATION & FYE PROGRAMS
Mike Domitrz and The Center for Respect gives an eye opening perspective on relationships, even if you think you have mastered the ins and outs of dating.
Mike Domitrz and The Center for Respect gives an eye opening perspective on relationships, even if you think you have mastered the ins and outs of dating.
Mike’s inclusive approach is appreciated by people of all demographics.
Campuses have been turning to Mike Domitrz for over 2 decades
As one of the early pioneers and one of today's leading voices for building a culture of respect and consent on campuses for the past 2 decades, Mike Domitrz brings a unique perspective and proven skill set for being able to effectively engage with students of varying backgrounds and demographics.
