# The Center for Respect

> Mike Domitrz teaches essential skills for consent, healthy relationships, bystander intervention, and respect as a Hall of Fame speaker, author, and founder of The Center for Respect.

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## Posts

- [Blog](https://www.centerforrespect.com/blog/)
- [When Someone Won't Accept Your No: 3 Things to Say](https://www.centerforrespect.com/when-someone-wont-accept-your-no/): When someone won't accept your no, try these 3 powerful responses to stop pressure, protect your boundaries, and recognize disrespect.
- [How to Find the Best Respect Assembly for Your Middle or High School](https://www.centerforrespect.com/best-respect-assembly-middle-high-school/): Find the best respect assembly for your middle or high school. Learn what to ask about student skills, engagement, age fit, and lasting impact.
- [Habits That Kill Respect in Relationships: 3 to Stop Today](https://www.centerforrespect.com/3-habits-that-kill-respect-in-relationships/): Discover 3 habits that kill respect in relationships and learn how asking first, honoring boundaries, and listening build trust.
- [Parents: Stop Threatening Your Teen’s Date. Teach Respect Instead](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parents-stop-threatening-your-teens-date/): Parents: stop threatening your teen’s date. Teach healthy relationship expectations using respect, boundaries, communication, and asking first.
- [Get Voices of Courage for FREE!!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/get-voices-of-courage-for-free/): Download all 26 audio tracks (including 12 chapters PLUS 12 special interviews) AND get the full ebook of Voices of Courage: Inspiration from Survivors of Sexual Assault - ALL FOR FREE!! Read the 12 survivors of sexual assault’s powerful chapters in the E-Book and then listen to each survivor read his or her chapter directly
- [#WeStandUp: Social Workers](https://www.centerforrespect.com/westandup-social-workers/): **The following is a Special Guest Blog Post (#WeStandUp): #WeStandUp: Social Workers for Survivors of Sexual Assault “The abuse that happened is not the only part of the person…that certainly shapes who they are, but doesn’t define who they are” as said by Josie Torielli, a licensed clinical social worker from the New York City
- [If We Really Want to Lower Sexual Assault...](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault/): "If we really want to lower sexual assault on college campuses for the long-run, our country will move to educating the youngest of all genders on respect, boundaries, and honoring every human being as valuable." HOW TO SHARE THE IMAGE: Right click on the image and click on “Save As” or “Save Image” and
- [The DATE SAFE Project Ambassador Program Launches Today](https://www.centerforrespect.com/dspa2015/): Today, The DATE SAFE Project has launched our program for college students who want to take the information they received from the "Can I Kiss You?" program one step further. This program is called The DATE SAFE Project AMBASSADOR Program, and now you can become a member! As a DSP Ambassador, you will have everything you need
- [STOP Focusing on Telling Women How to Be Safe](https://www.centerforrespect.com/stop-focusing/): For years, society has been teaching women how to be safe. Women have been taught they need to dress appropriately and not to be a tease. Women have been taught to never walk home alone at night, to always look over their shoulders, and to never answer the door if they don’t know who it is.
- [Planned Parenthood Survey Results Vary Drastically and Are Low [Video]](https://www.centerforrespect.com/planned-parenthood-results-vary-drastically-low/): Planned Parenthood survey results show that people's understanding of consent vary drastically and percentages are surprisingly low. For example, only 19 percent of parents talk to their kids about consent. In this video, I explain why that’s a problem and why many parents need a wake-up call. Hint: if parents are not discussing this, where
- [Teens, Violent Language, and Sex - the Words We Choose](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teens-violent-language-and-sex-the-words-we-choose/): Violent Language and Sex - the Words We Choose Discussed by Dating Expert and Speaker, Mike Domitrz with The Date Safe Project. In this video, discover the dangers in how sex and sexual intimacy is frequently being discussed today in society such as hit that, tap that or smash. Parents (Moms and Dads), educators, leaders,
- [10: Liane Davey on Why Conflict & Respect Go Together](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-10-liane-davey-conflict-respect/): Gain specific skills for thriving with conflict in all aspects of your life from expert Liane Davey as Mike Domitrz asks here about personal and professional situations. Discover why conflict is HEALTHY and we should look forward to engaging in conflict. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and
- [Teens ask, "What if I already made a mistake with sex?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teens-ask-what-if-i-already-made-a-mistake-with-sex/): Teens ask, "What if I already made a mistake with sex?" Answers by teen dating expert and speaker, Mike Domitrz with The Date Safe Project. In this video, discover to be compassionate with yourself. Today is a new day. Parents (Moms and Dads), educators, leaders, teens, pre-teens, and people of all ages should know the
- [Pornography and Impact on Teenagers](https://www.centerforrespect.com/pornography-and-impact-on-teenagers/): Pornography and Impact on Teenagers discussed by Teen Dating Violence Prevention Speaker and Expert Mike Domitrz with The Date Safe Project. In this video, discover the impact pornography is having on teenagers. Parents (Moms and Dads), educators, leaders, teens, pre-teens, and people of all ages should know the content of this video. Middle schools, high
- [Teens Ask about Getting an Early Start with Sexual Intimacy](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teens-ask-about-getting-an-early-start-with-sexual-intimacy/): Early Start with Sexual Intimacy in Teen Years Discussed by Teen Dating Expert and Speaker, Mike Domitrz with The Date Safe Project. In this video, discover the reality of what research shows happens when people become sexually active at very young ages. Parents (Moms and Dads), educators, leaders, teens, pre-teens, and people of all ages
- [Teens Not Being Able To Control Themselves Sexually](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teens-not-being-able-to-control-themselves-sexually/): Not Being Able To Control Yourself Sexually discussed by Dating Expert and Speaker, Mike Domitrz with The Date Safe Project. In this video, hear why this statement is both dangerous and a most 99% of the time. Parents (Moms and Dads), educators, leaders, teens, pre-teens, and people of all ages should know the content of
- [Teens Passing Notes in School](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teens-passing-notes-in-school/): Passing Notes in School Discussed by Teen Dating Violence Prevention Expert and Speaker, Mike Domitrz with The Date Safe Project. In this video, Mike discusses the problem with passing notes to see if someone is interested in dating you. Parents (Moms and Dads), educators, leaders, teens, pre-teens, and people of all ages should know the
- [Consent Apps are Potentially Dangerous for Teens & Adults](https://www.centerforrespect.com/consent-apps-are-potentially-dangerous-for-teens-adults/): Consent expert and speaker, Mike Domitrz, discusses why Consent Apps are awful and potentially dangerous for teens and adults as part of a series of videos for February and Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month. A new fad in the world of teaching consent education in middle schools, high schools, and college campuses is
- [04: Laura Dunn on Justice, #MeToo, and Advocacy](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-04-with-laura-dunn-survjuctice-advocacy-and-metoo/): Join Laura Dunn and Mike Domitrz as they discuss justice, the #MeToo Movement, and advocating for survivors. Both Dunn and Domitrz have extensive experience working with educational systems for working to reduce sexual violence for students. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe
- [06: Sean Stephenson on Agenda's, Self-Value, and Respect](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-06-sean-stephenson-agendas/): Dr. Sean Stephenson dives deep with Mike Domitrz into our self-value, self-esteem, when we are in a dark place, and much more. From the importance of owning your Agenda and stating it clearly to being independent from your partner’s happiness. This show is packed with incredible wisdom!! * You are invited to join our community and conversations
- [09: Skip Weisman on Respect & Workplace Communication](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-09-skip-weisman-workplace-communication/): Learn about how to draw and respect all the voices into a conversation - including balancing those who want to dominate and those who don’t feel comfortable speaking up with former MLB executive, Skip Weisman as he shares with Mike Domitrz. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and
- [11: Sean Douglas: Suicide, Resilience, & Respect](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-11-sean-douglas-suicide-resilience-respect/): Suicide, resilience, and respect. Sean Douglas shares key skills and strategies for helping individuals as host Mike Domitrz discusses the work Sean does and Sean’s personal journey with the military. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking
- [14: Chris Kilmartin on Men, Sexism, and Masculinity](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-14-chris-kilmartin-men-sexism-masculinity/): Join host Mike Domitrz as he interviews Dr. Chris Kilmartin on the topics of men, masculinity, sexism, #MeToo, and specific ways to speak up. Chris provides strategies and skills for helping everyone move forward to a healthier culture in this episode. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and
- [58: Rachel Grant on Helping Survivors of Sexual Abuse](https://www.centerforrespect.com/58-rachel-grant-on-helping-survivors-of-sexual-abuse/): ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website at www.RespectPodcast.com ** **You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.** Rachel’s BIO: Rachel Grant is the owner
- [75: Unconscious Bias with Kelly Charles-Collins and how it intersects with diversity and inclusion.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/75-kelly-charles-collins/): Discover why all of us have unconscious bias, how it impacts our life, and the lives of those around us in the workplace with expert and attorney Kelly Charles-Collins as she shares with Mike Domitrz. Learn how to avoid going from an unconscious bias to engaging in discrimination. **You are invited to join
- [74: How do you LIVE with respect? Discover with Chris Westfall, author of “Leadership Language."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/74-chris-westfall/): Chris Westfall dives into the vital need for respect in every business and/or corporate organization, how to live with it, how to respond to a lack of it, and much more as he shares with host Mike Domitrz. **You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join
- [56: Glen Guyton on How to Foster Respect in the Workplace](https://www.centerforrespect.com/056-glen-guyton-on-how-to-foster-respect-in-the-workplace/): Glen has made it his mission to help organizations and individuals understand how to navigate the complex nature of culture. Glen works with organizations that want to improve productivity and profits, through innovative leadership techniques and building intercultural competence. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook
- [34: Barry Banther & the 5 "Rights to Respect" for Every Employee](https://www.centerforrespect.com/34-barry-banther/): Our guest today has 4 decades of experience as a leader in education, business, and non-profit organizations. Family First, the home of the All Pro Dad Program named him their family ambassador of the year. He is also the current Vice-President of the National Speakers Association, Barry Banther. * You are invited to join our community
- [94: Shifting the Mindset of Parenting to Prosperity for You and Your Kids with Rachel Marie Martin](https://www.centerforrespect.com/94-shifting-the-mindset-of-parenting-to-prosperity-for-you-and-your-kids-with-rachel-marie-martin/): Shifting the Mindset of Parenting to Prosperity
- [42: Joe Hirsch & Thriving with Feedback](https://www.centerforrespect.com/42-joe-hirsch-thriving-with-feedback/): Joe Hirsch is on a mission to change the way people give feedback. He's a TEDx and keynote speaker, a columnist for Inc., the author of "The Feedback Fix," a father of four, and a husband of one. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe
- [55: Craig Pomranz on Respecting and Empowering Children](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-55-craig-pomranz-on-respecting-and-empowering-children/): ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website at www.RespectPodcast.com ** **You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.** Craig is an internationally known singer/song-stylist, actor
- [23: Caroline De Posada on Parenting & the Promise to Be There](https://www.centerforrespect.com/23-caroline-deposada-on-parenting-the-promise-to-be-there/): Learn 3 promises that can revolutionize a parent’s ability to build powerful relationships with their kids, especially when you are not able to be physically present for the child with Caroline de Posada as she shares with host Mike Domitrz. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us
- [28: Cathy & Todd Adams discuss Respect and Parenting](https://www.centerforrespect.com/28-cathy-todd-adams-discuss-respect-and-parenting/): How do you engage with your kids - whether young or older adults? How are you present to and//or for them? Explore this conversation and more with the hosts of Zen Parenting Radio, Todd & Cathy Adams * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or
- [Relationship Integrity: What You Say About Your Partner](https://www.centerforrespect.com/relationship-integrity-partner-not-around/): Relationship integrity matters even when your partner isn't there. Learn how gossip, exaggeration, and peer pressure can quietly erode trust.
- [86: Fending off Overwhelm Before it Ever Happens](https://www.centerforrespect.com/86-lauren-parsons/): Discover red flags and specific skills you can use to fend off the overwhelm before it ever happens with expert Lauren Parsons as host Mike Domitrz asks her questions for helping each listener gain skill sets. **You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe
- [01: Rick Clemons on What Role RESPECT Plays in Coming Out](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-01-with-rick-clemons/): Join Mike Domitrz and Rick Clemons as Rick shares the importance of respect in coming out and having the choice to do so. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.** 3 OPTIONS FOR ACCESSING THE SHOW
- [31: The Best of 2018 of The RESPECT Podcast](https://www.centerforrespect.com/031-the-best-of-2018-of-the-respect-podcast/): Welcome to this really special episode. You know what makes podcasting super special, and really meaningful and fulfilling? You do. The listener. Knowing that you're out there listening is what inspires me to want to give you better content, better shows, continually improve as your host of The Respect Podcast with Mike Domitrz. So, I
- [40: Jennifer Gunsaullus asks "Sex: What Does it Mean to You?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/40-jennifer-gunsaullus-asks-sex-what-does-it-mean-to-you/): Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus is a sociologist and national speaker on healthy sexuality, intimacy, consent, and mindfulness. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.** SCROLL DOWN TO READ THE TRANSCRIPTION LISTEN TO THE SHOW BELOW via Audio, and/or Read
- [03: Lisa Ryan on RESPECT in the Workplace](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-03-with-lisa-ryan-respect-in-the-workplace/): Join Lisa Ryan with Mike Domitrz discussing RESPECT in the Workplace. Find out specific approaches that are vitally important to integrating respect in the workplace. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.** 3 OPTIONS FOR ACCESSING
- [05: Heath Phillips discusses Surviving Military Sexual Trauma & Respect](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-05-heath-phillips-military-sexual-trauma-respect/): Listen as Heath Phillips shares with Mike Domitrz about being a survivor of Military Sexual Trauma (sexual assault). Heath takes you on a 20 year journey that is difficult and inspiring. Heath holds nothing back. We also talk about the current military culture and systems. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about
- [12: Kirsty Spraggon & Respecting Your Truth](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-12-kirsty-spraggon-truth-teller/): Kirsty Spraggon shares how sharing her TRUTH revolutionized her life and now is impacting so many more lives. Kirsty tells Mike the keys for HOW TO tell your truth and where to start (along with who to potentially start with). * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join
- [22: Alexandra Solomon with the Discovery & Exploration in Long-Term Marriage & Relationships](https://www.centerforrespect.com/22-alexandra-solomon-with-the-discovery-exploration-in-long-term-marriage-relationships/): Discover what Dr. Ali Solomon reveals to be the keys to respect and curiosity in long-term relationships - including marriage - in this deep dive with host Mike Domitrz. Dr. Ali Solomon is one of the leading minds in the world for teaching relationships and marriage. * You are invited to join our community and
- [Expert Reveals Why Cornell Case Is Horrific](https://www.centerforrespect.com/cornell-university-lawsuit/): "Are we just training students on 'what not to do,' or are we equipping them with the mindset and real-world skills to make a difference?" Mike Domitrz
- [Lawsuit Against Cornell University Regarding Sexual Assault Is a Wake Up Call](https://www.centerforrespect.com/lawsuit-against-cornell-university-regarding-sexual-assault-is-a-wake-up-call/): Have you heard about Civil Lawsuit against Cornell University, a Fraternity, and 7 fraternity members regarding sexual assault? Look it up. The details are horrifying to read. The complete lack of humanity and any sense of bystander intervention is disgustingly appalling in the lawsuit’s descriptions. While there is a ton to unpack in this case,
- [89: Are you Controlling or Respecting your Child’s Path through College?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/89-annmarie-chereso/): College transition expert, Annmarie Chereso shares common mistakes parents make for the college journey. Are you overseeing your kids’ grades in college?
- [84: Parents, how do you get your kids to co-operate? Discover with parent educator, Alyson Schafer.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/84-alyson-schafer/): What are most parenting approaches based in? Respect, do as I say, or discipline? Notice in the title of this episode where it says “get your kids to” vs “have your family thriving in co-operation”. Alyson Schafer dives into the struggles and new ways to approach parenting that can be truly cooperative in nature. Mike
- [49: Mark Bowden & Body Language - the Myth vs Reality](https://www.centerforrespect.com/49-mark-bowden-body-language-the-myth-vs-reality/): Mark Bowden has been voted the #1 Body Language Professional in the world for two years running. So now is the time to sit up straight! * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.** BIO of Mark Bowden: Mark Bowden
- [38: Rena Romano Supporting Survivors & Coming Forward](https://www.centerforrespect.com/038-rena-romano-supporting-survivors-coming-forward/): Rena Romano is an Author of her Memoir "His Puppet No More", a Professional Speaker, and Speaking Coach. Known as "The Positivity Pro” Her mission is to lift others and help them discover their unlimited potential so that they will Thrive and have the success they desire. She is a veteran of the TEDx stage
- [35: Matt Beaudreau & Respecting Each Child's Unique Ability](https://www.centerforrespect.com/35-matt-beaudreau-respecting-each-childs-unique-ability/): Today’s Education - discover new approaches for parents and educators for helping them thrive on their own personal journey with that child’s own unique ability with expert Matt Beaudreau and host Mike Domitrz. Matt is currently in the process of writing a book with the author of another book that impacted him, greatly. Michael Ellsberg
- [27: Dave Gerber Tells Us How to Have RESPECT Lead You in Times of Conflict](https://www.centerforrespect.com/27-dave-gerber-tells-us-how-to-have-respect-lead-you-in-times-of-conflict/): Join Dave Gerber as he helps all of us recognize workplace conflict and the specific steps to take in those uncomfortable and difficult situations in this thought-provoking conversation with host Mike Domitrz. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel
- [25: Omékongo Dibinga discusses Respect in America Today](https://www.centerforrespect.com/025-omekongo-dibinga-discusses-respect-in-america-today/): Dr. Omékongo Dibinga is the UPstander. His life’s mission is to inspire all across the globe to take a stand when they witness an injustice, no matter how small or large. He is a motivational speaker, trilingual poet, TV talk show host, rapper, and professor of cross-cultural communication at American University. * You are invited
- [24: Sexual Violence, Healthy Relationships, & US Military](https://www.centerforrespect.com/024-sexual-violence-healthy-relationships-us-military/): Gender, relationships, how training has changed, should civilians adjudicate military cases, creating safe spaces for learning & development, and much more is discussed with 3 retired military professionals who were in charge of addressing sexual assault in their roles in the US Military. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each
- [44: Elizabeth McCourt on Respect and Non-Linear Leadership](https://www.centerforrespect.com/44-elizabeth-mccourt-on-respect-and-non-linear-leadership/): Elizabeth McCourt is a non-linear thinker, practical-minded creative and conforming non-conformist. Cultural diversity and a passion for making better more authentic leaders is the core of her work as a coach, speaker and writer. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our
- [Denying Women Access to Dinners & Meetings is NOT OKAY](https://www.centerforrespect.com/denying-women-access-to-dinners-meetings-is-not-okay/): Have you heard about leaders of organizations and politicians that are living by a new rule ? The rule is they will not go to a dinner or meeting alone with a woman. At the same time, these same leaders will go to dinners and meetings alone with men. This behavior is NOT okay and
- [Student pressured to send nudes via threat of suicide](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-pressured-to-send-nudes-via-threat-of-suicide/): VERY SCARY!! In this video, I share an actual question from a 7th grade student about being blackmailed to send nudes (sexting) or the other person will commit suicide. Parents and educators, please watch this video and SHARE this video. A student asked me this question during an assembly (yes in front of over 200
- [Going Beyond What Is Expected](https://www.centerforrespect.com/going-beyond-what-is-expected/): Student Leadership When Addressing Healthy Dating & Sexual Assault Awareness RA’s, Orientation Leaders, Peer Educators, and many other student leaders have fantastic opportunities to lead, especially when they are around other students on their campus. The challenge is “How Far Will You Go” to make a difference? Are you willing to take on an issue
- [Tough Audiences Need You!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tough-audiences-need/): The tougher the crowd, the more you as a speaker/presenter are needed! If you have ever spoke to a class, presented to a large audience, or conducted a workshop, you may have once thought, "Wow, that was a tough crowd." Last semester, I was speaking to an audience of Fraternities in which several males in
- [Working with Students – Are They Difficult?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/working-with-students-are-they-difficult/): Have Students changed since we grew up and are they more difficult to to work with now? Recently, I was interviewed by a newspaper reporter from the Waco Tribune to talk about working with students in schools. Are teenagers more difficult today than 20 years ago? Are they less respectful of authority? … and many
- [Date Rape, Rape, Sexual Assault, Prevention, Awareness – the words we use](https://www.centerforrespect.com/date-rape-rape-sexual-assault-prevention-awareness-words-use/): The realities and misconceptions of Date Rape, Rape, Sexual Assault and the true meanings of Prevention and Awareness! Date Rape, Rape, Sexual Assault, Prevention, Awareness – which are the right words to use? The average person often confuses these words and so this article provides you with simple and basic definitions. Using the wrong word
- [Abstinence & Consent - Do They Belong Together?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/abstinence-consent-do-they-belong-together/): How discussing consent is the ultimate way to discuss abstinence. Throughout the country, some parents and educators are saying, “Our schools believe in discussing abstinence. Won’t teaching teenagers about consent lead to more sexual activity among those same teenagers?” Teaching consent stresses establishing personal standards, respecting boundaries, and always understanding the importance of having a
- [Do Your Kids Ask? Parents Teaching Respect & Healthy Dating](https://www.centerforrespect.com/may-i-kiss-you-do-your-kids-ask-parents-teaching-respect-healthy-dating/): Below are the 8 most common questions parents ask me when I am speaking in their schools or with their community organizations: 1. Without sounding like you are lecturing and without endorsing sexual activity, how do you approach the issue of healthy dating and intimacy with your child? Kids are constantly told by their
- [Do YOU Ask?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/doyouask2015/): Should I kiss him? Is it the right time to hold her hand? Does he want me to put my hand there? Does she think tonight is the night? Many people have wondered these very questions when alone with someone in an intimate moment. There can be so much uncertainty. Unfortunately, the traditional approach of “going for it” in
- [Middle School Consent Assembly: What Students Should Learn](https://www.centerforrespect.com/middle-school-consent-assembly-2/): A middle school consent assembly should teach age-appropriate skills for boundaries, asking first, peer pressure, bystander action, and respect.
- ["2020 Transformational Training" Course](https://www.centerforrespect.com/2020-transformational-training-course/): Overcome the Challenges Trainers & Educators Face Addressing Sexual Violence & Consent. Get precise How-To skills and strategies for further strengthening your ability to positively impact those you teach and conduct trainings for by learning first-hand with Mike Domitrz. Plus, earn 2 C.E.U.s for each module you complete. N.O.V.A. has evaluated and approved this course
- [Leading & Living with LOVE](https://www.centerforrespect.com/leading-living-with-love/): I wanted to share the following with you. This is a piece I wrote after being inspired by a variety of books I had read. Several people shared they found this helpful. I find taking this approach with love in both our personal lives and professional lives brings joy and additional meaningfulness to life. If
- ["Love is the Ultimate Connector" Mike Domitrz, CSP, CPAE](https://www.centerforrespect.com/love-is-the-ultimate-connector-mike-domitrz-csp-cpae/): When we treat each person with love, we see and value the individual. “All” means all genders, sexual orientations, identities, races, body shape and sizes, and abilities. “Love is the Ultimate Connector” by Mike Domitrz mike See Full Bio
- ["Love is the Shared Heartbeat . . ." Mike Domitrz, CSP, CPAE](https://www.centerforrespect.com/love-is-the-shared-heartbeat-mike-domitrz-csp-cpae/): When we realize LOVE is the web that connects us all together, we can make choices to strengthen the web with each word and action we choose. “Love is the shared heartbeat of the universe” by Mike Domitrz, CSP, CPAE. mike See Full Bio
- [Your Voice. Your Story.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/your-voice-your-story/): Are you sharing your voice and your story with the world? When you realize your voice and your story is a powerful force of love to be shared with others, the world is better off. Your soul is continually filled and rejuvenated through your freedom of self-expression. You discover love in deeper and more profound
- [High School Assembly Speaker - the Full Presentation](https://www.centerforrespect.com/high-school-assembly-speaker-mike-domitrz-safer-choices/): High school assembly speaker Mike Domitrz presents "SAFER Choices" on respect, consent, relationships, boundaries, and stopping sexual assault
- [In-depth review of "SAFER Choices" Student Assembly](https://www.centerforrespect.com/in-depth-review-of-safer-choices-student-assembly/): Rachel Lopez and her team brought Mike to speak to the entire student body and present a separate evening session just for parents at Episcopal High School of Houston. Rachel is the Associate Director of College Counseling and also is the Consent, Advocacy, & Refusal Skills Education Co-Coordinator at Episcopal High School of Houston.
- [How to Choose a High School Consent Speaker for Your Student Assembly](https://www.centerforrespect.com/high-school-consent-speaker/): Learn how to choose a high school consent speaker for your student assembly and teach students respect, boundaries, and healthy relationships.High school administrators care deeply about their students’ safety and well-being. When planning an assembly, many begin searching for the right high school consent speaker who can help students learn about boundaries, respect, and healthy relationships. Yet many schools still struggle with one important question: How do we choose the right speaker to address consent,
- [Teen Consent Education: What Works (And What Schools Get Wrong)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teen-consent-education/): Learn what effective teen consent education really looks like and how students build respect, boundaries, and healthier relationships with Mike Domitrz.
- [Best High School Assembly Topics for Preventing Teen Dating Violence](https://www.centerforrespect.com/high-school-assembly-topics-teen-dating-violence/): Discover the best high school assembly topics for teen dating violence and how to engage students in building healthier, respectful relationships.
- [Teen Relationship Skills: Why “Don’t” Messaging Fails](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teen-relationship-skills-dont-messaging/): Teen relationship skills matter more than “don’t do it” messaging. Discover how skill-based education builds respect, consent, and confidence.
- [Healthy Relationship Speaker for Schools: What to Ask](https://www.centerforrespect.com/healthy-relationship-speaker-for-schools/): Choosing a healthy relationship speaker for schools? Learn what administrators should ask to ensure impactful programs on consent, boundaries, and respect.
- [The Real Impact of Sexting and Teen Mental Health](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexting-and-teen-mental-health-impact/): Sexting and teen mental health are closely linked. Learn how sexting impacts anxiety, depression, and student wellbeing and what schools can do to prevent harm.
- [School Culture of Respect Guide for Educators](https://www.centerforrespect.com/school-culture-of-respect-guide/): Learn how to build a school culture of respect that strengthens safety, trust, and leadership across your entire school community.
- [How to Fund a Consent & Respect School Assembly](https://www.centerforrespect.com/how-to-fund-a-consent-respect-school-assembly/): Discover practical ways to fund a consent & respect school assembly through PTOs, grants, prevention budgets, and district support.
- [Why Teens Resist Prevention Programs](https://www.centerforrespect.com/why-teens-resist-prevention-programs/): Why do teens resist prevention programs? Discover how trust, respect, and student voice create more meaningful teen engagement.
- [The Myth of Workshops vs. School Assemblies](https://www.centerforrespect.com/myth-workshops-vs-school-assemblies/): The truth about workshops vs. school assemblies? The right school assembly can shift student behavior and campus culture in just one hour.
- [Teen Boundary Testing and Why Teens Push Limits](https://www.centerforrespect.com/psychology-behind-teen-boundary-testing/): Learn the psychology behind teen boundary testing and how adults can respond with respect, clarity, and healthy communication.
- [Parent Consent Education: Why Parent Nights Matter](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parent-consent-education-parent-nights/): Learn how parent consent education through school parent nights helps families reinforce respect, communication, and healthy relationships.
- [How Schools Measure Relationship Education Programs](https://www.centerforrespect.com/how-schools-measure-relationship-education-programs/): Learn how schools measure relationship education programs, assess outcomes, and evaluate consent education impact for lasting student success.
- [Do Student Assemblies Really Make a Difference?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/do-student-assemblies-really-make-a-difference/): Do student assemblies really change behavior? Discover what research, educators, and students reveal about the lasting impact of meaningful school assemblies.
- [How Student Leaders Shape School Culture More Than Adults Realize](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-leaders-shape-school-culture/): Discover how student leaders shape school culture through everyday choices and learn practical strategies schools can use to build lasting cultures of respect.
- [The First Night of College: A Parent's Most Important Talk](https://www.centerforrespect.com/first-night-of-college/): The first night of college can shape your student's entire experience. Discover the essential conversation every parent should have before leaving campus.
- [Student Self-Leadership: Moving Beyond Peer Pressure](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-self-leadership-peer-pressure/): Student self-leadership helps teens move beyond peer pressure, set healthy boundaries, own their choices, and make healthier decisions.
- [More Than a Yes: What Healthy Consent Really Looks Like](https://www.centerforrespect.com/more-than-a-yes-healthy-consent/): Healthy consent is more than getting a yes. Learn how mutuality, safety, trust, communication, and respect create healthier intimacy.
- [“Thank you so much. I feel seen and heard, you’re changing lives.”](https://www.centerforrespect.com/thank-you-so-much-i-feel-seen-and-heard-youre-changing-lives/): Yesterday, 1,345 college students reinforced why this work and these programs are essential.After experiencing my “Can I Kiss You?” program at The College of New Jersey, students anonymously shared what they were taking away.**“Thank you so much. I feel seen and heard, you’re changing lives.”**Another student wrote:**“I would describe the session as a powerful reminder
- [20+ Consecutive Years at the Same Schools](https://www.centerforrespect.com/20-consecutive-years-at-the-same-schools/): As I land at O'Hare after 5 campuses in 6 days, I am filled with gratitude (SC, PA, NJ, IA, MO). The last 2 days were speaking at campuses where I've been speaking for at least 20 years to the incoming classes. Almost everyone I first worked with has retired. Yep that ages me. I
- [Consent Is the Bare Minimum: Build Relationships on Respect](https://www.centerforrespect.com/consent-is-the-bare-minimum/): Consent is the bare minimum. Discover how respect, communication, mutuality, trust, and honoring boundaries create healthier relationships.
- [“Thank you, Mike, for reminding me who I am.”](https://www.centerforrespect.com/thank-you-mike-for-reminding-me-who-i-am/): I am grateful for this student’s discovery during my assembly yesterday in Indiana. The school brings me every year to speak with the entire high school. 9th and 10th graders experience the "SAFER Choices" program from me and 11th and 12th graders experience the "Let's Talk" Assembly. "SAFER Choices" is the foundational program on consent,
- [Welcome Week on College and University Campuses and What Makes a Difference](https://www.centerforrespect.com/welcome-week-on-campuses-and-the-essential-discussion-on-consent/): It is Welcome Week on Campuses. Want to see what university and college campuses truly value and care about? Look at what programs and speakers they invest in for setting their students up for success during Welcome Week. Are they doing the bare minimum Title IX presentation or they bringing in thought-provoking and challenging speakers
- [High School Consent Education: 5 Things Students Need to Know](https://www.centerforrespect.com/high-school-consent-education/): High school consent education should give students practical skills. Discover 5 things every student needs to understand about consent and respect.
- [Focusing on "Don't Rape" is not effective sexual assault prevention education.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/focusing-on-dont-rape-is-not-effective-sexual-assault-prevention-education/): Recently, I’m seeing the below meme image everywhere on social meda. It is PROBLEMATIC. I absolutely agree that trying to tell women what not to wear or do is 100% the wrong approach to sexual assault prevention. Nothing the survivor does causes sexual assault. Nothing. I can’t stress that enough. We live in a
- ["No Means No" is Not Enough for Consent Education](https://www.centerforrespect.com/no-means-no-is-not-enough-for-consent-education/): When it comes to consent, schools need to STOP focusing on the phrase "no means no" as their main lesson. WHY? Here's the problem nobody says out loud. "No means no" puts the entire responsibility on the person it's being done to... to say, "NO!" and not on the person taking the action in the
- [3 Consent Myths Everyone Gets Wrong (And What to Say Instead)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/3-consent-myths-everyone-gets-wrong-and-what-to-say-instead/): 3 consent myths can undermine respect and healthy relationships. Learn what to say instead and why asking first builds real connection.
- [Why Saying No Is an Act of Self-Respect (Not Meanness)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/saying-no-is-an-act-of-self-respect/): Saying no is an act of self-respect, not meanness. Learn how healthy boundaries protect your time, relationships, and what matters most.
- [Sexual Deliberation: Building a Culture of Mutuality](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-deliberation-building-a-culture-of-mutuality/): Recently on The Man Rules podcast, our founder Mike Domitrz and host Dan Griffin talk "Man Rules" and how can we build a culture of mutuallity and what does "mutuality" mean? From the show: Why are so many of us confused about consent? The idea has come up a lot lately in the wake of the
- [Rosa Parks and who lead the way](https://www.centerforrespect.com/rosa-parks-and-who-lead-the-way/): Too often in the work to end sexual violence, today’s educators, experts, authors, and activists can be given credit for all the changes that are currently happening. The reality is individuals were doing this work decades and even centuries before any of us currently devoting our lives to these missions were born. A great example
- [Harvey Weinstein Convictions of Rape and Sexual Abuse](https://www.centerforrespect.com/harvey-weinstein-convictions-of-rape-and-sexual-abuse/): Today, the Harvey Weinstein conviction of rape and sexual abuse is a victory. A predator is being held accountable and survivors' voices were heard and valued.
- [Free "HOW TO" ZOOM Meetings with Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/free-how-to-zoom-meeting/): Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus leo. For those of you who are suddenly either needing to communicate from home for work, are learning from home, or are teaching from home, you may be aware Zoom is the most widely utilized video conference program
- [Consent Feels Good](https://www.centerforrespect.com/consent-feels-good/): Shawn is a student who recently saw Mike present the "Can I Kiss You?" program at his University. Shawn decided to share his very inspirational story with The DATE SAFE Project and with you, our community. Thank you Shawn for your courage and your words of wisdom! To share your story or to nominate
- [Honored to be Featured](https://www.centerforrespect.com/honored-to-be-featured/): Thank you to Ezvid Wiki for highlighting our organization for being 1 of 7 organizations they chose throughout the country that works to reduce domestic and sexual violence. Here is the link:https://wiki.ezvid.com/m/7-organizations-working-to-stop-domestic-sexual-violence-YvGdvBjiweKPm mike See Full Bio
- [Escape 9-5](https://www.centerforrespect.com/escape-9-5/): http://www.datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/MikeDomitrzonEscape9to5.mp3 How did The DATE SAFE Project get started? Was it planned? What were the ups and downs along the way? Why did our founder leave his business to create The DATE SAFE Project? Find out all that and more: Why did Mike decide to jump in with both feet? Bankruptcy...almost! What were
- [Talking Helps](https://www.centerforrespect.com/talking-helps/): "Being a survivor myself and listening to the words spoken today, I had tears come to my eyes and goosebumps on my skin thinking back to what happened years ago. Hearing the crowd agree to tell someone that they are worth it, that every survivor IS worth it, that almost made me cry among
- [Sexual Harassment & American Culture](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-harassment-american-culture/): http://www.datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/fbd453d9-082a-4575-a145-ccf47a500c25_hq.mp3 In The News with Voice of America - American Cafe Voice of America - American Cafe with Host David Byrd looks at sexual assault and harassment. In the wake of recent accusations against Hollywood producer Harvey Weinstein, he talks to Mike Domitrz, the founder of the Date Safe Project and the author of the
- [He made strong eye-contact and said, "Can I kiss you?”](https://www.centerforrespect.com/he-made-strong-eye-contact-and-said-can-i-kiss-you/): Laura is a student who recently saw Mike present the "Can I Kiss You?" program at her University. She decided to share her story with The DATE SAFE Project and with you, our community. Thank you Laura for words of wisdom! To share your story or to nominate a story click HERE: Feel free
- [Will all the men who have not done something inappropriate step forward?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/will-all-the-men-who-have-not-done-something-inappropriate-step-forward/): http://www.datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/20171121-033000-VEN060-program.mp3 Did you know that “Voice of America” is a U.S. government-funded international news source that serves as the United States federal government’s official institution for non-military, external broadcasting? Mike, founder of The DATE SAFE Project, has been asked three times in as many weeks by “Voice of America” to help start a discussion on sexual harassment,
- [Modeling Consent in Your Own Life](https://www.centerforrespect.com/20001-2/): On the 80th episode of the Kickin' it with Daree podcast, Mike Domitrz talks with host Daree Allen about building a culture of consent and respect when it comes to the way we treat each other in everyday relationships, including: Why you should never tell your child to hug or kiss someone goodbye The correct response
- [Creating Relationships Built on Respect](https://www.centerforrespect.com/creating-relationships-built-respect/): Join Maria Reitan, host of "Purse Strings" on Cranberry Radio and Mike Domitrz in this powerful and content rich 30 minute discussion. Mike shares not only the story that became The DATE SAFE Project but amazing "How To" skill sets for building mutually amazing relationships! HIT THE PLAY BUTTON BELOW and listen to this
- [Stopping the Perpetuation of Rape Culture](https://www.centerforrespect.com/stopping-perpetuation-rape-culture/): I love spending time with my aunt. She takes me to work, we gossip, I tell her about all the guys I could just die for…. We spend a lot of time together. One particular evening, however, I will never forget. We were sitting at the table. Picture this scene: Two grown men, two grown
- [Trump: his words, his "defiant" apology, and us.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/trump-apology/): 1) A "defiant" apology is not an apology. If Trump were a child making that apology, almost no parents would accept it. In fact, most parents I know would be sitting down that child and teaching them what "sorry" means and what "to apologize" means. 2) An authentic apology does not defer the focus onto
- [Rewind](https://www.centerforrespect.com/rewind/): Today The DATE SAFE Project brings you a special poem from an amazing student guest blogger, Marcie Fennell. Her words are powerful and we think you will agree. Rewind By: Marcie Fennell Rewind the movie back to simpler times. Before my heart was covered in torturous vines. Vines that were carefully woven into my blood vessels
- [Mom Teaches Expectations of Respect](https://www.centerforrespect.com/mom-teaches-expectations-respect/): Mike recently receive this letter filled with great examples of parenting and a daughter's recognition of how special being asked and respected is in a moment of intimacy. Because the letter is filled with lots of positive examples by the Mom and daughter, we asked Jill, the Mom and School Counselor, if we could share
- [Sarah's Story](https://www.centerforrespect.com/saras-story/): One of the lessons we share in the trainings and programs we provide at The DATE SAFE Project is that “Human beings are wired to care for each other.” Too frequently only the stories about lack of respect, degradation and abuses get airtime – making it feel like no one is out there making
- [DSP Partnership with RAINN](https://www.centerforrespect.com/dsp-partnership-with-rainn/): The DATE SAFE Project Participates in RAINN’s Revolutionary Prevention Navigator Tool We are excited to announce, after months of collaboration, that we have been chosen through a rigorous process to participate and partner with RAINN in their new Prevention Navigator tool. The tool provides college administrators and students with a resource to identify and provide
- [Summer Romance: How to Navigate in a Healthy Way](https://www.centerforrespect.com/navigate-summer-romance-healthy-way/): Ah the joy of having no school and the possibilities for a summer romance. Do you remember the freedom many teens looked forward to as June began and they knew school was about to get out? More free time!!! For many teens, that means MORE FREEDOM. Parents at work + no school = opportunity. Add
- [5 Proven Tips to Prep Your High School Graduate for the Post High School Sexual Culture](https://www.centerforrespect.com/5-proven-tips-prep-high-school-graduate-post-high-school-sexual-culture/): You are celebrating. YES! Your child is about to graduate high school. Woo hoo! Now he or she is ready to go on to post-high school life . . . but are you sure? I’ve been there multiple times—a dad is excited for his child’s next journey in life. The question is, “Is our
- [How to Support the Survivors in Your Life](https://www.centerforrespect.com/how-to-support-the-survivors-in-your-life/): How have you reacted when you heard about a sexual assault case? From the comments that you made, will a survivor think you are going to be supportive? Starting today, say the right words. Talk to everyone you care about and share the following message (referred to as “opening the door” for survivors): “If anyone
- [Your Sexual Relationship Rights](https://www.centerforrespect.com/your-sexual-rights/): Do you know your Sexual Relationship Rights? Many of us will be in a sexual relationship at some point in our lives. We are taught what not to do in a relationship; don’t be selfish, don’t force your partner to do something they don’t want to do, and don’t abuse your partner in any way.
- [Why Is Consent So Confusing to Some?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/consent-confusing/): If you have been listening to the media or been on FaceBook, you might have seen the video “Consent: It’s As Simple As Tea” or, the “1 in 5” video where sexual assault is symbolized as a bear. While these videos can be a good starting point to conversation, they can also be a bit
- [Removing Sexist Gender Teachings](https://www.centerforrespect.com/removing-sexist-gender-teachings/): How many of you have heard these statements before? -“When it comes to sex, men can’t control themselves.” -“Look at how she dressed. What did she think would happen?” Beliefs like the ones above can often become an excuse for cultures to carry on a way of thinking and acting that is disrespectful, degrading, and
- [A Resolution for 2016](https://www.centerforrespect.com/resolution-2016/): A new year is often seen as a new beginning; a time to leave the past behind and charge head first into the future. Many people make resolutions to lose weight, go to the gym, or give something up for the New Year. Bettering oneself is always a great idea. What about taking a look
- [Are Mutually Amazing Relationships Possible in the Age of Technology?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/age-of-technology/): We live in an era when you have many different ways to communicate via technology. You can text, email, send a snapchat, record a vine… The alternatives to having face-to-face conversations seem to grow the week. People will frequently say, “I rarely answer my phone. Text me.” or “Don’t bother calling. Instead send me an
- [What it takes to have a Mutually Amazing Relationship](https://www.centerforrespect.com/relationshiprealitiesmar/): In the movies and on TV, relationships happen very easily and quickly. Tension builds as the program progresses. Characters show obvious signs of liking each other. Usually, the tensions build to such an extreme that in one dramatic moment (usually when the couple is segregated from the rest of the group by a dramatic plot
- [An Exciting Announcement for 2016: Our Education thru Engagement Workshop](https://www.centerforrespect.com/educationthurengagement2016/): We have some VERY exciting news here at The Date Safe Project! Today, we are announcing our new premier Workshop in June, Education thru Engagement. After watching the below video announcement from Mike, click here to learn more! Click here to learn more about the workshop! Education Thru Engagement New for 2016, our Education Thru
- [DSP & EMMY Award-Winning Show](https://www.centerforrespect.com/part-emmy-award-winning-show/): Last May (2015), WABC-TV out of New York City produced a powerful and helpful TV Special for both parents and teenagers addressing sexting, sextortion, and safe dating. When the Producers first contacted me to be part of this annual TV Special titled "Protect Our Children," I was honored. Here is the history of this program from WABC's website: This
- [Discriminatory Mississippi "Religious Freedom" Laws Deny Potential Customers Services & Treat them Like Second-Class Citizens](https://www.centerforrespect.com/discriminatory-mississippi-laws-deny-potential-customers-services-treat-them-like-second-class-citizens/): What has been your reaction to the recent laws enacted in North Carolina and Mississippi where "religious freedom” is being touted as a way to deny services to certain Americans? Read about the law here. One of our main principles at The Date Safe Project is to treat every human being with dignity and
- [Kasich on Campus Sexual Assault and Harassment](https://www.centerforrespect.com/kasich-campus-sexual-assault-harasmment/): Recently, presidential candidate, John Kasich, answered a freshman student's question during a town hall meeting in Canton, N.Y., on the campus of St. Lawrence University. I speak to the freshman every fall at St. Lawrence University about transforming culture into one of consent and respect. The question asked by the student was related to how Kasich would
- [April Is Sexual Assault Awareness Month](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-awareness-month-2016/): Sexual Assault Awareness Month is April. April provides everyone a special opportunity to team up with communities and organizations to focus the world’s attention to the mission of reducing sexual assault, supporting survivors, and opening the door to having discussions on long-term approaches to cultural transformation on an annual basis. How? Many communities, school districts,
- [Is it Time to Consider a New Career Pathway? (P.S., We're hiring at The Date Safe Project.)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/19188-2/): Working the standard 9-to-5 corporate gig can be all-consuming and leave you feeling empty and exhausted at the end of the day. Why do we sometimes choose to follow this path if it’s not fulfilling? Maybe it’s how “success” has been defined in our socio-economic circle and we bought in to that story. Or perhaps
- [Consent Laws Need to Be Changed: Start with Oklahoma](https://www.centerforrespect.com/consent-laws-oklahoma/): What are your state's consent laws and statutes regarding sexual assault? Have you heard about the recent Oklahoma Appeals Court decision stating that “Forcible sodomy cannot occur where a victim is so intoxicated as to be completely unconscious at the time of the sexual act of oral copulation"? To read the details of the Oklahoma sodomy case
- [May is National Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month: Do You Talk to Your Teens about Pregnancy Prevention?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/national-teen-pregnancy-prevention-month/): Did you know May is National Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month? May is also prom season and has summer right around the corner. How do you talk with teens about teen pregnancy prevention? As I travel working with teenagers around the country, one aspect is consistent: The far majority of teens want to make the
- [My Kid Would Never Do That... Right?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/mkwndtright/): Last Sunday, I had the AMAZING opportunity to be a part of Dateline NBC’s “My Kid Would Never Do That”. To be a part of the show and to have the opportunity to share our mission across the country with a major TV network was an honor. The episode focused on teens and what to
- [Have YOU Ever Asked for a Kiss?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/asked-kiss-nyc-streets/): Too often when discussing consent and asking first, people assume the worst case scenario of hearing, "No" (even though the same person could be rejected by going for it without asking first - including hearing the word, "No"). Asking for a kiss is about giving your partner a choice BEFORE any sexual contact begins. The
- [John Oliver's Discussion of Sex Education and Where We Go From Here](https://www.centerforrespect.com/john-olivers-sex-education/): Recently, comedian John Oliver discussed Sexual Education in America on HBO's Last Week Tonight (watch video segment here). His take on sexual education (or lack thereof) in America showcased some of the wide gaps in what we teach our children about sex and relationships. While not everyone will be a fan of the way he
- [The Impact of Eliminating Gender Roles](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-impact-of-gender-roles/): “What do you want – all gender roles to be eliminated?” asked a person who identified as a middle-age, heterosexual male attending one of my programs addressing the transformation of our culture to one based on respect and consent. What if gender roles were eliminated? What would society look like? What would relationships look like?
- [A Single Text Message](https://www.centerforrespect.com/single-text-message/): I was meeting students after the “Can I Kiss You?” program at Bishop’s University, a student came up to me and asked, “Can I show you my phone?” I said, “Sure.” She showed me a text from her boyfriend – who was also in the audience attending the “Can I Kiss You?” program. They were
- [The Life of a Speaker, Part One](https://www.centerforrespect.com/life-speaker-part/): Hello everyone! I am Jo Jones, Director of Initiatives with The DATE SAFE Project. I am taking over today’s blog post for a different kind of blog. Each week, we hear from Mike Domitrz about different topics related to consent, respect, bystander intervention, how-to skill sets for making positive, respectful choices, and other serious topics.
- [Talk to Your Student](https://www.centerforrespect.com/talk-student/): When is the last time you spoke with your high school or college age student? I don’t mean the quick, 5 minute “how is everything going” talk. I mean the “hey, let’s go have dinner and catch-up” kind of talk. Parents and kids lead incredibly busy lives, which can make it extremely difficult to
- [Examiner.com Interview](https://www.centerforrespect.com/examinercom-interview/): Thank you to Stephanie Reed at Examiner.com for her interview of our Founder, Mike Domitrz, about The Date Safe Project. Over the past decade, more attention is being given to dangerous sexual behavior among our youth and to the crime of sexual assault----mainly due to cases and news stories concerning celebrities, middle schools, high schools,
- [The TRAP of Campus Sexual Assault Stats](https://www.centerforrespect.com/trap-campus-sexual-assault-stats/): In recent weeks, we've been seeing a push for college and university rankings to include sexual assault statistics in their ranking criteria (Princeton Review and US News & World Report). While we want parents and students to be as aware as possible of campus safety, looking at the campus crime statistics may not tell you much
- [Wisconsin Public Radio: "The Kathleen Dunn Show"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/wisconsin-public-radio-kathleen-dunn-show/): Thank you to WPR's "The Kathleen Dunn Show" for inviting our Founder, Mike Domitrz to share insights with host John Munson on educating our youth about respect and boundaries, sexual assault awareness in the military and society, and answering callers questions. Some of the questions answered: Has there been a switch in the
- [San Diego Living](https://www.centerforrespect.com/san-diego-living/): Thank you to San Diego 6 - The CW for inviting our Founder, Mike Domitrz, on San Diego Living this morning. Heather has Mike share some insights for parents to have the conversations with their children regarding respect & boundaries.
- [Northwest Florida State Coach, please care about EVERY student](https://www.centerforrespect.com/northwest-florida-state-basketball/): Have you heard about the college basketball player who has been released from TWO universities for accusations of separate sexual assaults at each institution and now a third school is offering him a scholarship to play basketball? That campus is Northwest Florida State. What is the history of this athlete? He "was one of three University of
- ["Fifty Shades of Grey" and Sexual Exploration](https://www.centerforrespect.com/fifty-shades-grey-sexual-exploration/): This post was originally published on HuffingtonPost.com: The film Fifty Shades of Grey is being released on February 13th, just in time for Valentine's Day. Sexual images are everywhere, and often the most awkward conversations involve parents talking to their children about sexual exploration and personal safety. We need to have these conversations, because if
- [Watch Us On Dateline NBC!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/dateline-nbc-appearance2015/): Teens are at a party where alcohol is present. Suddenly, the situation is about to get worse. Your child is at the party and sees the situation about to explode in a way that could hurt another person at the party. What would your child do? Would they respond the way you raised them to?
- [Campus SaVE ACT: 2 Viewpoints](https://www.centerforrespect.com/campus-save-act-2-viewpoints/): Campus SaVE A LOT of campus professionals have been asking questions and talking about the Campus SaVE Act. Below are 2 viewpoints for you to gain insights from - one from Connie Kirkland and one from Brett Sokolow. Please share your thoughts in the COMMENTS section at the end of this article. From Brett Sokolow
- [Unintended Messaging In Posters from Missoula](https://www.centerforrespect.com/unintended-missoula-in-posters/): Have you seen the thought-provoking "Make Your Move" posters created by Missoula's Intervention in Action Project for promoting bystander intervention to stop rape and sexual assault (scroll down to see a large version of one of the posters)? We want to applaud Missoula's Intervention in Action Project for taking a proactive approach to addressing bystander intervention in sexual
- [A big THANKS goes out to Wisconsin media](https://www.centerforrespect.com/whitewater-milwaukee/): In just 24 hours, the 2 largest NBC stations in Wisconsin (WTMJ4 in Milwaukee and Madison15) covered our organization along with the "Janesville Gazette" and the WhitewaterBanner. A huge THANKS goes out to all of the reporters, news anchors, and photographers.
- [Brene Brown's "The Gifts of Imperfection" is a MUST READ!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/gifts-of-imperfection-brene-brown/): Brene Brown's "The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are" is a book that will challenge you to evaluate how you view and treat yourself. Brene is an accomplished researcher who became famous through her riveting TED Talks and her best-selling books. Whether you are single
- [Listen to Laurie Flasko online on Gift of RESPECT](https://www.centerforrespect.com/meet-laurie-flasko-live-today-on-gift-of-respect/): Laurie Flasko is president and founder of Laurie Flasko and Associates. She is a speaker, workshop leader and consultant with more than twenty years of experience in the fields of leadership, customer service, team building… and most recently, bullying. She is a Certified Professional Speaker with the National Speakers Association (one of the fifty-one Canadians awarded
- [Mike Domitrz on Fox6 "WakeUp": Tips for Parents](https://www.centerforrespect.com/fox6-news-tips-for-parents/): Fox 6 "WakeUp" Morning News Show had our Founder, Mike Domitrz, in-studio to share 5 important steps for parents to address dating, intimacy, consent, bystander intervention, and sexual decision-making. Watch the below interview and you will also discover what inspired Mike to begin the mission of our organization, The DATE SAFE Project. Plus, find out the 5 important
- [Latest Steubenville Charges Reflect Accountability](https://www.centerforrespect.com/steubenville-charges-accountability/): For society to reflect a culture that does not permit the sexual assault of a minor to go unpunished, we must hold accountable those adults who fail to step forward with pertinent information in sexual assault cases - specifically adults who agreed to protect minors as part of their jobs. In the sexual assault case
- [Jameis Winston Case and Victim Blaming](https://www.centerforrespect.com/jameis-winston-case-and-victim-blaming/): Over the past few weeks, many sports writers and personalities have been discussing whether Jameis Winston, the Heisman candidate quarterback at Florida State University, will be charged with sexual assault. Before Thanksgiving, the State Attorney, Willie Meggs, said any announcement of charges would probably not occur for at least 2 weeks. As this case is
- [Meet Award-Winning Slam Poet Pages Matam on Gift of RESPECT](https://www.centerforrespect.com/meet-award-winning-slam-poet-pages-matam-on-gift-of-respect/): Pages Matam is a multidimensional creative writing and performance artist originally from Cameroon, Africa. He is a Write Bloody author, educator, playwright, host, event organizer, Award Winning slam poet (2 time DC Grand Slam Champion, 2013 Southern Fried Champion) along with his greatest accomplishment, being a father. A proud gummy bear elitist, bowtie enthusiast, professional
- [Hear Coach Randy Nathan, Sports Bully Expert, on Gift of RESPECT](https://www.centerforrespect.com/meet-coach-randy-nathan-sports-bully-expert-live-on-gift-of-respect/): As a Sports Bully Expert Coach Randy Nathan has worked with thousands of youth, teens, parents and adults to help create better lives. For the past eight years he has worked with countless youth who have been bullied, as well as those students who bully. Randy has coached baseball and softball at the recreational, travel, middle and high school levels.
- [How Is Your Doctor Talking about SEX with Your Teen?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/helping-doctors-talk-about-sex/): According to a recent report, the far majority of pediatricians are not talking thoroughly with teenagers about a teen's sexual knowledge and/or experience (even though doing so is considered very important for one's health). Click here to read the full article. Relying on parents, Moms and Dads, has consistently proven not to be effective. College
- [Date Safe Project Featured in Speaker Magazine](https://www.centerforrespect.com/speaker-magazine-domitrz/): Milwaukee, WI (January 6, 2014) --- Speaker Magazine, the signature publication of the National Speakers Association, has featured Mike Domitrz and The DATE SAFE Project in its January 2014 issue. Domitrz is the Founder of The DATE SAFE Project, a global awareness program focused on education to reduce sexual assault. Click here to read the
- [More Sexual Assault Survivors Coming Forward in the Military](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military-sexual-asault-survivors/): As recently reported on ThinkProgress.com, the number of sexual assault survivors in the military coming forward in the past few years has increased dramatically. Survivors feeling empowered to come forward is a HUGE positive. Obviously, we never want sexual assault to take place. When the crime does happen, we want every survivor to know his
- [Darren Sharper Sexual Assault Charges Reinforce Why Pro Sports Need PRO-Active Education](https://www.centerforrespect.com/darren-sharper-sexual-assault-charges-reinforce-pro-sports-proactive-education/): The recent sexual assault and rape charges against former NFL player, Darren Sharper, are a reminder of why all professional sports leagues need to take a PROactive approach to TEACHing respect and consent in sexual intimacy on an ongoing basis. PROactive means you find the BEST educational programs for providing your athletes and employees with
- [Would someone who attempted murder get to stay on your campus? Survivors DESERVE Justice.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/murderer-stay-campus-survivors-deserve-justice/): Have you read the article titled "Rape at colleges; Victims challenge policies favoring attackers" by Katy Murphy? Did you know that on some campuses perpetrators of sexual assault (found guilty in the campus judicial process) are only given "probation" and thus are able to STAY on campus and continue his/her education? In addition to Katy's article, we
- [University of Michigan and Mizzou Athletic Programs FAIL to Show Accountability on Sexual Assault](https://www.centerforrespect.com/university-michigan-mizzou-football-sexual-assault/): From the University of Michigan to the University of Missouri, breaking news has occurred in the past week regarding sexual assaults involving athletes on campus AND the campus failing to take quick, appropriate actions. ESPN's "Outside the Lines" did a feature story on Sasha Menu Courey, a member of the University of Missouri swim team who
- [Student QUESTION of the Week:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-question-week/): "How do I know it is the right time for intimacy and be sure of my decision?" What advice would you give this student?
- [Dylan Farrow Speaks Out](https://www.centerforrespect.com/dylan-farrow-speaks/): Dylan Farrow has shared a powerful letter which was published by the New York Times. Click here to read the full article. Hearing from a survivor is always powerful and inspiring. The strength and courage to come forward and share with the world is to be admired and praised. How are ways you would like
- [The VALENTINE'S QUESTION:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/valentines-question/): Having a CONSENSUAL VALENTINE'S Day After all, Valentines as a child was about ASKING "Will you be my valentine?" What else could you ask of your partner?
- [620WTMJ Morning Show](https://www.centerforrespect.com/620wtmj-morning-show/): THANK YOU to 620WTMJ for having Founder, Mike Domitrz, on the morning show to discuss The DATE SAFE Project, the tools that teens learn during the program, and how parents can further the conversation at home.
- [Student QUESTION of the Week:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-question-week-3/): How do you know if someone likes you enough to date? Also, I'm too shy a person to ask a someone out because of the possibility of rejection. How do I hint to someone that we should date? What advice would you give this student?
- [Watch The DATE SAFE Project on Fox's "Studio A" Show](https://www.centerforrespect.com/fox6/): A BIG Thank you to Fox6 NOW for inviting our Founder Mike Domitrz to talk about The DATE SAFE Project. Mike shares the skills that are taught to Middle School and High School students during the "Can I Kiss You?" program. Some topics discussed are: How to use your voice Wording that can be used Student
- [Student QUESTION of the Week:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-question-week-4/): What do I do when "hooking up" has never had any appeal to me but it seems to be what most girls in college want? Share your insights and answers in the comments below.
- [Student QUESTION of the week: How do I talk about being a survivor?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-question-week-talk-survivor/): "How do talk to people about being sexually assaulted without them looking at me differently and how do I tell the people I love most what happened to me so that it doesn't ruin my family dynamic?" Please share your insights with this student in the comments below.
- [NAS Panama City Observes Sexual Assault Awareness Month](https://www.centerforrespect.com/nas-panama-city-observes-sexual-assault-awareness-month/): Naval Support Activity Panama City held a ceremony at the Naval Diving and Salvage Training Center on Friday afternoon. We were honored to be asked to be a part of this important occasion where Commanding Office, Commander Christopher Serow, signed the "Sexual Assault Awareness Month Proclamation" which signifies its start and the importance of this month
- [Navy Website Covers "Can I Kiss You?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/navy-website-covers-kiss/): It is always an honor to work with the men and women in our military. This year, the US Navy has invited our Founder, Mike Domitrz, to present the "Can I Kiss You?" program to all 15 bases in the Navy Region Southeast, including Guantanamo Bay, Cuba. Chief Master-at-Arms Jesse Lindsay covered the program at
- [Joint Base Charleston Combats Sexual Assault](https://www.centerforrespect.com/joint-base-charleston-combats-sexual-assault/): Thank you to ABC Channel 4 Charleston for covering the "Can I Kiss You" program at Joint Base Charleston. We are very honored to be working with the military to end sexual assault. You can watch the video here: WCIV-TV | ABC News 4 - Charleston News, Sports, Weather
- [UW Madison TA uses TAKS drinking game in Business Class](https://www.centerforrespect.com/uw-madison-ta-uses-taks-drinking-game-in-business-class/): This morning, a UW-Madison TA (Teaching Assistant) appears to have used the following slide in a business class asking students what the probability is of one student to get to make-out with a girl who is drunk from playing a drinking game involving vodka. The message being shared in such an example in the classroom
- [Don Jon, Pornography, "YES! YES! YES!"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/don-jon-pornography-gordon-levitt/): In the movie "Don Jon", Joseph Gordon-Levitt (along with Scarlett Johansson and Julianne Moore) explores the issue of how pornography impacts real-life relationships. One of the most damaging aspects of pornography is how much it can negatively impacts a person's reality of emotional intimacy, sexual experiences, and appreciating the gift of the human body. YOUR
- [Domestic Violence Survivors and the phrase "Voluntarily Remain"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/domestic-violence-survivors-celebrities-voluntarily-remain/): The news report titled "Celebs who were once victims now shed light on domestic violence" (click here to read) asks the question, "Why have so many women been in and voluntarily remain in situations of psychological, emotional or physical mistreatment to the point that they end up in real danger?" That question is part of the
- ["SAFE Sex" - PLEASE add the "R"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/safe-sex-add-the-r/): Do you notice how often people refer to "Safe Sex"? The phrase is misleading. Many would say it is a lie. There is no such thing as "safe sex." There is SAFER Sex. When you talk to people about being safer with sex, please always include the "r" at the end of "safer." "Safe Sex"
- [Student QUESTION of the Week: Intimacy without Sex](https://www.centerforrespect.com/question-intimacy-without-sex/): A student recently asked the following question: QUESTION: With my faith (I am a very conservative Christian) sex before marriage is NOT ALLOWED. How can a couple still be close and intimate with each other without being sexually intimate? I believe that the heart and soul should connect long before the bodies do. How can people like me find
- [Chris Brown, survivor, STILL sounds like an abuser - bragging about how he lost his virginity at 8 years old.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/chris-brown-loses-his-virginity-at-8/): Chris Brown, the singer who in the past said he learned from his past mistakes of violently hurting Rihanna, is now bragging about how he lost his virginity when he was eight years old. Yes BRAGGING. In the interview (read entire interview with "The Guardian" here), he says: "So, at eight, being able to do
- [A Feminist](https://www.centerforrespect.com/feminist/): Recently, I was speaking on a campus when a professor shared that she follows my work. As we were talking, she referred to me as a "Feminist." Have you noticed that "feminist" is said less nowadays than it was 20 years ago? Unfortunately, today the word is often used it is as a negative attack
- [The Coleman Family, A Survivor, and Maryville, MO](https://www.centerforrespect.com/survivor-coleman-maryville/): Too often we see cases where survivors come forward and the community fails to support the survivor. One such case involves Melinda Coleman's Family in Maryville, MO (read full story here). Sadly, people online are looking deeply into what the survivor did instead of what the perpetrator's actions and decisions were. You'll see some
- [Albert, James Gandolfini, ASKS FIRST](https://www.centerforrespect.com/albert-james-gandolfini-asks-first/): This weekend, Karen and I went to see "Enough Said" featuring Julia Louis-Dreyfus and James Gandolfini (who passed away earlier this year). POTENTIAL SPOILER ALERT Please know that what I'm about to share is not a major spoiler to the movie. However, if you do not want to know ANYTHING about a movie before you
- [Volunteers verses forcing student involvement.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/volunteers-verses-forcing-student-involvement/): In the past week, you may have heard about a news story out of Poughkeepsie, NY discussing how female middle school students were "forced" to ask each other for a "lesbian kiss" in a classroom presentation (please know the "lesbian kiss" is the exact quote being published in all the media sources). We have since
- [Prom is NOT a Big Deal](https://www.centerforrespect.com/prom-not-big-deal/): In communities throughout our country, its PROM SEASON. Prom is a DANCE - nothing more and nothing less. The more parents make a big deal out of Prom, the more pressure kids feel to have Prom live up to being something bigger than it is. If you choose to go to Prom, have FUN. Stick
- [Krusinski: the military addressing sexual assault](https://www.centerforrespect.com/krusinski-military-addressing-sexual-assault/): Over the years, I have been honored to work with many dedicated, passionate, and caring professionals addressing sexual assault in our military. When presenting the "Can I Kiss You?" program on military installations around the world, I get to work with the Victim Advocates, the SARCs (Sexual Assault Response Coordinator), the Chaplains, the Command/Leadership of
- [Teenage dating, Serena Williams, and Rolonda](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teenage-dating-serena-williams-and-rolonda/): Recently, Rolonda Watts invited me onto to her show "Sundays with Rolonda" to discuss teen dating, especially for helping parents and educators with providing proper guidance. Plus, we talked about Serena William's comments referencing the Stuebenville, OH case. Rolonda also explored mistakes parents and adults often make regarding talking to teenagers about intimacy. Rolonda always
- [Breaking News on HookUps is NOT](https://www.centerforrespect.com/breaking-news-on-hookups-montos/): We have been saying for the past 5 years that a societal "Hookup Culture" is NOT a reality and hasn't been for any generation in the past 30 years. Now research is catching up to prove today's students are not much different than their parents in sexual behaviors and practices. Martin Monto, a sociology professor
- [Dr. Phil McGraw Apologizes for Tweet](https://www.centerforrespect.com/dr-phil-mcgraw-apologizes-for-tweet/): Have you seen any of the discussion and reactions to a Tweet Dr. Phil McGraw sent out in advance of an upcoming episode of his TV show discussing sexual assault and alcohol? Out of respect for survivors of sexual assault, we are not reposting the tweet in this article. You can always find it with
- ["Defined Lines" parody of "Blurred Lines" - Your Reaction](https://www.centerforrespect.com/defined-lines-parody-of-blurred-lines-your-reaction/): The video "Defined Lines" on YouTube is a Rated "R" parody of Robin Thicke's original video of "Blurred Lines" where all the females in the video are topless. This parody was created by The Law Revue (Auckland University students). Last week, we blogged about the Robin Thicke and Miley Cyrus performance at the VMAs -
- [Focus on Your Sons - Not Their Female Friends](https://www.centerforrespect.com/kimberly-hall-blog-post/): Recently, a friend of mine on FaceBook posted the blog post titled "FYI (if you're a teenage girl)" which can be read in its entirety by clicking here. The writer of the blog post is Kimberly Hall, Director of Women's Ministry at All Saints PCA in Austin, TX. This friend of mine who shared the
- [Chant involving Rape Beliefs during Orientation Week](https://www.centerforrespect.com/chant-involving-rape-beliefs-during-orientation-week/): As someone who works with some of the largest universities in Canada, the news breaking this past week of the chant during O-Week (Orientation) at St. Mary's University in Nova Scotia was saddening (click here to read). Now some people in Canada are wondering if this situation is due to campuses not caring about sexual
- [STUDENT ASKS HOW NOT TO FEAR SAYING "NO"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/how-not-to-fear-saying-no/): "To not be afraid to say no when a guy is showing signs of hoping to get some from me. Like I'm too concerned with making friends in college that I don't say 'no' but don't say 'yes' either. I just shy away, but I end up in bad situations." The above statement is one
- [Public Sex Talk](https://www.centerforrespect.com/public-sex-talk/): On a recent flight, while I had the window seat, the woman next to me in the middle seat asked what I do. Upon telling her I share “How To” skills for healthy intimacy while working to reduce sexual assault and increase support for survivors, she shared that she just recently had a sexuality discussion
- [Parents & the "Things" we Say.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parents-the-things-we-say/): While speaking to the incoming class at a university recently in Georgia, the students (average age was 18 years old) shared the following statements their parents made to the about sex. Under each statement is the most logical response they had for that parent: “Don’t Get Pregnant” RESPONSE: You know Mom if you hadn’t told
- [Mother of Teen Survivor on Dr. Laura Berman](https://www.centerforrespect.com/mother-of-teen-survivor-on-dr-laura-berman/): This past Tuesday when Dr. Laura Berman from the Oprah Radio Network (OWN) had me on as her guest expert, the mother of a teenage survivor of sexual assault called into the show. The sexual assault occurred 2 years ago and now the daughter is a teenager. The Mom was asking how to help her
- [Violence & Nudity.  What does your child see and hear?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/violence-nudity/): What does your child hear? What does your child see? What does your child absorb? When your child is at home, what images does he or she see on TV, the Internet, magazine covers, books, newspapers, iTouch, DS? What do you fear most? Your child seeing images of nudity or violence? What about at
- [KIA Responds to Dangerous Ad with Promise!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/let-kia-know-this-ad-is-dangerous/): To the right, you are going to see an "Award Winning" Advertisement from KIA involving a teacher and a student. Be warned the Ad is considered disturbing by many observers. Please help us tell KIA and advertising firms around the world that this approach to marketing and selling is unacceptable! To promote pedophilia to sell
- [Time Alone for Talking with Your Teenage Son](https://www.centerforrespect.com/time-along-for-talking-with-your-teenage-son/): When is the right time to talk with your teenage son or daughter about important issues? This week, my wife is up North for the entire week with our 8th grade son at Boy Scout Camp. Yes, she is in living in a tent during a heat wave. Unfortunately, tents do not have air conditioning.
- [Safe Talk with Children & Parents by Maryann Makekau](https://www.centerforrespect.com/safe-talk-with-children-parents-by-maryann-makekau/): Safe means to protect from hurt and talk means to communicate. Therefore, safe talk means to protect from hurt by communicating! Parents are encouraged to talk with their children early on about peer pressure, alcohol, drugs and sex. There are billboards, commercials, seminars and books full of reminders to talk. How parents talk, however, is
- [Dakota Fanning Advertisement for Marc Jacobs](https://www.centerforrespect.com/dakota-fanning-advertisement-for-marc-jacobs/): Seventeen year old Dakota Fanning was featured in an advertisement for Marc Jacob's "Oh, Lola!" perfume. The perfume bottle in the Ad has a huge rose flower blossoming out of the bottle. The perfume bottle is placed between Dakota's legs as she is wearing a thigh length dress. The image of the Ad is not
- [Bernie Fine, Jerry Sandusky and Herman Cain: Think FIRST before reacting publicly!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/syracuse-boeheim-fine-cain-sandusky-patern-sexual-assault/): Recently, the Syracuse University Head Basketball Coach, Jim Boeheim, apologized for his initial reactions to the case involving his former assistant coach, Bernie Fine. At the time of Boeheim's initial comments, Fine was still on his coach staff (click here to read the entire article). Boeheim's apology was well stated, especially his reference to child
- [Sex Ed: For Parents or Students (preteens or teens)?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sex-ed-for-parents-or-students-preteens-or-teens/): Who needs Sex Ed more? Parents or students (preteens or teens)? From Abstinence Only to Comprehensive Sex Ed, Sex Ed has various meanings and belief systems attached to the concept depending on your community, upbringing, school system, government, and many more variables. While many towns and cities around the country debate how and if "Sex
- [QUESTION of the WEEK](https://www.centerforrespect.com/question-of-the-week/): Whether teens or adults, what questions do people need help with regarding dating, relationships, sexual-decision making, and being happy? This can be a question you have OR a question you think others need help with. Post as many questions as you can think of in the COMMENTS section below. If you want complete confidentiality, then post
- [Sex in Bahrain](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sex-in-bahrain/): Last week, I was speaking to the US Military in Bahrain. While talking with a local, he asked what I speak about. Upon hearing that I teach verbal consent for sexual activity, he asked, "You mean for the husband to ask his wife for sex?" I explained that we teach BOTH partners to ask each
- ["Hope Springs" into Your Bedroom](https://www.centerforrespect.com/hope-springs-into-your-bedroom-2/): My wife, Karen, and I have been married 18 years and both of us love going to the movies. This past Saturday we saw the movie “Hope Springs.” “Hope Springs” stars Tommy Lee Jones and Meryl Streep trying intensive marriage counseling – with Steve Carell as the therapist. While not giving away the storyline,
- [Teens, Oral Sex, & the CDC](https://www.centerforrespect.com/cdc-teen-sex/): Yesterday, Reuters news service reported on a study just released by the Center for Disease Control (CDC) and Prevention's Center for Vital Statistics showing that oral sex is not being practiced more than vaginal sex among teenagers (link to the article here). The article shares that the percentage of teens who have engaged in oral sex has
- [Teacher Student Meetings Should Never Be in a Bedroom: Educators, Students, and Sexual Crimes](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teacher-student-meetings-should-never-be-in-a-bedroom-educators-students-and-sexual-crimes/): Over the past decade, you may have noticed a dramatic increase in the number of sexual assault cases involving teachers and their students being covered by national news outlets. The common reaction you hear is, “It’s wrong for a teacher to engage in a sexual act with a minor.” What about when the student is
- [DATE SAFE Movie Night: Moonrise Kingdom](https://www.centerforrespect.com/date-safe-movie-night-moonrise-kingdom/): The latest movie by Wes Anderson, Moonrise Kingdom, addresses the range of intense personal relationships from teen romance to adult romance to friendships, parenting, and more (click here to watch trailer). While the scene where the 12-year-olds experiment with sexual intimacy would be much more appropriate at an older age, the conversation they displayed was
- [Remove Akin & Educate: Show Survivors of Rape We Care.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/remove-todd-akin/): When I started speaking out about sexual assault in 1991, many of us on college campuses were struggling just to get the public to realize how often sexual assault was happening. Our approach of Asking First to gain consent wasn’t even considered realistic because the focus at the time was on preventing rape by teaching
- [Mom’s “Stay Vertical” Provides Teaching Moment](https://www.centerforrespect.com/moms-stay-vertical-provides-teaching-moment/): A female college student in a recent audience shared that her Mom tried to tell her not to have sex by saying, “stay vertical” when with a partner. A fellow audience member thought the daughter should have responded at that moment with: “Mom, that makes for both exciting and challenging sex.” What do you think
- [Be a Friend. Pay YOUR Way](https://www.centerforrespect.com/be-a-friend-pay-your-way/): When you go out this weekend with your boyFriend or girlFriend, be a Friend and pay your way! By doing so, you are treating each other fairly and you remove all possibilities for someone to mistakenly believe money spent on a date means "something" is expected for the cash spent. How do you take this
- [Sex, TV Commercials, and the Super Bowl](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sex-tv-commercials-and-the-super-bowl/): Based on past history, you know TV commercials during the Super Bowl are going to include sexual innuendos - some subtle and other blatant. The conversation often never had is, "What could have been?" How could the same concepts have been done to better reflect respect toward intimacy and sex? Welcome to the 1st Annual
- [Valentine's Day on Away We Grow](https://www.centerforrespect.com/away-we-grow-talk-love-domitrz/): "Away We Grow" on Yahoo's SHINE network (the #1 web show for parents) featured our Founder, Mike Domitrz, sharing tips for parents about talking to their teen sons and daughters about love and relationships. Host Diane Mizota asks some great questions in this quick, helpful episode. Watch the episode by clicking this link. Then
- [Bob Beckel, Date Rape, and Fox News](https://www.centerforrespect.com/bob-beckel-rape-fox-news/): Did you see the video segment of Bob Beckel referring to rape not occurring on college campuses? Did you respond as many of us did by thinking, "What did he just say?" His co-hosts reacted with shock. Watch below to the see the segment AND to join the conversation. Yes, you read correctly. [field name="video"] Login
- ["Hook Up" Culture is a MYTH](https://www.centerforrespect.com/hook-up-culture-is-a-myth/): USA Today recently published the article More college 'hookups,' but more virgins, too" further spreading the myth of college students living in a "Hook Up" culture. Yes, I said, "MYTH." In a recent inquiry from a national news outlet, I share the following 4 points with the reporter, 1. How a MYTH? Yes, the concept
- [Minors Can't Give Consent to Slavery](https://www.centerforrespect.com/minors-cant-give-consent-to-slavery/): G3nerations.org is a powerful website helping reveal how many minors are being sexually assaulted in the UNITED STATES by being trafficked in the sex industry. Please watch the video trailer at www.G3nerations.org by clicking here. You will realize this problem is not just an international issue - as often portrayed. We need a
- [Back and Ready for 2010-2011 School Year](https://www.centerforrespect.com/back-and-ready-for-2010-2011-school-year/): As you may have noticed, I was gone for the past 2 weeks (completely away from email and computers). The time allows for a time to recharge. Now, I'm back and excited to be writing a NEW BLOG POST EVERY DAY Monday through Friday! Please stop by daily to interact on the blog and see
- [Technology verses Words](https://www.centerforrespect.com/technology-verses-words/): When teaching verbal skills, many Moms, Dads, and educators continually share how teens would rather text than talk. To their credit, many teens are fantastic at multi-tasking and quickly absorbing technology uses to fit their lifestyle. The unfortunate consequence is these skills are happening at the cost of losing one-on-one verbal tools. What do you
- ["American Teen" Movie Night](https://www.centerforrespect.com/american-teen-movie-night/): Who would like to watch the new movie "American Teen" with me LIVE and talk via FaceBook about the movie? Say, "YES" and let me know in the COMMENTS section below which day of the week and time works best for you. Then, we will announce a date and time. If you have NetFlix, it is
- [Want a Program donated?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/want-a-program-donated/): Would you love to have the "Can I Kiss You?" program and/or "HELP! My Teen Is Dating" seminar for parents presented at your service group (guest speaker) or for a local non-profit organization, faith institution, community group, or a regional/national conference? Every year, we at The Date Safe Project Inc donate a number of presentations to
- [George Clooney's Quote on Piers Morgan Tonight](https://www.centerforrespect.com/george-clooneys-great-quote-on-piers-morgan-tonight/): On "Piers Morgan Tonight" on CNN, George Clooney shared the following lesson his parents taught him about life: "to help look out for people that are less fortunate than you and to challenge people that are in power." George Clooney YES! YES! YES! My only adaptation would be to say, "when needed, challenge people that
- [Teens & Texting: What To Do?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teens-texting-what-to-do/): Yes, texting is in the news again. How do you oversee the use? Lets compare to how teens use computers. For safety and overseeing what is occurring on your home computers, I am a big advocate for a program called WebWatcher. You don't censor with WebWatcher. You watch what decisions are being made on your
- [Parents, use this YouTube video to discuss parties, friends hanging out, and the real dangers of sexual assault among teenagers and college students.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parents-use-this-youtube-video-to-discuss-parties-friends-hanging-out-and-the-real-dangers-of-sexual-assault-among-teenagers-and-college-students/): Claire Kaplan, the Director of Sexual & Domestic Violence Services at the University of Virginia, shared a very powerful YouTube video earlier today. Ask yourself how you can utilize this video with your teenager or college student? After watching the YouTube video, many parents will make the mistake of immediately talking about what SHE could
- [Kutztown University, High School Students, and Upward Bound Program](https://www.centerforrespect.com/kutztown-university-high-school-students-and-upward-bound-program/): Last week, I spoke at Kutztown University and they took an unique action. When I travel to campuses, they can utilize my program up to 3 times during the day. Typically, they have me do a "Train the Trainer" session for a more targeted campus group/leaders and then have me present my "Can I Kiss
- [Stop Intimidating Survivors through the Justice System](https://www.centerforrespect.com/naval-academy-sexual-assault-survivor/): Over the past few years, the military has been working diligently to address sexual assault within their forces. To reduce sexual assault, survivors must feel safer and and more supported in coming forward to report a sexual assault. The more predators and rapists are dealt severe consequences, the more everyone will believe that sexual assault
- [Montana Judge G Todd Baugh does NOT Apologize for Sentence in Rape Case](https://www.centerforrespect.com/montana-judge-baugh-rape-sentence/): UGH!! In Montana, Judge G Todd Baugh sentenced a CONVICTED RAPIST, Billings Senior High teacher Stacy Rambold, to a term that resulted in only 31 days in jail out of a 15 year sentence. The 49 year-old convicted rapist sexually assaulted a 14 year-old student. A teacher is an authority figure who is trusted to keep
- [Miami Dolphins Case of Richie Incognito Bullying Jonathon Martin](https://www.centerforrespect.com/miami-dolphins-bullying-case-richie-incognito-jonathon-martin/): Over the past week, ESPN and much of the country has been discussing the case of Richie Incognito of the NFL's Miami Dolphins bullying his teammate Jonathon Martin. This case has displayed many stereotypical behaviors relating to victim blaming and failure of people to intervene (bystander intervention). At first, the Miami Dolphins said they knew
- [Talking to your child about Seth McFarlane at the Oscars](https://www.centerforrespect.com/seth-mcfarlane-oscar-host-wallis/): Imagine being a parent and watching your child be referred to as a sexual object in front of one billion people. How would you feel? What would you want to do? As a parent of 4 teenagers, I feel for Quvenzhane Wallis, the Oscar nominee, and her family. To avoid further hurting Quvenzhane, we will
- [Images, Articles, and Resources](https://www.centerforrespect.com/articles-and-resources/): Images for Sharing Powerful Quotes & Lessons Articles Written by Mike Domitrz & The Date Safe Project Articles Quoting Our Founder, Mike Domitrz Resources National Organizations State Coalitions Against Sexual Assault Sites Run by Survivors of Sexual Assault Additional Articles for Survivors. IMAGES Sharing Powerful Quotes & Lessons 1. Click on the below images to
- [Mike Domitrz inducted into Hall of Fame](https://www.centerforrespect.com/mike-domitrz-hall-of-fame/): On the evening of Monday, July 11th, at the Gaylord Opryland Resort in Nashville, Mike Domitrz was 1 of only 5 speakers to be inducted into the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame with the C.P.A.E. Award (Council of Peers for Excellence Award). Mike is the first speaker from Wisconsin to be inducted into the
- [#97 - 20 Minutes in Nature with Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/97-20-minutes-nature-mike-domitrz/): With all that is going on in the world, what does 20 minutes in a marsh sound like with no one speaking – except the animals singing and talking. Listen in as Mike Domitrz takes us on this simple, relaxing journey. LISTEN to the audio of the podcast or WATCH the YouTube video from the
- [College Professionals, Students, & Survivors ENDORSE!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/college-professionals-endorse/): Below you will read feedback, reviews, recommendations, and endorsements from campus professionals, educators, students, survivors, and caring individuals such as yourself. For more testimonials, call Rita at 800-329-9390 and she will be happy to send you out an entire packet. On this page, DISCOVER: Feedback from Colleges & Universities Letters from Colleges & Universities STUDENTS
- ["SAFER Choices" with Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/safer-choices-at-sharon-lynne-center-for-the-arts-tonight-monday-oct-21st/): Attend TONIGHT (Monday, Oct 21st) starting at 7pm REGISTER for tonight’s event at the Sharon Lynne Wilson Center for the Arts in Brookfield, WI by clicking on the following link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/safer-choices-on-healthy-relationships-tickets-63604606089 See a preview of what will be discussed tonight from this morning’s episode of “The Morning Blend” on WTMJ Channel 4 (NBC in Milwaukee,
- [#100 - Surviving & Thriving through Cancer with Leah Barrett](https://www.centerforrespect.com/100-surviving-cancer-with-leah-barrett/): Explore surviving and thriving through cancer with Leah Barrett. LISTEN to the audio of the podcast or WATCH the YouTube video from the actual interview. LISTEN to the podcast here: WATCH the YouTube video: ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or visit our website
- ["2020 Transformational Training" Course is OPEN for Registration](https://www.centerforrespect.com/2020-transformational-training-course-open/): The “2020 Transformation Training” Course is now open for registration. This live virtual and online training course is specifically designed for trainers and educators who work to reduce sexual violence and/or teach healthy relationships. N.O.V.A. (the National Organization for Victim Assistance) has accredited the course for 24 C.E.U.s for both military C.E.U.s (D-SAACP) and civilian
- [Your Certified Virtual Presenter.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/certified-virtual-presenter/): Mike Domitrz is a Certified Virtual Presenter Mike Domitrz is the first sexual assault prevention author, subject matter expert, and speaker to earn the Certified Virtual Presenter accreditation. To receive this certification, a professional must complete a certification process which includes a live test using virtual presentation skills with an evaluator. This process insures you
- [#99 - Resiliency with Yvette Currie](https://www.centerforrespect.com/99-yvette-currie-resiliency/): Explore resiliency with Yvette Currie and Mike Domitrz. LISTEN to the audio of the podcast or WATCH the YouTube video from the actual interview. LISTEN to the podcast here: WATCH the YouTube video: ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or visit our website at http://www.MutuallyAmazingPodcast.com**
- [#98 - Adair Cates with meaningful conversations](https://www.centerforrespect.com/98-adair-cates-with-meaningful-conversations/): Explore meaningful conversations with Adair Cates and Mike Domitrz. LISTEN to the audio of the podcast or WATCH the YouTube video from the actual interview. LISTEN to the podcast here: WATCH the YouTube video: ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or visit our website
- [Free Training on Victim Blaming & Challenges](https://www.centerforrespect.com/free-training-on-victim-blaming-challenges/): If you’ve ever had someone make a victim blaming statement around you (especially if you are teaching or training), you know how frustrating those moments can be. In this interactive session with Mike Domitrz, you will hear specific steps and strategies for using in a multitude of scenarios (from one-one-one to large group discussions). Best
- [#96 Dr. Jaime Hope Discusses Coronavirus and COVID-19](https://www.centerforrespect.com/096-jaime-hope-discusses-coronavirus-and-covid-19/): Dive into this in-depth interview on Coronavirus and COVID-19 with Dr. Jaime Hope, a ER Doctor at one of the country’s busiest Level 1 Trauma Centers and who currently is on the front lines of addressing COVID-19. In this discussion with host Mike Domitrz, Dr. Hope talks about eating, masks, working out, meditation, and many
- [SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT](https://www.centerforrespect.com/podcast-2020-special-announcement/): Find out about all the big changes and updates to the podcast hosted by Mike Domitrz. LISTEN to the audio of this podcast episode or WATCH the YouTube video from the actual interview. LISTEN to the podcast here: WATCH the YouTube video of Mike and Dr. Jaime Hope: ** You are invited to join our
- [18: Amy Oestreicher: Sexual Assault Survivors, PTSD, & Thriving](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-18-amy-oestreicher/): Amy Oestreicher shares an open and honest conversation about PTSD and living life with PTSD. She discusses the role of creativity in a way that is not often discussed. You’ll hear of some wonderful resources in books and more in this thoughtful and helpful discussion with host Mike Domitrz. * You are invited to join our
- [91: Connectivity with Expert and Author Ginger Johnson](https://www.centerforrespect.com/91-ginger-johnson/): How to be stronger with connecting.
- [92: Living a New Life when Yours is Traumatically Changed Forever with best selling author Michael O’Brien of the book Shift: Creating Better Tomorrows](https://www.centerforrespect.com/92-michael-obrien/): Learn how our labels that we create define our moments and days
- [93: Rapping into Courageous Conversations & Respect with Janet Taras](https://www.centerforrespect.com/93-janet-taras/): Build respect while doing so with guest Janet Taras.
- [95: How precisely to protect your data! Hear from the world’s leading expert on data security, John Sileo.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/95-john-sileo/): How precisely to protect your data
- [81: Do you know about the power of Collaborative Divorce? Learn from Katherine Miller.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/81-katherine-miller/): Discover what Collaborative Divorce is and why it is such a powerful option for anyone. 95% of divorces settle before going to court and so why not settle with a positive, respectful outcome? Katherine Miller shares with Mike Domitrz all about this form of divorce. ** You are invited to join our
- [82: Why nonprofits and leaders of all kinds of organizations can struggle with treating themselves and others with disrespect with author and speaker, Marc Pitman.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/82-marc-pitman/): Discover specific steps leaders and specifically nonprofits can take to lead with more respect, especially starting with themselves. Today’s guest is Marc Pitman and host Mike Domitrz will dive into this conversation on leadership and respect. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join
- [83: How do you feel about your body? Leigh Peele shares with host Mike Domitrz ways to respect your body, food choices, and more. Can diving into FOOD SIN help? You might surprised that it could.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/83-leigh-peele/): Discover specific steps for building a healthy respectful understanding of food and fitness especially with sugar and salt. Leigh and host Mike Domitrz discuss food porn and body composition porn. **You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.**
- [85: Getting Referrals in a Respectful & FUN Way! By simply LISTENING to past episodes, Matt reveals how well you can learn about someone else!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/85-matt-ward/): In this episode in just a few minutes, you will gain skills for learning so much more about others in business and in life. Matt Ward brings lots of great skill and strategies for networking and truly learning to build much stronger relationships. Host Mike Domitrz is amazed at the details Matt showed he knew
- [87: Are you Changing or Evolving?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/87-judson-laipply/): Learn the difference from the original “Evolution of Dance” performer and international speaker Judson Laipply. He takes us on his journey and into our own journeys of evolving in our lives.
- [88: How does Respect show up in your job and/or business?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/88-merit-kahn/): Discover how sales and respect must go hand-in-hand with speaker and expert on Sales Mindset, Merit Kahn, in this week’s episode with host Mike Domitrz.
- [90: How do you respect money? How do you relate to money? Jim Dew shares key skills.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/90-jim-dew/): Author and Advisor to Entrepreneurs, Jim Dew, shares lots of great insights on money that many of us often make.
- [71: John Livesay, “The Pitch Whisperer”, talks about how respect is critical to a Sales Pitch.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/71-john-livesay/): Learn why a sales pitch can have such a negative vibe by buyers and how you can transform the sales pitch into a positive experience for everyone by John Livesay. Host Mike Domitrz will dive into all the ways John can share how each of us can use story in our lives. **
- [72: Are you aware of the ways domestic violence can occur that many people don’t consider? Learn from Domestic Violence Attorney, Kinza Khan](https://www.centerforrespect.com/72-kinza-khan/): ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website at www.RespectPodcast.com ** **You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.** Kinza Khan’s BIO: Born and raised in
- [73: Are you a Community Builder? Discover the power of Community Building with Shane Feldman.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/73-shane-feldman/): Discover powerful steps everyone can take to build a strong community – both at work and in their homes. Learn which country is by far the best at community building and examples of what they do that most of us in North America fail to even consider. ** You are
- [76: Discover how to become unstoppable with Tracy Timm, Founder of the Nth Degree.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/76-tracy-timm/): Utilize Tracy Timm’s 5-Step Career Clarity Strategy for finding your own clarity for going from Stuck to being Unstoppable. Whether in your personal or professional life, activate these specific steps. Tracy Timm’s 5-Step Clarity Strategy: Now – where are you now? Nature – what are you natural gifts and talents Nurture – using past experience to thrive
- [77: Discover how ‘LAZY’ is a great title to be labeled if you want to be a successful CEO as Jim Schleckser shares some unique skills.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/77-jim-schleckser/): Jim Schleckser shares how the “Kink in a Hose” approach is the key to great CEOs being successful and HOW successful CEOs tend to live very balanced lives. Mike Domitrz asks Jim how boundaries and respect is key to living a full life while being a strong leader in an organization. And discover how
- [78: Who are YOU lifting up? Former professional football player and speaker, Jan Spence, shares the importance of doing so.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/78-jan-spence/): Discover specific steps and ways to increase connection at your organization with author and speaker, Jan Spence, as Mike Domitrz asks questions pertaining to her personal journey. Jan went from playing professional football to speaking and writing a book. Hear the lessons Jan Spence shares in this episode. ** You are invited to join
- [79: Randy Gage shares how he approaches life and decision-making along the journey.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/79-randy-gage/): Discover what questions Randy Gage asks himself to bring the life integration he seeks for work, love, and life as host Mike Domitrz asks Randy questions. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website at www.RespectPodcast.com ** **You are invited
- [80: A son’s suicide and how a Mom being emotionally naked helped her survive with Anne Moss Rogers.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/80-anne-moss-rogers/): Gain specific skills for supporting those suffering and learn warning signs to help those suffering who are not asking for help with TEDx speaker, Anne Moss Rogers. Host Mike Domitrz and Anne Moss Rogers dive deeply into this discussion – including specific routines PARENTS can create for building a safer space for their kids.
- [70: Liz Weber, Corporate Strategist, shares why respect in the Workplace starts with clearing the roadblocks for your employees.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/70-liz-weber/): Discover specific ways organizations can fail at establishing respect throughout the organization and ways leaders can build a culture of respect with specific approaches and understandings as Liz Weber and Mike Domitrz dive into this conversation. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us
- [69: How do Respect & Mindfulness go together with Holly Duckworth? Mike Domitrz asks from both personal and professional development](https://www.centerforrespect.com/69-holly-duckworth/): Dive into this conversation with Holly Duckworth, host of The Everyday Mindfulness Show on mindfulness and respect. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website at www.RespectPodcast.com ** **You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode
- [68: Are you managing your time or your energy? Which gets the priority and why? Discover this fascinating conversation with Robyn Pearce.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/68-robyn-pearce/): Are you frequently late? Do you know someone who is? That might be because the person is an “In Time” person. Discover how to gain skills and strategies from Robyn Pearce from overcoming those struggles with host Mike Domitrz. Do you need “Energy” management or “Time” management? ** You are invited to join
- [67: Dan Pontefract asks "What Do You Want To Become?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/67-dan-pontefract/): ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website at www.RespectPodcast.com ** **You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.** Dan’s BIO: Dan is the author of
- [66: From Working side-by-side for building a business with your spouse to online sales on social media while thriving in loyalty, respect, and parenting with a leading trainer, speaker, and coach in online businesses, Danny Clarke](https://www.centerforrespect.com/66-danny-clarke/): Bob Burg reveals what the essence of influence is for each person as he shares with host Mike Domitrz in this thought-provoking conversation. Find out what the “others” focus is. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website
- [65: ”The Go-Giver” legendary author and influencer, Bob Burg, shares the power of influence and giving.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/65-bob-burg/): Bob Burg reveals what the essence of influence is for each person as he shares with host Mike Domitrz in this thought-provoking conversation. Find out what the “others” focus is. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website
- [64: What Most Leaders and Managers Get Wrong about Accountability with Sam Silverstein](https://www.centerforrespect.com/64-sam-silverstein/): Listen to this eye-opening conversation about accountability in the workplace. Sam Silverstein flips the normal conversation about accountability on its head. As close friends, Mike and Sam, hold nothing back in this episode. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or
- [63:  What is Unconventional Leadership. Podcast host, Heather Parady, talks reveals what it is and isn't - and the questions to ask yourself.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/63-heather-parady/): How do you pull out what you know about yourself, your type of leadership, and who you are naturally as a person? Heather Parady shares the steps to evaluate if your being unconventional leadership as she shares with host Mike Domitrz. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about
- [62:  Lyn Bishop on Freeing Yourself from Unhealthy & Disrespectful Relationships](https://www.centerforrespect.com/62-lyn-bishop/): **You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.** ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website at www.RespectPodcast.com ** Lyn Bishop, Mentorship Coach, Artist & Farmer,
- [61: Find your Soul Message and Soulmate Clients with Clestine Herbert, the Purpose Coach.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/61-clestine-herbert/): Find out how “Soul” impacts one’s business and respect the process for how integrating “Soul” into your work and organization can make a huge impact. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website at www.RespectPodcast.com ** **You are invited
- [51: Insights of Ford Motor Company's Transformation](https://www.centerforrespect.com/51-insights-of-ford-motor-companys-transformation/): How Ford Motor Company transformed their culture and the impact Alan Mulally had to make it happen – shared by Scott Monty, an executive, keynote speaker and advisor. Learn a simple color coding for meetings that inspires openness and vulnerability. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each
- [52: Ty Bennett on Respect and its role in "Partnership is the New Leadership"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/52-ty-bennett-on-partnership-is-the-new-leadership/): How do you get the people in your life to be fully committed? True partnership and Ty Bennett explores his concept of “Partnership is The New Leadership.” ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website at www.RespectPodcast.com ** **You
- [53: Melanie Deziel on Respect & Being a Brand Storyteller](https://www.centerforrespect.com/53-melanie-deziel-on-being-a-brand-storyteller/): ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website at www.RespectPodcast.com ** **You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.** BIO: Melanie Deziel is the founder of StoryFuel
- [54: Cynthia Zhai on Learning to Respect Your Voice](https://www.centerforrespect.com/54-cynthia-zhai-on-learning-to-respect-your-voice/): How well is your voice heard in meetings? What about with your loved ones? How are you respecting your voice? Learn how to respect your voice with voice coach, Cynthia Zhai. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website
- [57: Kam Knight on How to Avoid Passivity & Prejudice](https://www.centerforrespect.com/57-kam-knight-on-how-to-avoid-passivity-prejudice/): Kam Knight is the author of several bestselling books on learning, memory, and concentration. Over the past 15 years, he has dedicated his life to uncovering the secrets of the mind and how to optimize it’s performance. When he is not writing, teaching, or speaking, he is globetrotting, having traveled to nearly 100 countries around the
- [60: Damian Mason: Working Class Farmer to Bill Clinton to Corporate Influencer - How Respect Paved the Road.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/60-damian-mason/): Damian Mason, author of “Do Business Better” and speaker, shares how respect is a key component to every step along the road to success. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us on Twitter @PodcastRespect or visit our website at www.RespectPodcast.com ** **You are invited to
- [59: Thom Singer on Elevating Employee Engagement](https://www.centerforrespect.com/59-thom-singer-on-elevating-employee-engagement/): Thom Singer is an expert in working with people to get them more engaged and working toward better performance. He is the author of 12 books and is the host of the “Cool Things Entrepreneurs Do” podcast. ** You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/mutuallyamazingpodcastgroup and join us
- [47: Clare Kumar & the 8 Tables Stakes in Life](https://www.centerforrespect.com/47-clare-kumar-the-8-tables-stakes-in-life/): Discover 8 key “Table Stakes” in life to help us be compassionate leaders for ourselves and others with expert Claire Kumar and your host Mike Domitrz. Productivity Catalyst, Clare Kumar, is on a mission to cultivate high-performance workplaces through two key ingredients: developing sustainably productive employees and compassionate leadership. * You are invited to join
- [41: James Fell says "Treasure Your Body!"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/41-james-fell-says-treasure-your-body/): James Fell is an author and public speaker on the subject of personal transformation. His bylines include the Los Angeles Times, the Chicago Tribune, and others. His next book is titled "The Holy Sh!t Moment: How Lasting Change Can Happen in an Instant," coming January 22. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about
- [43: Tamsen Webster Helps You Share Your Voice & Message](https://www.centerforrespect.com/43-tamsen-webster-helps-you-share-your-voice-message/): As a professional "Idea Whisperer," Tamsen helps organizations helps people find, build, and tell the stories of their ideas. She combined 20 years in brand and message strategy with four years as a TEDx Executive Producer to create The Red Thread™, a simple way to change how people see...and what they do as a result. * You
- [48: Joe Mull on Reducing Team Drama in Your Organization](https://www.centerforrespect.com/48-joe-mull-on-reducing-team-drama-in-your-organization/): Joe Mull discusses Team Drama, how to work through it, and reduce it from happening. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.** LISTEN TO THE SHOW BELOW via Audio, and/or Read the Transcription below
- [45: Colette Carlson says "Speak Your Truth!"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/45-colette-carlson-says-speak-your-truth/): Colette Carlson is a human behavior expert, author and keynote speaker who inspires individuals to connect and communicate in real and relevant ways. Colette grew up in Chicago and now lives in San Diego, but she still prefers pizza over tofu. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us
- [46: Jeanette Bronée on Food & the Stories We Tell Ourselves](https://www.centerforrespect.com/46-jeanette-bronee-on-food-the-stories-we-tell-ourselves/): How do you create a day where food is not your entertainment and/or your version of “living life”? How do we detach from the “food stories” we’ve created? Jeanette Bronée explores this conversation in today’s episode. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to
- [50: Phil Jones tells us What Exactly to Say](https://www.centerforrespect.com/50-phil-jones-tells-us-what-exactly-to-say/): Discover the power and impact of the words we choose to use with others by listening in as best-selling author, Phil M Jones, shares is expertise on language and its impact on our lives. Phil is the author of the best-selling book: Exactly What To Say, Exactly How To Sell, and Exactly Where To Start *
- [32: Tony Chatman on the Truth of Unconscious Bias](https://www.centerforrespect.com/32-tony-chatman-on-the-truth-of-unconscious-bias/): Tony Chatman, is Chemical Engineer turned keynote speaker, a corporate relationship expert and guy who is trying to change the world while having a blast in the process. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.** SCROLL DOWN
- [33: Gair Maxwell & Respect as a Core Value in Business](https://www.centerforrespect.com/33-gair-maxwell-respect-as-a-core-value-in-business/): From Nike’s campaign with Colin Kaepernick to understanding core values, Gair Maxwell shares the ways Respect shows up and fails to appear in major brands and marketing around the world as host Mike Domitrz dives into this insightful conversation. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us
- [36: Jeff Gibbard shares his Lovable Leadership](https://www.centerforrespect.com/036-jeff-gibbard-shares-his-lovable-leadership/): What is lovable leadership? Jeff Gibbard, host of “Shareable” Podcast, shares in this episode the steps necessary to create his philosophy of leadership - “Loveable Leadership” On his Linkedin headline, he is The World's Most Handsome Social Media and Content Marketing Strategist. Though Jeff Gibbard is rarely described as humble, he is a champion for
- [37: Logan Nelson's Self-Therapy and Living Your Life with Respect](https://www.centerforrespect.com/037-logan-nelsons-self-therapy-and-living-your-life-with-respect/): Logan Tyler Nelson is the founder of Logan Tyler Nelson Agency and he’s also the creator of Scratch Your Own Itch podcast. His intention for everyday is to be the best part of someone’s day * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.**SCROLL DOWN
- [39: Chris Taylor on how to Focus & Be More Productive](https://www.centerforrespect.com/39-chris-taylor-on-how-to-focus-be-more-productive/): Discover how to take action on the RIGHT PROJECTS without overwhelming yourself with Chris Taylor. Learn simple techniques that can remove the stress and help us be super productive on an upcoming project in this conversation with host Mike Domitrz. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join
- [21: Teri Yuan discusses Gender, Identity, & False Equivalencies](https://www.centerforrespect.com/21-theresa-yuan-discusses-gender-identity-false-equivalencies/): Delve into an insightful and revealing conversation on gender, identity, and false equivalencies in today’s society and political environment with the host of The en(gender)ed podcast, Teri Yuan - as Mike Domitrz asks Teri questions he hears as he travels the world on these topics. * You are invited to join our community and conversations
- [26: Cyndie Spiegel on Online Communities, Women, & Respect](https://www.centerforrespect.com/026-cyndie-spiegel-on-online-communities-women-respect/): How do women treat other women? What about herself? How do you build community among women? All these topics are dove into with expert, author and TEDx speaker Cyndie Spiegel and host Mike Domitrz. Cyndie is a TEDx speaker, community builder, small business coach, and author *as of December 2018, woot woot!* She is also
- [29: Scott Lesnick Reveals His Experience with "Kidjacked"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/29-scott-lesnick-reveals-his-experience-with-kidjacked/): How do you define respect? How does respect show in your daily life? Dive into a thought-provoking conversation with the author of "Kidjacked" and a friend of Mike Domitrz - Scott Lesnick. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel
- [30: Beth Mund Shares her Journey at NASA and Respecting Your Dream](https://www.centerforrespect.com/30-beth-mund-shares-her-journey-at-nasa-and-respecting-your-dream/): Beth had a big dream to work at NASA one day... so she did! NOT as a scientist, engineer, or astrophysicist! Beth is an expert writer, communicator, story teller. She's a HORRIBLE joke teller. But she's working on it… Imagine being the first person to answer the calls at NASA after the Columbia explosion. What
- [13: Bruce Turkel & RESPECT in Advertising](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-13-bruce-turkel-advertising-respect/): Does RESPECT exist in today’s marketing and advertising world? Listen as world-leading branding expert and author, Bruce Turkel, discusses with host Mike Domitrz how respect plays a role in the media and advertising world today. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to
- [15: Abigail Manning on Triggers, Boundaries & Authentic Health](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-15-abigail-manning-authentic-health/): Abigail Manning shares the key to being aware of others’ triggers and how to be more understanding compassionate - living with Authentic Health. In this episode, Abigail and Mike both share specific lessons they teach around the world for living with respect toward others’ boundaries and how to recognize abuse. * You are invited to
- [16: Neen James on ATTENTION and how it impacts Respect.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-16-neen-james-attention-respect/): Listen as Neen James shares specific skills for paying attention in our lives and how vital paying attention is to respect. Neen shares with host Mike Domitrz insights and strategies people can use in their personal and professional lives. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us
- [17: Tom Antion on Respect & Becoming an Internet Millionaire](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-17-tom-antion-millionaire/): Discover how Tom built a multi-millionaire dollar business with a one-sentence mission stated based in RESPECT as he shares with host, Mike Domitrz. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.** LISTEN TO THE SHOW BELOW via
- [19: Stacey Hanke - How Much Influence Do You Have?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-19-stacey-hanke-influence-respect/): Stacey Hanke dives into the journey of gaining and maintaining influence throughout your life. Do you have it? Are you sure? Explore "Influence" and how respect plays a role. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking here.**
- [20: Darcy Luoma - Are you living a Thoughtfully Fit Life?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-20-darcy-luoma-thoughtfully-fit/): Darcy Luoma, Master Certified Coach, shares her powerful formula of "Thoughtfully Fit" in this interview. Being thoughtfully fit can revolutionize who we live with respect for ourselves and others - while maximizing our gifts that we share with the world. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join
- [02: Chris Clarke-Epstein on Respecting Change](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-02-with-chris-clarke-epstein-change-in-our-lives/): Join Mike Domitrz and Chris Clarke-Epstein Discussing Change and the Role Respect Plays, especially in today's turbulent times. From personal life to the workplace to the political landscape, they dive into each area in this episode. * You are invited to join our community and conversations about each episode on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/MutuallyAmazingPodcast and join us on Twitter @CenterRespect or subscribe
- [07: Being Crisis Ready with Melissa Agnes](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-06-melissa-agnes-crisis-ready/): Listen in as Melissa Agnes talks with Mike Domitrz about how most organizations fail to be crisis ready and why respect plays a key role in the process. Respecting clients, colleagues, teammates, leadership, investors. Discover how to identify if you have a crisis or an issue on your hands! * You are invited to join
- [08: Alan Stein Jr discusses High Achievement, Performance & Respect](https://www.centerforrespect.com/episode-08-alan-stein-elite-performance-respect/): Join Mike Domitrz as he asks Alan Stein Jr how respect plays a role in extremely high level achievement and performance - from pro athletes to leading world-class organizations. Discover the key to respecting ROLES within a team or organization, especially when you may not like one or more individual persons on the team *
- [For helping teachers, educators and those working remotely](https://www.centerforrespect.com/for-helping-teachers-educators-and-those-working-remotely/): Learn how to use Zoom Meetings for teachers, educator, people working from home, for online learning, online education, and being remote.
- [Moving forward with what is happening](https://www.centerforrespect.com/moving-forward-with-what-is-happening/): What is happening right now in our country and around the world with COVID-19 (Coronavirus) is real. The impact is real. People are getting sick. To help reduce the spread of the virus, many educational institutions – from K12 schools to universities – are going to online learning. Some workplaces are shifting to work-from-home. However,
- [Boy Scouts of America fails survivors.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/boy-scouts-of-america-fails-survivors/): By filing for Chapter 11 Bankruptcy, the Boy Scouts of America is failing survivors of sexual abuse whom they failed to protect. Yesterday (February 17th), the national headquarters sent an email out stating: “We are outraged that there have been times when individuals took advantage of our programs to abuse innocent children and sincerely apologize
- [Super Bowl Halftime Show with Jennifer Lopez and Shakira](https://www.centerforrespect.com/super-bowl-halftime-show-with-jennifer-lopez-and-shakira/): Let me start with the following: personally, I thought the Super Bowl halftime show included amazing dance performances with a fantastic choice of songs from throughout both Jennifer Lopez’s and Shakira’s careers. But that is just my opinion. Everyone is free to differ. What concerns me is the body shaming and the sexual degradation aimed
- [Labels & Politics](https://www.centerforrespect.com/labels-politics/): When it comes to politics, what do you label yourself? Liberal, Independent, or Republican? For me, I prefer 'human being' or 'person.' Want to . . .
- [The "Love > Hate Project" features The Center for Respect & Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/love-hate-project-features-the-center-for-respect-mike-domitrz/): Here at The Center for Respect, we are honored and grateful to have “LOVE > Hate Project” (The Love Is Greater Than Hate Project) featuring our work in these 5 videos with our founder Mike Domitrz. mike See Full Bio
- [The part of the holidays few talk about and can be the toughest.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-part-of-the-holidays-few-talk-about-and-can-be-the-toughest/): The loneliness AFTER a holiday. The Ups naturally bring Downs – as the brain – both emotionally and spiritually – seeks balance. Sadly we as a society rarely discuss the “down” after a holiday such as Christmas. Today it hit me. Not yesterday. Yesterday I kept busy. Cleaned up (post Christmas Day); went for a
- [Netflix's "Unbelievable" Series and Self-Care](https://www.centerforrespect.com/netflixs-unbelievable-series-and-self-care/): I just watched the Netflix series “Unbelievable.” Warning: I might not be sharing the same “gotta see it” response everyone has been telling me about this film. Have you seen Netflix’s original series titled “Unbelievable” starring Kaitlyn Dever, Danielle Macdonald, Toni Collette, and Merritt Wever? The shows is the investigation of a serial rapist. The
- ["What questions do I ask a survivor of sexual assault?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/what-questions-do-i-ask-a-survivor-or-sexual-assault/): A common question I receive while speaking is, “Mike, when a survivor of sexual assault shares with me that they are a survivor, what questions can I ask without making it sound like I’m interrogating and/or questioning them? I want to do my best to support them.“ In this 1-minute video, we quickly answer this
- ["Do you still ask first in Marriage"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/do-you-still-ask-first-in-marriage/): “Do You Still Ask First in Marriage?” is a question I frequently get asked as I travel the world speaking on consent, respect, and asking first. In this 1-minute video, I share the answer I give each time that question is asked: Mike Domitrz is the founder of The Center for Respect where he helps
- [The "WHY" and the "HOW TO" are Essential](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-why-and-the-how-to-are-essential/): During Mike Domitrz's keynote at the National Organization for Victim Assistance, he shared the importance of engaging individuals' "WHY"s and giving them precise "How To"s for making a positive behavioral transformation. Photo was provided by One Vecchione (IG = @anevecchionecreates)
- [Sign the Pledge for Action Today!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sign-the-pledge-for-action/): The Pledge for Action is a powerful agreement students, families, military members, educators, and individuals sign to pledge that they will do their best to help their family, friends and peers in potentially dangerous moments concerning alcohol, drugs, and sexual assault. How it works? First, read the pledge below. After reading the pledge, you will
- [Tour Schedule](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tour-schedule/): See when Mike Domitrz is coming to speak and/or conduct a training in a town near you! Due to the high demand for Mike Domitrz’s programs each year, the best way to insure getting Mike Domitrz to your community is to reserve a date as quickly as possible. As you scroll down this page, you will
- [Single Adults & Setting Boundaries](https://www.centerforrespect.com/single-adults-setting-boundaries/): Too often, adults are left out in the discussions around how to make dating safer, smarter, and more fun. In this episode of "The Morning Blend" on WTMJ 4 out of Milwaukee, WI, Mike Domitrz (along with hosts Molly Fay and Tiffany Ogle) shares specific skills for helping single adults navigate the world of dating.
- [Mike Domitrz discusses sexual decision-making and more.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/mike-domitrz-discusses-sexual-decision-making-and-more/): In the following article, Emily Slater interviewed Mike Domitrz about why talking about sexual decision-make is so needed. You can read the pdf of the interview by clicking here.
- [Dad fears false report for his son](https://www.centerforrespect.com/dad-fears-false-report-for-his-son/): A friend of mine just posted on FaceBook that he heard a Dad sharing how the Dad was afraid of his son at college being falsely accused of sexual assault. Here would be my response to that Dad or any parent expressing that fear: Instead of worrying about your son being falsely accused, ask yourself
- [An email from Cassie](https://www.centerforrespect.com/an-email-from-cassie/): When you do work focused on creating a cultural transformation, sometimes people can ask you, "How do you know your work is having a truly long-term lasting impact on those you share with?" While our program is Evidence-Based and has been proven to produce results with audiences (based on it being fully researched by by
- [Parents Beware](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parents-beware-morning-blend-extra-aug-2018/): Discover how parents can catch themselves from making the #1 mistake loving parents frequently make AND find out the words to replace that old statement with - to have the most profound impact with their children in this interview with Mike Domitrz.
- [Great Strategies for Parents](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-morning-blend-aug-2018-great-strategies-for-parents/): In the below segment from "The Morning Blend" on Channel 4 (NBC), Mike Domitrz shares some powerful skills and tips for parents with hosts, Molly and Tiffany. www.tmj4.com/shows/the-morning-blend/building-a-culture-of-respect-among-students
- [Survivor of Sexual Assault Shares Strength and Courage](https://www.centerforrespect.com/survivor-of-sexual-assault-shares-strength-and-courage-lisa-foster/): Listen to Lisa Foster share her brilliance, strength and courage as a survivor of sexual assault. Lisa is interviewed by our Founder, Mike Domitrz. With April being Sexual Assault Awareness Month, we are honoring survivors.
- [The FIRST of its kind Online Training Center](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-first-of-its-kind-online-training-center/): SUPER EXCITING NEWS!!! For years, people have asked us if there was a way they could learn the ONLINE the skills we teach in our in-depth live "Train the Trainer" multi-day workshops titled "Education Through Engagement." After LOTS of work, testing, and awesome feedback, The DATE SAFE Project Online Training Center is now open!!
- [Sexual Allegations Abound-Let's change the convo from "permission" to "mutuality"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-allegations-abound-lets-change-the-convo-from-permission-to-mutuality/): http://www.datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/MIKE-DOMITRZ.mp3 Mike Domitrz, founder of The DATE SAFE Project is in the news with WTMJ Radio. In this quick segment Mike and hosts Jane and Melissa discuss: Harvey Weinstein and Aziz Ansari are part of a bigger cultural problem We need to change the conversation from "did that person give permission" to "was it
- [Teens ask about consent when you change sexual acts](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teens-ask-about-consent-when-you-change-sexual-acts/): What about consent when you change sexual acts? In this video, discover how consent applies when partners go from one sexual act to a different sexual act. Parents (Moms and Dads), educators, leaders, teens, pre-teens, and people of all ages should know the content of this video. Middle schools, high schools, and universities should be
- [Teens say, "They Keep Asking AFTER I say No"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teens-say-they-keep-asking-after-i-say-no/): "They Keep Asking AFTER I say No" discussed by Teen Dating Violence Prevention Speaker and Expert Mike Domitrz with The Date Safe Project. In this video, Mike dives into the importance of a partner ALWAYS respecting your answer. Parents (Moms and Dads), educators, leaders, teens, pre-teens, and people of all ages should know the content
- [Teens: "No is Never Mean" especially with Sex and Consent](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teens-no-is-never-mean-especially-with-sex-and-consent/): "No is Never Mean or Rude" especially with Sex and Consent - discussed by dating expert and speaker, Mike Domitrz with The DATE SAFE Project. In this video, discover why saying "No" is caring, honest, and respectful. This is not about rejection - it is about choice. Parents (Moms and Dads), educators, leaders, teens, pre-teens,
- [Teens ask, "Why Is It ALWAYS on the Guy to Get Consent?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teens-ask-why-is-it-always-on-the-guy-to-get-consent/): This video is part of a series Mike is doing. EVERY DAY in February we launch a new video as part of recognizing February as "Teen Dating Violence Awareness & Prevention Month." Subscribe on YouTube to get all the videos. Why Is It on the Guy by Teen Dating Violence Prevention Speaker and Expert, Mike
- [Sexual Equality in Relationships](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-equality-in-relationships/): Creating Sexual Equality in Relationships with Teen Dating Violence Prevention Speaker and Expert, Mike Domitrz with The Date Safe Project. In this video, discover the questions teenagers are currently asking about sexual equality and reciprocity. Parents (Moms and Dads), educators, leaders, teens, pre-teens, and people of all ages should know the content of this video.
- [Keys to a Healthy Relationship](https://www.centerforrespect.com/keys-to-a-healthy-relationship/): Keys to a Healthy Relationship by Teen Dating Violence & Prevention Expert & Speaker, Mike Domitrz with The Date Safe Project. In this video, discover what to appreciate in healthy dating relationships. Parents, educators, leaders, teens, pre-teens, and people of all ages should know the content of this video. Middle schools, high schools, and universities
- [Signs of a Controlling Relationship](https://www.centerforrespect.com/signs-of-a-controlling-relationship/): Signs of a Controlling Relationship revealed by Teen Dating Violence Expert & Speaker, Mike Domitrz. In this video, discover what to look for that one of the partners may be controlling the other. Parents, educators, leaders, teens, pre-teens, and people of all ages should know the content of this video. Middle schools, high schools, and
- [How Do I Change My Partner?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/how-do-i-change-my-partner/): "How Do I Change My Partner?" is answered by teen dating violence prevention expert and speaker, Mike Domitrz, in today's video. Middle schools, high schools, and universities need to be having these conversations to build a culture of respect and for reducing sexual violence of all kinds: sexual assault, rape, and sexual harassment. We must
- [Who Pays on a Date](https://www.centerforrespect.com/who-pays-on-a-date/): How do you create equality with who pays on a first date discussed by teen dating speaker and expert, Mike Domitrz - founder of The Date Safe Project. Parents (Moms and Dads) and Educators, watch and share this video below - the video includes SIMPLE and powerful language every teenager (male and female) can use
- [Is EVERYONE Doing It?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/is-everyone-doing-it/): Relationship and Consent expert and speaker, Mike Domitrz, answers the question, "Is EVERYONE doing it?" As part of a series of videos for February being Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month...Mike discusses "Is Everyone Is Doing It" actually an accurate statement? Teenagers and preteens often hear this statement - too frequently used as a way
- [Sexually degrading people based on their clothing - okay or not okay?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/2-13/): Sexually degrading people based on their clothing - okay or not okay? Sexual consent and respect speaker and expert, Mike Domitrz, discusses people sexually degrading women and men based on the clothing they wear or choose not to wear. Words like slut or ho. To reduce sexual violence, sexual assault, and sexual harassment, middle schools,
- [Is a One Time Hookup a Relationship?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/is-a-one-time-hookup-a-relationship/): Relationship and Consent expert and speaker, Mike Domitrz, discusses teen relationships. Expert and speaker on Teen Dating Violence & Prevention answers the question, "Is a one time hookup a relationship?" as part of a series of videos for February being Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month. Subscribe on YouTube to get all the
- [Is Group Dating Safer?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/is-group-dating-safer/): Relationship and Consent expert and speaker, Mike Domitrz, discusses group dating. Expert and speaker on Teen Dating Violence & Prevention answers the question, "Is group dating safer?" as part of a series of videos for February being Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month. Subscribe on YouTube to get all the videos Follow
- [How to Build Your OWN Self Esteem](https://www.centerforrespect.com/how-to-build-your-own-self-esteem/): Relationship and Consent expert and speaker, Mike Domitrz, discusses how to build your OWN self esteem - at any age! Expert and speaker on Teen Dating Violence & Prevention discusses how to build self esteem as part of a series of videos for February being Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month. Mike discusses how
- [Teens Ask: "How will I know I am in love?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teens-ask-how-will-i-know-i-am-in-love/): Relationship and Consent expert and speaker, Mike Domitrz, discusses when people tell teens and adults "You'll Just Know" when you are in love! If this good advice? Find out Mike's answer in this video. February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness & Prevention Month. To help reduce teen dating violence, sexual harassment, sexual assault, and rape,
- [February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness & Prevention Month](https://www.centerforrespect.com/february-is-teen-dating-violence-awareness-prevention-month/): Expert and speaker on Teen Dating Violence & Prevention discusses the age of consent as part of a series of videos for February being Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month. In this first of a series of videos Mike Domitrz, author and speaker, discusses why parents often have stricter rules than the state age
- [#MeToo - So Now What?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/metoo-so-now-what/): LISTEN HERE How do we transform the conversation? How do we intersect intent with impact? Cathy and Todd from one of our favorite podcasts Zen Parenting Radio sit down with Mike and talk "what's next" with #MeToo, pop culture, and much more including getting very real about how some might feel very uncomfortable with
- [Letting go of what we are good at](https://www.centerforrespect.com/letting-go-of-what-we-are-good-at/): http://www.datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/TMSP_036A.mp3 In the new year - should we consider letting go of something? What about letting go of what we are good at? Why should we let go of what we are good at? The answer might surprise you. Find out why and how in this insightful conversation between Mike Domitrz and host Mark
- [Challenges, new paths and opportunities for success and failure](https://www.centerforrespect.com/20005-2/): http://www.datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/171120-MikeDomitrz-Pro-File-meh2Yeah.m4a Everyone comes through challenges, but how often do we stop to see the path and possibilities that might opened up for us? I recently sat down with Ravi Tangri from meh2YEAH to talk about just. This interview was different for me because I had the opportunity to talk about life transformations, making decisions
- [Are you creating "healthy flashbacks" with your kids?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/are-you-creating-healthy-flashbacks-with-your-kids/): http://www.datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/SPL_62_Mike_Domritz_Edited.mp3 Dr. Robin Rockett is a rock star parenting coach who hosts the podcast "Solo Parenting Life" . I recently got to know Dr. Robin from a mutual parenting conference we were on. We had the opportunity to connect on her show and talk about how having consent conversations with our children
- [I Took Back My Life](https://www.centerforrespect.com/i-took-back-my-life/): "This is my 2nd time attending college. I first went when I was 19 and took a male filled course. My best friend in the course raped me one night while driving home. I'd love a chance to talk about my story." - Taylor Taylor is a student who recently saw Mike present the "Can
- [Reality Check](https://www.centerforrespect.com/reality-check/): http://www.datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Reality_Check_Ep_240_Everyday_Mindfullness.mp3 Mike Domitrz (@MindfulnessShow on Twitter) returns to talk with host Craig Price about his latest foray into podcasting: The Everyday Mindfulness Show. Mike has been on a bunch of podcasts, including several times on this very podcast! The two talk about what mindfulness is, how it can vary from person to person, starting
- [This is me now](https://www.centerforrespect.com/this-is-me-now/): As part of our "Life Changing Stories" initiative, we are sharing inspirational stories. Stories from people who #AskFirst , people who took action, who intervened and opened the door for survivors, stories of courage from survivors, and stories of those who made a difference and are creating a culture of consent and respect. We believe that together,
- [A Desire to Inspire](https://www.centerforrespect.com/a-desire-to-inspire/): http://www.datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/EP_Mike_Domitrz_01.mp3 Mike Domitrz: Keys to Healthy Dating, Sexual Maturity, and the Culture of Consent and Respect Mike Domitrz was very determined he was going to be on broadway, was going to be in movies, going to be an actor. He graduated high school, went to Chicago, did college, and studied theatre. Until one day while
- [There is hope on the other side](https://www.centerforrespect.com/there-is-hope-on-the-other-side/): As part of our "Life Changing Stories" initiative, we will be sharing inspirational stories. Stories from people who #AskFirst, people who took action, who intervened and opened the door for survivors, stories of courage from survivors, and stories of those who made a difference and are creating a culture of consent and respect. We believe that
- [Who is talking to your kids about sex?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/who-is-talking-to-your-kids-about-sex/): Who is educating your kids about sex? Someone or even scarier, something (internet) is. Don't think your kids are interested in sex? Even if that is true...someone or something is still "educating" them. It could be conversations overheard on the playground, in the halls of school. It could be the internet, porn. When I was
- [Mike Domitrz discusses Taylor Swift case with ABC News and "Self" Magazine](https://www.centerforrespect.com/news-release-taylor-swift-the-impact/): Taylor Swift has been in the news for standing up to someone sexually touching her without her consent. We applaud her for standing up and speaking out. "I acknowledge the privilege that I benefit from in life, in society and in my ability to shoulder the enormous cost of defending myself in a trial like
- [How to Talk with Your Teen About Dating & Sexual Assault](https://www.centerforrespect.com/how-to-talk-with-your-teen-about-dating-sexual-assault/): The greatest way a parent can talk with their child about sexual assault is to first know that you the parent cannot 100% prevent it from happening to those you love. You CAN share skills and options with your children that can be life-saving. You CAN give them specific "how to" lesson for dating, parties,
- [Stopping the Perpetuation of Rape Culture - This is Amber's Story](https://www.centerforrespect.com/stopping-the-perpetuation-of-rape-culture-this-is-ambers-story/): In the next several months, we will be focused on sharing inspirational stories. Stories from people who #AskFirst, people who took action, who intervened and opened the door for survivors, stories of courage from survivors, and stories of those who are creating a culture of consent and respect. We believe that together, these stories, when
- [Barb's Story - We must be equally valued](https://www.centerforrespect.com/barbs-story-we-must-be-equally-valued/): Optimism, courage, and hope are not words you would typically associate with the tragedy of rape and sexual assault. Barb's story illustrates that survivors of sexual assault should admired for their courage and treated with respect, not pity. Note: This article discusses sexual assault and thus could be difficult for some to read. This is
- [Blaming the Survivor of Sexual Assault](https://www.centerforrespect.com/blaming-the-survivor-of-sexual-assault/): Would you know if a friend or family member was the survivor of a sexual assault? Not necessarily. Many survivors do not talk openly about their assaults—not even to close family and friends. The reason for this choice is because our society has a history of treating sexual assault survivors poorly. You can find numerous examples
- [Tips to Prep Your Graduate for the Post High School Sexual Culture](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tips-to-prep-your-graduate-for-the-post-high-school-sexual-culture/): You are celebrating. YES! Your child is about to graduate high school. Woo hoo! Now he or she is ready to go on to post-high school life . . . but are you sure? I’ve been there multiple times—a dad is excited for his child’s next journey in life. The question is, “Is our child
- [How will you let someone know they are valued today?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/how-will-you-let-someone-know-they-are-valued-today/): In this Facebook Live session recorded on April 24th, Mike talks about a 50 year-old husband who went through the Can I Kiss You program the night before and asked his wife "Can I Kiss You" that evening. The impact of that simple statement was profound. Mike also shares his personal story of bystander intervention, the
- [Simple Resources -  BIG impact: Supporting Sexual Assault Awareness Month](https://www.centerforrespect.com/19660-2/): April, "Sexual Assault Awareness Month", is almost over. But for many, especially survivors, sexual assault's impact and reach is much more then a designated month. It is a look back to the past - a place to learn from. It is a look to the present-a place to grow from. And it is a look
- [The Loss of Innocence](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-loss-of-innocence/): A good friend of The DATE SAFE Project, John Sileo, shared this powerful piece of art with us that his daughter Makayla created. I felt compelled to share it with you. Her words below say it all... "I wanted to create a piece that was harder to handle as I feel this can expand a persons view
- [A Healing Conversation](https://www.centerforrespect.com/a-healing-conversation/): Join Mike and host of "The Coming Out Lounge", Rick Clemons, in their candid and authentic conversation where they discuss: The shift from "Permission" to "Consent". How everyone deserves a choice and the importance of honoring that choice. How consent establishes sexual confidence. The true reason people don't ask. How healing in the LGBT community
- [Creating a Culture of Consent & Respect for Over 13 Years!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/creating-culture-consent-respect-20-years/): Ever wonder why The DATE SAFE Project was started over 13 years ago? In this quick radio interview Mike Domitrz with The Big AM 1380 host Ted Ehlen discuss how it all began and where we are going including: New exciting evidence based research that shows our programs are making a significant difference. Misconceptions on consent,
- [Sex Gets Real](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sex-gets-real/): Mike recently sat down with Dawn Serra, host of Sex Gets Real and had a frank conversation about about consent, respect, rape, sexual assault, dating, hook-ups, and why married folks in 40 year marriages need consent as much as teens dating for the first time. Sex Gets Real is a podcast dedicated to providing advice on everything from navigating
- [It Needs to be more than "That Talk"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/it-needs-to-be-more-than-that-talk/): "If you tell your child to go kiss grandma and they say they don't want to, and you reply 'but grandma loves you' - you just taught your child that if you love someone, you owe them intimacy." This is powerful discussion about raising empowered children. Friends, you've heard Mike talk about dating but have
- [How to thrive after trauma by loving your body, mind, and spirit](https://www.centerforrespect.com/thrive-trauma-loving-body-mind-spirit/): Good evening friends, Today, we want to share with you the opportunity to attend a powerful and transformative free online audio summit hosted by our friend, Svava Brooks: “Journey to the Heart! – FREE Audio Summit” September 15th - 30th. The purpose of this FREE audio summit is to help others who have lived through challenging past
- [”Can I Kiss You?” LIVE!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/can-kiss-live/): Thanks to everyone getting the word out, with just a couple of weeks on the market, the “Can I Kiss You?” book is starting to take off! The team at The DATE SAFE Project is so grateful for your support! WE are making a difference! Because of you we have achieved not one, not two…but
- [Dialogue and My Commitment to You](https://www.centerforrespect.com/dialogue-and-my-commitment-to-you/): Friends, It’s a beautiful day in sunny Arizona! As I sit here, in my hotel room, getting ready for another exciting day at the National Speaker’s Association Conference, I am amazed at the outpouring of support and fellowship. The “hallway” conversations among friends and colleagues are always some of my favorite. It’s where you really
- [Will you please help us get to 100?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/will-please-help-us-get-100/): Hi. Will you take 30 seconds to really help me with a goal? With our new book, Can I Kiss You? A thought-provoking look at relationships, intimacy, and sexual assault, we want to reach as many people around the world as possible. Over 60 experts and educators have already endorsed the book - with language such as
- [Baylor University's Reaction to Sexual Assault Cases](https://www.centerforrespect.com/baylor-university-response-sexual-assault-cases/): Have you seen Baylor University's recent reactions to lawsuits against the school concerning sexual assault cases? Watch my latest video below to see a concern we have about the campus's comments: What are your reactions to Baylor's comments? Please share in the COMMENTS below.
- [<b>Boxer Shorts for Dad on Father's Day</b>](https://www.centerforrespect.com/boxer-shorts-dad-fathers-day/): What are you getting your Dad for Father's Day? TiffanyReviews.com just recommended getting Dads a pair of our "Want Some Action? Ask First. Respect the Answer" Boxer Shorts for Dads everywhere. Tiffany said the shorts are SUPER COMFY for all genders, fun, and share a great message!!! Read the full review for yourself or save time and
- [Our reactions. Our hurt.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/our-reactions-our-hurt/): This past week has been tough for us as individuals and as a country. The horrific tragedy in Orlando has made many of us stop and reflect - to think deeply about we can personally do to make a difference. Some of us have found ourselves angry. Some scared. Some emotionally overwhelmed. Some of us
- [FaceBook LIVE Video on Brock Turner Sentencing](https://www.centerforrespect.com/facebook-live-brock-turner/): Below is the recording of our recent (Monday night, June 6th) FaceBook Live Video discussing the sentencing of Brock Turner and the reactions to his Father's comments, the Survivor's letter to the court, and more. You will notice there are 2 separate videos. The reason is because the Internet cut at quickly at one point.
- [<b>To the Father of Brock Turner. To Society.</b>](https://www.centerforrespect.com/father-brock-turner/): To the Father of Brock Turner: While I understand wanting to express support for your son, under no circumstance is referring to a sexual assault as "20 minutes of action" appropriate wording. Never. The love of a parent runs deep. At the same time, we must teach our children by holding them accountable. In your letter, you
- [Justice in Brock Turner Sentencing - WHO & WHY [VIDEO]](https://www.centerforrespect.com/justice-brock-turner-rape-persky/): When you think of the lack of justice that occurred in the 6 month sentencing of the rape conviction of Brock Turner by Judge Aaron Persky, WHO should society be outraged with? One aspect many people are not talking about is what I'm going to discuss in following video: Judge Aaron Persky is now being attempted
- [How Humor Can Help You Talk about Tough Topics [Video]](https://www.centerforrespect.com/19237-2/): Humor is a great way to keep the audience engaged while speaking on sensitive and tough topics that otherwise may be difficult to process. When using humor though, always remember Mike Domitrz's No. 1 rule to "never do harm." Learn how you can successfully incorporate humor to engage and educate audiences directly from Mike Domitrz
- [REVIEW: "...like sitting down and having a conversation with a friend.”](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sasebo-sailor-2016/): “I’m glad it wasn’t death by PowerPoint, it was very interactive. It almost made me feel like I was not in training so I really enjoyed it. It was almost like sitting down and having a conversation with a friend.” ~ Yeoman 2nd Class Jelissa Pollard (CNIC article)
- [How to Handle the Heckler [Video]](https://www.centerforrespect.com/handle-the-heckler/): While speaking or teaching, have you ever encountered that person trying to dominate the room by arguing with you, i.e., "the heckler?" While oftentimes it seems this person is doing this for his/her own entertainment, you may be surprised what it is that's actually occurring. Throughout the years, I have fine-tuned my strategy for engaging
- [Storytelling [Video]: How Critical to Making an Impact?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/storytelling-key-making-impact/): Is storytelling still an important approach to connecting with and helping others? Storytelling In today's video on storytelling, you'll discover the answer to this question and why asking the right questions about storytelling is critically important for both you and those you are sharing with--whether in a training, conducting a speech, or having a one-on-one
- ['Ask First' Testimonies Inspire Soldiers in Hawaii](https://www.centerforrespect.com/ask-first-testimonies-soldiers/): Do people "ask first?" Sometimes people will ask me, “How do you know if anyone is actually asking first or making positive behavioral changes?” In addition to the surveying we do after each event, personal testimonies can tell us a lot. Ask First Is Exactly What a Soldier Does This past Tuesday at the first
- [Welcome to the NEW Website](https://www.centerforrespect.com/welcome-new-website/): We have some VERY exciting news here at The Date Safe Project! If you’ve visited us before, then you may be noticing the BIG NEWS already - a BRAND NEW website! We started working last June to bring you a website that is interactive, easy-to-use, and that will provide with lots of helpful resources, including
- [How to Talk to Your Partner](https://www.centerforrespect.com/talk-partner/): Great news! You just found out the person you like – likes you. Woo Hoo! Soon after, you become “official” and while reaching that level is different for each couple, it usually goes one of three ways. One of you slips up and accidentally uses the word “boyfriend”, “girlfriend”, “partner”, or other. You talk it
- [Footage for Media](https://www.centerforrespect.com/footage-for-media/): Footage for the Media Full video of Beloit College Show. Please enter DSP2015Media as the password. Video for the Media : Video on Speaking:
- ["The Look"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-look/): Dating can be a very anxious experience. We have found a person we are interested in, we have gotten up the courage to express our interest and now we are exploring the relationship by getting to know each other. So many thoughts are going through our heads while on a date. “How do I look?”
- [Preparing Your Teen for Romance](https://www.centerforrespect.com/preparing-teen-romance/): A few months ago, we posted this blog under "preparing your teen for SUMMER romance." However, romance can happen at any point in the year for your teen. That is why we thought it would be fitting to publish this post again so you can have helpful hints and tips right at your fingertips. Exams
- [Respect the Survivor](https://www.centerforrespect.com/respectthesurvivor/): Recently, legislation has been proposed that would take away the current rights of a sexual assault survivor on a college campus. New legislation would require universities to involve the police in all sexual assault cases being reported to the campus. Why is this a negative? Currently, a survivor who is not comfortable moving forward with
- [Not Knowing is Not an Excuse](https://www.centerforrespect.com/knowing-excuse/): As “Yes Means Yes” policies become more common in universities policies, some scholars have argued that such policies leave too much open for interpretation and confusion among students. Does anyone else see the irony of such an argument? Asking first is the one way to clear up any and all confusion. Imagine the alternative: “Don’t
- [The Life of a Speaker, Part Two](https://www.centerforrespect.com/life-speaker-part2/): This is the second part in our two part series "The Life of a Speaker." You can check out the first part here. The next morning we drove to Wilfrid Laurier University and were in an AMAZING venue. It was an older theater that the University had rented out and the perfect venue. The acoustics
- [Be Present](https://www.centerforrespect.com/bepresent/): Recently, I was speaking in a temporary field house made of metal sheeting with no air conditioning. The day had been the hottest day of the year, and the building had been heating up throughout the day. As you entered the building, you could feel the heat and humidity hit you and you were instantly
- [Become a DATE SAFE Project Ambassador!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/become-a-date-safe-project-advocate/): This October 1st, The DATE SAFE Project is launching a new and exciting program for college students who want to take the information they received from the "Can I Kiss You?" program one step further. This program is called The DATE SAFE Project AMBASSADOR Program, and we need your help! As a DSP Ambassador, you will
- [Become a DATE SAFE Project Ambassador!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/date-safe-project-ambassador/): This October 1st, The DATE SAFE Project is launching a new and exciting program for college students who want to take the information they received from the "Can I Kiss You?" program one step further. This program is called The DATE SAFE Project AMBASSADOR Program, and we need your help! As a DSP Ambassador, you will
- [Your Campus Family](https://www.centerforrespect.com/campus-family/): Students, it is that time of year again! Whether this is your very first year of undergrad or you are a seasoned graduate student, there is a lot of excitement in the air! Many of you will be away from your families and this can be VERY hard. What a lot of students forget is
- [Safe Dating Tips for Your Children](https://www.centerforrespect.com/safe-dating-tips-children/): Last Monday morning WTMJ 4 (NBC) here in Milwaukee had our Founder, Mike Domitrz, on The Morning Blend to discuss how to help your child "date safely." Watch the full episode to learn how to talk to your children about dating and how to keep them safe.
- [You Can Make A Difference In Your Community!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/2015k12training/): Would you like to make an even bigger impact in your community? Would you like to help end sexual assault by teaching teens about consent, respect and bystander intervention? If you answered, “YES!”, then our K-12 Certification is the program for you (http://www.datesafeproject.org/k12training/). Our K-12 Certification is an AMAZING program that helps bring The DATE
- [RESPECT is an Ongoing Education](https://www.centerforrespect.com/ongoing-education/): When was the last time you saw someone display disrespect toward a partner? Was it by a family member, friend, on TV, or maybe in a film? Respect is vital to a healthy relationship, yet sometimes people don’t realize when they are failing to give their partners respect. How many times have we heard people
- [The 3 Biggest Mistakes Caring Parents Make](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-3-biggest-mistakes-caring-parents-make/): What every parent needs to know about their kids, dating, sexual intimacy, and being safe... Mistake #1 – Saying: "if anyone ever touches you, I'll kill that person!" Reverse it to be about your child – not about your anger. Reassure your teen “if anybody ever touches you sexually against your will or without your permission, I
- [The World is Taking a Stand](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-world-is-taking-a-stand/): Often in the news, we hear about all the negative things that are going on. When discussing a topic like sexual assault, you can't help but come across a lot of very bad stories about some really horrible crimes. That is why I would like to focus on some positive things that are happening around
- [Preparing Your Teen for Summer Romance](https://www.centerforrespect.com/preparing-your-teen-for-summer/): Exams are finished, report cards are in and the last bell has rung. Your teen is done with school until the Fall. As a parent, you may have talked to your teen about getting a summer job, taking some additional classes, playing sports, practicing an instrument, going to a camp, or volunteering, but have you
- [SHARP is Making a Difference!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/780th/): Here is an AWESOME article written about the GREAT work that SHARP has been doing to work with the military on preventing sexual assault! Recently, I conducted two trainings at Fort Meade - a "Can I Kiss You?" Training and a "The MISSION is Transformation" Training. Afterward, Tina Miles of the 780th MI Brigade wrote this
- [Transformation is Possible and Happening!!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/2015afftour/): These past two weeks have been filled with traveling throughout Europe to conduct trainings for the US Navy from May 5th - 15th and then wrapping up speaking to a DoD School at Ansbach Army Post on Monday, May 18th. The first 2 weeks I was part of a dynamic team representing Atlantic Fleet Forces
- [Review: "an extremely helpful presentation..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/insightful-entertaining-and-most-importantly-an-extremely-helpful-presentation/): Hello Mike, I just wanted to thank you again for offering an insightful, entertaining, and most importantly an extremely helpful presentation on dating, communication, and respect. You made so many valid and affirming points, and my sense is that your message resonated with the audience. As I expressed to you after the talk, I believe
- [Review: "Enthusiastically positive..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-reviews-have-all-been-enthusiastically-positive/): Mr. Domitrz, On be half of the men and women of 'Team Shaw' that participated in your presentations, thank you for coming to Shaw and leaving behind such a positive message. The reviews have all been enthusiastically positive--everyone enjoyed your visit and thank you for sharing new insight into dating and relationships. I can assure
- [Your Success!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/success/): YOU did it! #30DaysOfConsent was an enormous success, and it couldn’t have been possible without your help and support. Working together, many of you helped all of us raise awareness of the importance of consent and respect for Sexual Assault Awareness month! THANK YOU for all your hard work sharing and spreading the word
- [Review: "look forward to working with you again!!"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-look-forward-to-working-with-you-again/): Hey Mike, Thank you so much for coming to our base. Everyone is saying how great your were!!! Take care and we look forward to working with you again!! Gloria Trimier Pope Air Force Base
- [Reaction to “Can I Kiss You?” Training at NAS Pensacola](https://www.centerforrespect.com/naspensacolatraining/): The Pensacola News Journal’s Marketta Davis sat in on Thursday’s training session at NAS Pensacola, and documented the reaction on the base to the training sessions. Love the reaction of the audience to our training sessions! You can read the full article here.
- [Ask Your Partner For Permission](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tip3/): During the #30DaysOfConsent campaign, we will be posting a daily tip. #30DaysOfConsent is a campaign that aims to prevent sexual assault by teaching consent and respect, help create a safe environment for survivors to come forward and help those who may need to protect someone who is in danger. Please check out our blog for
- [Let Your Teen Know There is a Choice](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tip4/): During the #30DaysOfConsent campaign, we will be posting a daily tip. #30DaysOfConsent is a campaign that aims to prevent sexual assault by teaching consent and respect, help create a safe environment for survivors to come forward and help those who may need to protect someone who is in danger. Please check out our blog for
- [Never Blame the Victim](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tip5/): During the #30DaysOfConsent campaign, we will be posting a daily tip. #30DaysOfConsent is a campaign that aims to prevent sexual assault by teaching consent and respect, help create a safe environment for survivors to come forward and help those who may need to protect someone who is in danger. Please check out our blog for
- [Protect a Friend or Stranger Who is in Danger](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tip6/): During the #30DaysOfConsent campaign, we will be posting a daily tip. #30DaysOfConsent is a campaign that aims to prevent sexual assault by teaching consent and respect, help create a safe environment for survivors to come forward and help those who may need to protect someone who is in danger. Please check out our blog for
- [Follow Your Gut](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tip7/): During the #30DaysOfConsent campaign, we will be posting a daily tip. #30DaysOfConsent is a campaign that aims to prevent sexual assault by teaching consent and respect, help create a safe environment for survivors to come forward and help those who may need to protect someone who is in danger. Please check out our blog for
- [Intimacy and Your Rights](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tip8/): During the #30DaysOfConsent campaign, we will be posting a daily tip. #30DaysOfConsent is a campaign that aims to prevent sexual assault by teaching consent and respect, help create a safe environment for survivors to come forward and help those who may need to protect someone who is in danger. Please check out our blog for
- [Respectful Children & Sexual Decision-Making](https://www.centerforrespect.com/respectful-children-sexual-decision-making/): "My son is very respectful. Why would I need to worry about him sexually assaulting someone?" - or - "My daughter is very sharp. She wouldn’t let herself be with someone who mistreats her." Let's start with the "respectful" question. Most “respectful” and “sharp” males and females still learn about aspects of intimacy through their
- [Know Yourself, Know Your Partner and Feel Safe](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tip1/): During the #30DaysOfConsent campaign, we will be posting a daily tip. #30DaysOfConsent is a campaign that aims to prevent sexual assault by teaching consent and respect, help create a safe environment for survivors to come forward and help those who may need to protect someone who is in danger. Please check out our blog for
- [Talk to Your Teen](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tip2/): During the #30DaysOfConsent campaign, we will be posting a daily tip. #30DaysOfConsent is a campaign that aims to prevent sexual assault by teaching consent and respect, help create a safe environment for survivors to come forward and help those who may need to protect someone who is in danger. Please check out our blog for
- [#30DaysOfConsent Campaign to End Sexual Assault](https://www.centerforrespect.com/saam2015/): April 1st is the beginning of Sexual Assault Awareness Month. Sexual assault is one of the most heinous crimes, and a crime that can happen to anyone at any age. One of the ways to reduce sexual assault long-term is to discuss the importance of consent and respect in relationships – while also providing the
- [Hello world!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/hello-world/): Welcome to WordPress. This is your first post. Edit or delete it, then start blogging!
- [Bystander Intervention and Double Standards of Sexual Assault During Hazing](https://www.centerforrespect.com/bystander-intervention-double-standards-sexual-assault-hazing/): As previously published on huffingtonpost.com Trigger Warning: Please know some of the content in this article discusses sexual assault. If a newspaper in New Jersey reported that a cheerleader for the high school football team had been brought in the boys' locker room, pinned down, and then lifted up by several males so the males
- [K12 "Can I Kiss You?" Live 2-Day Training Event Scholarship Winner](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12-kiss-live-2day-training-event-scholarship-winner/): Congratulations, Julia from Wings of Hope Family Crisis Services in Oklahoma! Julia is receiving a full scholarship for the 2-day training and licensing event being held on November 13th and 14th in Milwaukee, WI. All expenses are paid for Julia to attend, including travel and registration fees. To learn more about becoming a licensed presenter
- [Show Your Partner You Respect Him/Her By ASKING FIRST](https://www.centerforrespect.com/show-partner-respect-himher/): "Show your partner you respect him/her by asking first and honoring the answer." HOW TO SHARE THE IMAGE: Right click on the image and click on “Save As” or “Save Image” and then upload the image to your social media channels.
- [Reality Check Episode 144 - Michael Domitrz - Consent](https://www.centerforrespect.com/reality-check-episode-144-michael-domitrz-consent/): Michael Domitrz (@datesafeproject on Twitter) returns to discuss consent with host Craig Price. With all the news about sexual assault and consent laws in the media, Craig reaches out to past guest Michael Domitrz to hash it out. Michael explains the importance of consent, open discussions with your partner (or potential partner) and why we need to
- [Win a FULL SCHOLARSHIP or a $200 SCHOLARSHIP](https://www.centerforrespect.com/win-full-scholarship-200-scholarship/): Are you considering attending the November 13th & 14th LIVE 2-Day Training to become a certified licensed presenter of the "Can I Kiss You?" program to middle school and high school students? We are taking applications for ONE FULL SCHOLARSHIP and Five $200 SCHOLARSHIPS. APPLY TODAY for Your Opportunity to Receive the one FULL SCHOLARSHIP
- [Body Language is Unreliable](https://www.centerforrespect.com/body-language-unreliable/): "Body language is unreliable, the only way to know for sure is to ASK." HOW TO SHARE THE IMAGE: Right click on the image and click on “Save As” or “Save Image” and then upload the image to your social media channels.
- [Licensees Share Impact of 2-Day Training](https://www.centerforrespect.com/licensees-share-impact-2day-training/): As we are preparing for the upcoming 2-Day Live Training on November 13th and 14th to license individuals to be able to present the “Can I Kiss You?” program to 6th through 12th grade students, we surveyed the attendees from the past 2-Day trainings. You'll notice the participants come from all over the country. Here
- [Lowering Sexual Assault on College Campuses and in the Military Starts in Elementary School](https://www.centerforrespect.com/lowering-sexual-assault-college-campuses-military-starts-elementary-school/): As Originally Published on HuffingtonPost.com As the brother of a sexual assault survivor, seeing the mainstream media, the federal government, and the public at large begin to engage in a conversation on sexual assault and rape is encouraging. Everyday we see new ideas and proposed guidelines aimed at preventing this horrible crime. Our society finally
- [The ONLY Way to Know For Sure What Your Partner Wants is to Ask](https://www.centerforrespect.com/partner/): "Regardless of what dating books teach, the only way to know for sure what your partner wants is to ASK" HOW TO SHARE THE IMAGE: Right click on the image and click on “Save As” or “Save Image” and then upload the image to your social media channels.
- [Choosing to Stand Up by Courtney Kolb](https://www.centerforrespect.com/choosing-stand-courtney-kolb/): *All names have been changed to protect individuals* It was 2:50pm when I met Jenny and the school day was almost done. She stood before me looking timid and scared but purposeful at the same time. I had just presented to middle school students on sexual assault, consent, and standing up for the people around
- [Affirmative Consent Should be the NORM (California Debate)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/california-affirmative-consent-standard-norm/): Watch our Founder, Mike Domitrz, explain why Affirmative Consent on college and university campuses should be the NORM (to learn more about this proposed legislation being debated in California, click here). If our country is serious about reducing sexual assault, then teaching consent to AFFIRM your partner wants the sexual activity is the most common
- [Guidance for Parents with Students Going to College](https://www.centerforrespect.com/guidance-parents-students-college/): Last Wednesday morning, WTMJ 4 (NBC) here in Milwaukee, had our Founder, Mike Domitrz, on The Morning Blend with hosts Molly and Tiffany to help parents of both sons and daughters with their students going off to college. Topics included discussing sex, intimacy, dating, and safety. Watch the full episode to learn common mistakes Moms
- [Survivors DESERVE Advocates on College Campuses](https://www.centerforrespect.com/survivors-outreach-support-campus-act/): California Sen. Barbara Boxer and Rep. Susan Davis are sending forth IMPORTANT legislation titled (The Survivor Outreach & Support Campus Act or SOS Campus Act - click here to see the document on HuffingtonPost.com) for supporting survivors on college campuses. They are following the path that has helped many more survivors come forward in the
- [Respect is shown by giving your partner a choice...](https://www.centerforrespect.com/respect-shown-giving-partner-choice/): "Respect is shown by giving your partner a choice... and honoring it." HOW TO SHARE THE IMAGE: Right click on the image and click on “Save As” or “Save Image” and then upload the image to your social media channels.
- [Question of the Week:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/question-week-4/): This question is from a survivor. "I recently met a guy and we get on really well. Is being friends with him and sleeping with him, without sex or kissing, leading him on? Is this normal behavior for someone coming to terms with 2 attacks of attempted rape/sexual assault?"
- ["We need to change the way society views dating & intimacy"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/society-views-dating-intimacy/): "In order to truly reduce the number of sexual assaults, we need to change the way society views dating & intimacy." HOW TO SHARE THE IMAGE: Right click on the image and click on “Save As” or “Save Image” and then upload the image to your social media channels.
- [Every Person Deserves a Voice](https://www.centerforrespect.com/person-deserves-voice/): "Every person deserves a voice in their relationship." HOW TO SHARE THE IMAGE: Right click on the image and click on “Save As” or “Save Image” and then upload the image to your social media channels.
- ["Going For it" with another person's body is Arrogance.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/persons-body-arrogance/): "Going for it" with another person's body is Arrogance. Confidence resides in the person who ASKS FIRST. HOW TO SHARE THE IMAGE: Right click on the image and click on “Save As” or “Save Image” and then upload the image to your social media channels.
- [QUESTION OF THE WEEK:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/question-week-3/): "I'd like to know how to tell the difference of when someone really likes you and wants to be more than friends, when he/she likes you just as a friend, and when that person only wants to have sex with you." What advice would you give this person?
- [Book Review: Roxanna Jolly Reviews "May I Kiss You?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/book-review-roxanna-jolly-reviews-kiss/): This one is a must-read for our youth, whether the youth is in junior high or college-bound. This book underlines how teaching respect and boundaries when dating can be a positive step toward sexual assault prevention efforts. About Mike Domitrz: Mike Domitrz has touched millions of people with his lessons about sexual assault and healthy
- [If Our Country Wants to Reduce Sexual Assault on Campuses, We Must . . .](https://www.centerforrespect.com/if-our-country-wants-to-reduce-sexual-assault/): START BEFORE THEY GET TO CAMPUS (in fact before they get to high school). To truly reduce sexual assault and sexual violence on college campuses, we need a movement focused on cultural transformation that takes place years before a college student steps on campus. If we really want to lower sexual assault on university campuses
- [Book Review: Examiner.com recommends "May I Kiss You?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/book-review-examinercom-recommends-kiss/): Parenting 101: The consequences of teen sex and averting sexual assault A good place to start is with Michael J. Domitrz’s May I Kiss You: A Candid Look at Dating, Communication, Respect, & Sexual Assault Awareness. Such reading should be all but mandatory in these sexually supercharged days. It offers sensible advice and strategies, while,
- [INBETWEEN Magazine](https://www.centerforrespect.com/inbetween-magazine/): THANK YOU to INBETWEEN Magazine for their great article with our Founder, Mike Domitrz about teen dating. How to Help Your Teen Date Smart “For a teenager, being able to recognize a healthy relationship is the first step,” says Domitrz. “A healthy relationship is when both people have equal choices and a mutual ongoing respect
- [Review: "excellent feedback from your briefing..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-2/): I’m still receiving excellent feedback from your briefing and it’s been a few months. Hope all is well. – HEATHER J. VAN MILL, 62AW/CVK, McChord Air Force Base
- [What Is the Romantic and Respectful Way to Kiss Someone?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/ask-first-image/): Ask First. Please share this image to help spread the message. HOW TO SHARE THE IMAGE: Right click on the image and click on “Save As” or “Save Image” and then upload the image to your social media channels.
- [Question of the Week:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/question-week-2/): "I was checking my son's phone and I saw rather explicit text messages he was sending to a girl a his school. What worries me more is that she was going along with him. Do I confront him or do I go to his school and try and talk to this little girl? They are
- [Dad's Round Table Interview](https://www.centerforrespect.com/dads-table-interview/): Thank you to Dad's Round Table for doing a great interview with our Founder, Mike Domitrz, for their website. Rape, and the Date-Safe Project; an interview with Mike Domitrz Rape is a crime of violence. It is a crime of subjugation and dehumanization. In rape, sex is a tool used to humiliate and debase. The
- [If Someone is Drunk, They Cannot Give Consent](https://www.centerforrespect.com/if-someone-is-drunk/): "If someone is drunk, they CANNOT give consent because they're not 100 percent in their normal state of mind." Please share this image to help spread awareness of this important message.
- [One Organization's Sexual Assault Awareness Month](https://www.centerforrespect.com/organizations-sexual-assault-awareness-month/): Matt Zanger from the Riverview Center in Iowa shares with us the activities in his region for recognizing Sexual Assault Awareness Month. Presentation/Awareness, Carroll Co. Farm Bureau 4/4/14 7:00pm Tabling: A Walk in Her Shoes, Loras College: Breitbach Hall 4/4/14 11:00am Bermer Family Fun Fair, Waverly 4/5/14 CVRW Opening Ceremony, TBA
- [It's All About Consent](https://www.centerforrespect.com/consent/): April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. Please share this image to help spread the message. HOW TO SHARE THE IMAGE: Right click on the image and click on “Save As” or “Save Image” and then upload the image to your social media channels.
- [Talking to Your Teenager About Dating and Sexual Assault](https://www.centerforrespect.com/talking-teenager-dating-sexual-assault/): Our Founder, Mike Domitrz, was asked to write an article for North Texas Kids advising parents on how to have this important conversation with teens. How to Talk to Your Teenager About Dating and Sexual Assault The greatest way a parent can help reduce the probability of a child being sexually assaulted on a date
- [Review: "wonderful presentation!"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-wonderful-presentation/): Mike, Again, thank you for your wonderful presentation! They had pretty good coverage on the local news. – Staci Vileta, YA-02, Sexual Assault Response Coordinator (SARC) Dyess Air Force Base
- [Being Awkward & the Passion in 20 Strangers Kissing](https://www.centerforrespect.com/20-strangers-kissing/): Have you seen the video of 20 strangers kissing that is going viral? You can watch the entire video below. What lesson does this captivating video reveal without even trying to? Too often people want to believe the myth that consent is awkward and that awkward leads to "ruining the moment." In the popular video,
- ["Can I Kiss You?" in the Horn of Africa and Middle East](https://www.centerforrespect.com/kiss-horn-africa-middle-east/): This week and next week, our Founder (Mike Domitrz) is speaking to our troops in the Horn of Africa and in the Middle East. This past week, Mike presented the “Can I Kiss You?” program to troops at Camp Lemmonier in Dijibouti. In the program, Mike is giving them the tools to be proactive in
- ['Kiss' and Tell - Yankton Press & Dakotan](https://www.centerforrespect.com/kiss-yankton-press-dakotan/): We were recently inspired, by a Yankton High School Sophomore, to surprise her high school with a "Can I Kiss You?" presentation. Keeley's personal story is amazing. Rob Nielson at the Yankton Press & Dakotan wrote a wonderful article about Keeley and the presentation. ‘Kiss’ And Tell - Yankton Press & Dakotan_ Community (1)
- [Facebook Group "Ask First"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/facebook-group/): We love hearing your personal experiences in Asking First, Bystander Intervention and Opening the Door to Survivors. They inspire us to continue doing what we do. Sharing your stories will inspire more people to join this important movement for creating a culture of consent. We encourage you to JOIN our Facebook Group and SHARE your
- [Making "Plan A" your only option on The Shut Up Show](https://www.centerforrespect.com/theshutupshow/): Thank you to Bernie Xiong and Phil Gerbyshak of "The Shut Up Show" for inviting our Founder, Mike Domitrz, to share his personal story about dedicating to his life's calling. He talks about the personal struggles he and his family overcame and how having their support made it easier. This is an inspiring interview showing how to commit
- [K107.1 Mornings with Bart](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k1071-mornings-bart/): Thank you to Bart Winkler and K107.1 for inviting our Founder, Mike Domitrz, on "Mornings with Bart". Mike talks to Bart about 3 unique presentations at UW-Oshkosh and the skills being taught to students about our culture, consent, respect, and bystander intervention. You can click below to listen to the recording.
- [Book Review: thatbaldchick.com reviews "May I Kiss You?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/book-review-thatbaldchickcom-reviews-kiss/): Recently, I got the chance to review the book May I Kiss You, written by Mike Domritz. Mike Domritz is an educator who has over a decade’s experience teaching parents, teachers, and students about dating, communication, respect, and sexual assault awareness. This book was of interest to me for a few reasons. First, having completed the majority
- [The Scott Sands Show](https://www.centerforrespect.com/scott-sands-show/): A Big THANK YOU to The Scott Sands Show for having our Founder, Mike Domitrz, on to discuss how big a problem sexual assault is and the skill sets the Date Safe Project teaches in schools.
- [Review: "Whatever you do...be at this training"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-13/): The Training to become licensed with the “Can I Kiss You?” program is like no other educational experience you will encounter. You will be inspired to want to immediately get into your schools and start sharing the incredible lessons and strategies you’ve just learned. You’ll have a greater confidence for being able to create more
- [Review: "a thought-leader who gives of himself wholly..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-mike-domitrz-person-honored-call-friend/): Rarely do you meet a thought-leader who gives of himself wholly without seeking anything in return – all while inspiring each person in the room to a new level of excellence. Mike Domitrz is that person who I am honored to call my friend. Sam Silverstein Past-President National Speakers Association and author of No More
- [Review: "...these numbers are a strong testament to the power of your presentation"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-14/): On a survey students were asked: ‘If a partner doesn’t say or do anything to stop sexual intimacy, then she is giving implied consent for that act to occur.’ Before they came to hear you, only 21% of the high school students disagreed with this statement!!!!! In other words, almost 80% of the kids felt
- [Review: "I can't recall an assembly that was more well received..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-15/): I can’t recall an assembly that was more well received on such a relevant topic to the lives of young people in my 29 years in public education. . . The results of evaluations that our students completed following this assembly were overwhelming in evoking pledges of positive behavioral change. I think this was a
- [Review: "What more could any educator as for in a presentation?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-what-more-could-any-educator-as-for-in-a-presentation/): I wonder if you recall their reception to your information. To say they were morphed from negative to positive is an understatement. They were initially ‘closed up’, unreceptive to any stranger in the room, no less one with a message to deliver. By the end of the presentation, they were engaging in easy dialogue with
- [Review: "Your presentation...gave them specific ways to behave differently"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-16/): Often such difficult topics and concepts to address from sexual assault to what a person of real character is about, are simply not talked about. Further many schools are not as direct … talking about an ‘illegal’ activity is often assumed to condone it. This cannot be further from the truth. Your presentation informed my
- [Review: "We have heard nothing but positive comments from students and staff alike"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-heard-nothing-positive-comments-students-staff-alike/): To be honest, my administrators were a little concerned with the topic, but once they saw the presentation, they all thought Mike did an excellent job of handling a difficult topic in a very safe, respectful way. Actually, Mike does an amazing job. We have heard nothing but positive comments from students and staff alike.
- [Review: "...this was the first program where we felt educated"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-17/): After seeing 4 years of a variety of speakers this was the first program where we felt educated. Mike Domitrz gave the audience the tools to change the way we all lead our relationships. Lisa Goldberg & Ashley Gomberg Panhellenic Council, University of Florida
- [Review: "Thank you for what you do"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-thank-you-for-what-you-do-2/): Since you came I have not only heard discussions from my staff but also the students about consent and bystander intervention. Already this year students are coming forward quickly to hold their fellow students responsible for sexual harassment as well as other offenses. Survivors are coming forward and my staff is open and ready to
- [Review: "Our students left the program feeling confident..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-students-left-program-feeling-confident/): We invited student leaders in positions as Resident Assistants, Orientation leaders, Greek Life members, and Campus Activities to the Talk Back session with Mike. Mike gave our student leaders some great tools for facilitating difficult conversations! The role playing Mike had students do was especially effective in creating real situations our student leaders find themselves
- [Review: "He is fantastic"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-18/): We recently hosted Mike Domitrz here at UF and he actually spoke to all of the student athletes (including the National Championship football team!) and students “at-large” about these issues. Mike is a phenomenal speaker and comes with my highest recommendation if you are ever interested (or your Wellness program) in hosting him. His presentations
- [Review: "Mike provides a good balance of humor and seriousness in his program"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-19/): First, I’d like to say how great it was to work with you again. Our students and staff really enjoyed meeting you. I know I speak for everyone at Point Park University when I say, thank you for everything you do. You have helped open the eyes of our students to consent in relationships and
- [Review: "I would strongly recommend him for college audiences without reservations"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-i-would-strongly-recommend-him-for-college-audiences-without-reservations/): Mike was a pleasure to work with. He was extremely professional and is clearly passionate about making a difference in people’s lives. Can I Kiss You? was a fantastic presentation that exceeded our expectations. The students were engaged from the moment he began to the moment he stopped. We’ve brought in most of the big
- [Review: "The students loved him!"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-20/): Great Program! Touched on every aspect we were hoping it to (i.e. dating, sex, drugs/alcohol, rape, sexual assault). Definitely got all the students involved and spoke on our level. Mike is so easy to work with! The students loved him! I look forward to seeing him speak again. Erica Lovano Women’s Center University of San
- [Review: "It was an awesome evening!"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-21/): It was an awesome evening! Everyone really enjoyed it. You presented such important issues in such a non-threatening manner. We will definitely be asking you to return to our campus. Even one of my students, who initially came just for some extra credit, commented that he was glad he came, even if there wasn’t the
- [Review: "I think every college would benefit from having you on campus..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-22/): Thanks to you for your presence on campus last night. People are talking today–all good, good things, obviously. It’s just beyond cool to see students enjoying a program that I know they’re learning something from…imagine that!! Obviously I think every college would benefit from having you on campus, and the three that I’ve worked at
- [Review: "...vying for the chance to come to the front of the room..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-23/): Can there be a more difficult audience than 500 plus college freshman required to attend a lecture on sexual assault? That’s exactly what Mike Domitrz faced when he visited Berry College on September 6, 2004 . . . It took Mike very little time, however, to get the entire, jaded audience on his side. Five
- [Review: "Mike leads his audience in a profoundly practical exploration of the importance of asking"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-24/): Audiences respond to the humor and energy in Mike’s writing and presentations about intimacy in relationships. After capturing their curiosity and respect, Mike leads his audience in a profoundly practical exploration of the importance of asking. Dr. Debra Mashek George Mason University (VA) and Editor of Handbook of Closeness and Intimacy
- [Review: "I wanted to let you know that the program was fantastic"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-25/): Mike, my students interacted with you during your program at St. Peter’s school in East Troy, Wisconsin on Monday. I wanted to let you know that the program was fantastic. You did a great job imparting lessons and strategies for the kids to take with them. I was apprehensive at first because I saw the
- [Review: "The faculty was in awe..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-the-faculty-was-in-awe/): I know you’ll check your email tonight and I just wanted to thank you again for providing such wonderful programs today. The faculty was in awe of the way you had the high school kids in the palm of your hand! My daughter and her friends we’re at our house this afternoon and they said
- [Review: "Thank you for giving the students a practical solution..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-26/): Aloha Mike, I recently had the opportunity to bring my class to your presentation at Hilo High School. Thank you for giving the students practical solutions to the problem of how to intervene when they see a situation going wrong. At least in Hawaii, many situations that used to spur a call for help (i.e.
- [Review: "After his performance, the students talked for days about it..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-27/): After his performance, the students talked for days about it, and many students sought the counsel of faculty and friends to talk about issues his comments raised. I sincerely recommend Mike to any school looking for a fun and fresh way to educate their students about dating and relationship dynamics, sexual assault, and open minds.”
- [Review: "We thought your presentation was great..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-28/): We thought your presentation was great, your rapport with the kids was terrific and the subject matter was right on target. The way we gauge if something is a success is if the kids are still talking about it a few days later. Needless to say, we heard tons of positive feedback from the students
- [Review: "Thank you because you connected so easily and comfortably with our students..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-29/): As the excitement of this week’s successful series of 12 presentations turns into the sheer joy of having made such a large impact on the fabric of our children’s lives, we want to say, ‘THANK YOU’! Thank you because you connected so easily and comfortably with our students, and thank you because you also connected
- [Review: "I believe that the message is solid, valuable, and delivered in a professional, caring manner."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-30/): With this subject matter it would be easy for the students to dismiss Mike’s presentation. However, Mike put the students in the position to respond to his inquiries and actions. Therefore, his message carried the credibility of the endorsement of the peer group. (example: the girls let the boys know that Mike was right). I
- [Review: "We think you really got the point across to all of us..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-31/): We are 7th graders at ___________ (erased name for confidentiality reasons) Middle School. You came to our school and talked to us. We think you really got the point across to all of us and we really appreciated it. We think that some of the kids finally understood that what they were doing was wrong.
- [Review: "thank you for making a difference in my life"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-thank-you-for-making-a-difference-in-my-life/): You were a great inspiration to me that day that you came to the school. Once again, thank you for making a difference in my life. Anonymous (no students’ names are listed to respect the privacy of minors)
- [Review: "Thank you for your excellent program"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-32/): After your presentation in March of this year, our 13 year old daughter (who deals with GAD and ADD in addition to being a teenager) reported an incident that she had been hiding from us for nearly a year. A 14 year old boy had used coercion to force her into a 2 second ‘experiment’
- [The "Slut Reputation" Discussion](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-slut-reputation-discussion/): “But if I ask for a kiss, my partner is going to assume I also want a lot more than a kiss.” Over the years of discussing verbal consent with students around the country, this concern has been expressed numerous times, usually by females of various ages. The worry is that showing any verbal sexual
- [Review: "My mom was so impressed..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-my-mom-was-so-impressed/): When I received the DVD in the mail, I could not wait to watch it. I had read so many good reviews about the program. I watched the program with my mom and we both enjoyed it. The author and presenter of the program was so intuned with the teen population and what is happening
- [Review: "Mike Domitrz's approach has helped remove many of my own fears"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-5/): As a mother of teens, HELP! My Teen Is Dating has proven to be a powerful tool which allowed me to begin a conversation on a sensitive topic without feeling awkward. After viewing the video with my daughter, I feel she now has the tools and insights to make healthier and safer choices. Plus, Mike
- [Review: "This DVD will give you the confidence, skills and information..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-6/): At last, a how-to kit for parents navigating the treacherous territory of teen dating. This DVD will give you the confidence, skills, and information to truly engage your child in a dialogue about the important issues teens face in these relationships. Carolyn Pukl Health Educator at Lakeland Regional High School (NJ)
- [Review: "Mike Domitrz offers more than practical advice..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-7/): Mike Domitrz offers more than practical advice for parents. Throughout, Mike actually demonstrates the tools for talking with your teen about these issues. Rob Rephan Rape Prevention Education Coordinator (CA)
- [Review: "I guarantee that this video will give you the tools to talk to your teen..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-8/): I found myself laughing, answering the questions, and nodding my head in agreement with the audience. We’ve all been told to ‘keep the lines of communication open’ with our sons and daughters, but nobody ever tells us how to do that. As a parent and educator, I guarantee that this video will give you the
- [Review: "Loved the presentation, thought it was awesome!"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-loved-the-presentation-thought-it-was-awesome/): Loved the presentation, thought it was awesome! The skits you acted out were hysterical, but SO true, also you definitely made an impression on some of the males in the freshman class cause I’ve heard through the grape vine and from friends that the question “can i kiss you?” has been asked quite a bit!
- [Review: "All I can say is WOW!!"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-all-i-can-say-is-wow/): All I can say is WOW!! I attended one of his sessions for the Peer-Ed people and his “Can I Kiss You?” program too and both were amazing. I truly enjoyed everything…and everything he had to say was so true. Guys and Girls all have a lot to learn about communication, and this is a
- [Review: "I want to thank you so much"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-9/): I have used the ‘asking first’ approach with my boyfriend and he has used it with me. It has really helped us to have great communication with each other, and we have a very healthy and happy relationship. Asking helps to make the relationship more open and comfortable. If you ask first or are asked
- [Review: "Your words changed my life and..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-10/): There was a guy on campus to ask me out and it was just after your talk so the words were fresh in my head (the poster hangs on my dorm door) so at the end of the date I asked him if I could kiss him. He seemed surprised that I would ask, but
- [Review: "It was great that Mike brought light to that situation..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-11/): My sister and I were both raped in the past year. She was assaulted on a Friday and by Monday, I had heard things about it around our high school. I also knew because I had acted the same way after being assaulted. I opened the door and told her that if something happened, she
- [Review: "...I just wanted to thank you for opening my eyes to what I have been oblivious to!"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-12/): I am an athlete on our campus who attended your seminar on Wednesday. I just wanted to let you know how much you put things into perspective. It had never really occurred to me that the simple action of asking for permission could really be that powerful. I have been with my boyfriend for about
- [Student QUESTION of the Week:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-question-week-2/): "How do I leave a toxic 8 year relationship?" What advice would you give this student?
- [Mike Domitrz on the Michael Dresser Show](https://www.centerforrespect.com/mike-domitrz-michael-dresser-show/): A BIG thank you to the Michael Dresser Show for inviting our Founder, Mike Domitrz on his show. You can listen to the interview as they discuss how the dating culture really hasn't changed over the years, the three mistakes parents make in discussing dating & intimacy with their teens, and the skill sets that
- [Lydia Davey: Former Marine, Motivational Speaker and Author](https://www.centerforrespect.com/lydia-davey-marine-motivational-speaker-author/): Lydia Davey is an entrepreneur, author, and motivational speaker. She served as a U.S. Marine for eight years – deploying to Afghanistan in 2006 in support of Operation Enduring Freedom, and working extensively throughout Africa, Asia, and Europe. In 2013, she founded Moriah Creatives PR; a fee-only public relations firm that provides small businesses with fresh, intelligent
- [Review: "very appropriate for our cadets..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review/): “Your program is exceptional! The message you send is very appropriate for our cadets. It fits very well into our curriculum. As you recall, one of the groups you trained had been training all day and were exhausted. You were able to get the group to not only pay attention, but to thoroughly engage in
- [Review: "Thank you for what you do."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-thank-you-for-what-you-do/): “Since you came I have not only heard discussions from my staff but also the students about consent and bystander intervention. Already this year students are coming forward quickly to hold their fellow students responsible for sexual harassment as well as other offenses. Survivors are coming forward and my staff is open and ready to
- [Review: "great tools for facilitating difficult conversations..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-great-tools-for-facilitating-difficult-conversations/): “We invited student leaders in positions as Resident Assistants, Orientation leaders, Greek Life members, and Campus Activities to the Talk Back session with Mike. Mike gave our student leaders some great tools for facilitating difficult conversations! The role playing Mike had students do was especially effective in creating real situations our student leaders find themselves in when dealing with alcohol,
- [Review: "very interactive, funny but insightful and thought-provoking..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-3/): We recently hosted Mike Domitrz here at UF and he actually spoke to all of the student athletes (including the National Championship football team!) and students “at-large” about these issues. Mike is a phenomenal speaker and comes with my highest recommendation if you are ever interested (or your Wellness program) in hosting him. His presentations
- [The focus most people are MISSING in President Obama addressing sexual assault epidemic on campuses.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/obama-epidemic-sexual-assault-college-campuses/): Today, President Obama addressed a report from the White House Council on Women and Girls detailing the epidemic of sexual assaults on college campuses (click here to read USA Today article). EPIDEMIC is the key word. While some people may respond with, "Epidemic is a bit extreme," research shows 1 in 5 women are sexually
- [Meet Deri Latimer, Expert in Possibilities for People, on Gift of RESPECT](https://www.centerforrespect.com/meet-deri-latimer-expert-possibilities-people-gift-respect/): Deri Latimer is an expert in possibilities for people! Deri combines a business degree in human resources management with 20 years of experience engaging audiences across every business sector. Each week Deri visits workplaces and speaks on how to create positive, psychologically healthy organizations. “Repeatedly, when we listen mindfully to staff members, a recurring theme appears
- [Mike Domitrz on WRJN 1400 AM](https://www.centerforrespect.com/mike-domitrz-wrjn-1400/): A BIG Thank You to Ted Ehlen for having our Founder, Mike Domitrz on his show to discuss sexual decision-making and The DATE SAFE Project. Mike shares with listeners how he started The DATE SAFE Project and the skills that are taught to students, parents, and organizations about how to ASK for what you want
- [Question of the Week:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/question-week/): "How do you know when it's okay to tell someone that you love him or her?" How would you answer this question?
- [Meet Jessica Pettitt, Founder of "I Am Social Justice", on Gift of RESPECT](https://www.centerforrespect.com/meet-jessica-pettitt/): Jessica Pettitt is the “diversity educator” your family warned you about. She is easy to work with, accessible, and brings VERY simple concepts that are really hard to incorporate into our lives. Where Gandhi may want you to Be The Change You Want To See In The World, Jessica asks for you to actually Be the Change You Want To
- [2014 and the New Book](https://www.centerforrespect.com/2014-new-book/): Recently, we held our Annual Strategic Planning Meeting for The DATE SAFE Project moving into 2014. In doing so, we started by reviewing 2013 and making a list of our Year In Review. Having our entire team together for this evaluation was lots of fun. Next up, we began focusing on our goals for 2014.
- [New Zealand & USA Parents on Sex Education](https://www.centerforrespect.com/new-zealand-usa-parents-sex-education/): A recent report from New Zealand shows that 74.7% of people believe sex education should include discussing RESPECT and go beyond just the mechanics and medical aspects of sex. What do you think the percentage would be in the United States of America, especially when asking parents? When the "Can I Kiss You?" program is
- [How may we support you in 2014?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/we-support-you-2014/): With today being the first day "back to work" for most people after celebrating the New Year, we have one question for you: "How may we be of support for YOU in 2014?" What ways can we be of support to you? SHARE in the Comments section below.
- [Meet Joyce Weiss, Conflict Resolution Consultant, January 2nd on "Gift of RESPECT"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/meet-joyce-weiss/): An author, speaker and trainer, Joyce has used her extensive professional experience serving hundreds of companies and associations. Joyce has a Master’s Degree in Guidance and Counseling from Oakland University, sits on the Board of Directors for the School of Education and Human Services in Rochester, Michigan, and maintains her certification as a Best Practices Company. Joyce is a
- [Student QUESTION of the Week:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-question-of-the-week-4/): "How do you say no or vocalize discomfort about situations with someone you're with?" How would you advise this student to verbalize their non-consent?
- [Meet Rebecca Musser, the wife who brought the FDLS leaders to justice, on Gift of RESPECT](https://www.centerforrespect.com/meet-rebecca-musser-the-wife-who-brought-the-fdls-leaders-to-justice-on-gift-of-respect/): Rebecca Musser is the 19th wife who brought polygamist cult leaders to justice. She has spent the last ten years of her life creating a new existence for herself and her family; as well as advocating on behalf of oppressed women and children worldwide. She grew up in fear and shame while having to conceal
- [Student QUESTION of the Week:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student/): How do you detect unsafe people before starting a relationship with them? What advice would you give this student?
- ["May I Kiss You" on the radio show "Conversation Pieces"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/conversation-pieces/): Cyrus Webb invited Mike to talk about his book "May I Kiss You" and the work he does around the country with The DATE SAFE Project. More Current Events Podcasts at Blog Talk Radio with Conversation Pieces on BlogTalkRadio
- [Student QUESTION of the Week:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-question-of-the-week-3/): How do I find a girl who wants the same thing as I do? I've had a very confusing life when it comes to sexuality. I've always wanted the perfect girl, and hooking up never appealed to me. What I wanted was a smart, beautiful, independent woman that could make me better and appreciate that
- [Changing the Norm on Military Installations with "Can I Kiss YOU?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/changing-the-norm-on-military-installations-with-can-i-kiss-you/): Our Founder, Mike Domitrz, was invited on "Because Hope Matters Radio". Mike shares with hosts Maryann Makekau and Rob Harris how The DATE SAFE Project is changing the norms on military installations and beyond with the "Can I Kiss You?" program. Listen as Mike talks about why he started the "Can I Kiss You?" program
- [Student QUESTION of the Week](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-question-of-the-week-2/): How early in a relationship should we talk about intimacy? I've always been struggling on starting up a conversation on how far I'm willing to go intimately with a person. How long should I be with the person before we have that talk? How would we start that talk? What are your
- ["Stupid Girls", Texting, Consent, & Roxanne Jones](https://www.centerforrespect.com/roxanne-jones-espn-text-consent/): According to her CNN Op-Ed (click here to read), Roxanne Jones, Founding Editor of ESPN The Magazine, shared the following with her son: Never have sex with a girl unless she's sent you a text that proves the sexual relationship is consensual beforehand. ~ Roxanne Jones We are always appreciative when parents work to educate
- [What to Watch For in Jameis Winston Case](https://www.centerforrespect.com/what-to-watch-for-in-jameis-winston-case/): Mark Moses at Sports Radio 95.9 The Fan invited Our Founder, Mike Domitrz, to discuss the case at Florida State University involving Heisman Trophy candidate Jameis Winston. Listen as Mike Domitrz and Mark Moses discuss how the case is being handled by law enforcement and in the media, the potential victim blaming that is further
- [Student QUESTION of the Week:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-question-of-the-week/): What do I do when my partner wants to move faster than I do? I'm currently engaged in the beginnings of a relationship, and things seem to be going well. The one problem is that my partner wants to move faster in the relationship than I'm comfortable with. I don't want to break things off
- [Jameis Winston Case on Sports Radio 930AM: Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sports-radio-930am-interviews-mike-domitrz/): Listen as Tony Modica interviews our Founder Mike Domitrz about the Jameis Winston case and what to LOOK OUT FOR as the case potentially proceeds, such as victim blaming and much more: http://www.datesafeproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/DS-Tony-M-Jax-930am.mp3
- [Meet Mike Dilbeck, Founder of RESPONSE ABILITY Project, on Gift of RESPECT](https://www.centerforrespect.com/meet-mike-dilbeck-founder-of-response-ability-project-live-today-on-gift-of-respect/): Mike Dilbeck is a professional speaker and expert on bystander behavior and heroism. His mission is to empower people to intervene in problem situations and be an Every|Day Hero! Mike is the Founder & President of RESPONSE ABILITY Project and the Every|Day Hero Campaign. He dedicates himself fully to these life-changing initiatives. He travels the country empowering others to
- [Listen to Gift of RESPECT for a UNIQUE and FUN episode](https://www.centerforrespect.com/join-us-live-today-on-gift-of-respect-for-a-unique-and-fun-episode/): Listen to Mike Domitrz from his 2-Day Training event with attendees from around the country who are passionate about teaching and spreading the message of respect in middle schools and high schools throughout North America. This episode is from the actual event with an in-person audience of attendees. Listen to Mike share insights and takeaways about presenting
- [Student QUESTION of the week:Consent: STOP When I Say](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-question-consent-stop/): How do I tell my boyfriend to stop & have him actually listen instead of him thinking I am joking around about consent? Share your answers in the COMMENTS section.
- [Body Image and RESPECT: Sally Gifford Piper](https://www.centerforrespect.com/body-image-sally-gifford-piper/): Below is the video featuring model Sally Gifford Piper that continues to bring attention to how companies use Photoshop to drastically alter the appearance of the human body. When inundated with imagery throughout the day, many people fail to recognize the impact of that visual stimuli occurring in their brains and to the psychology of
- [Student QUESTION of the Week:What do I say to a sexual assault survivor I care about who is not seeking help?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/what-do-i-say-survivor/): STUDENT QUESTION: I saw "Can I Kiss You?" at my school a couple of years ago. It was very inspirational. I just found out someone close to me was raped during a date a year ago. She says not to worry and that she's okay. I know she doesn't want to get help or see
- [TeamUp to STOP Bullying](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teamup-stop-bullying/): With all the discussion going on surrounding the bullying allegations against Miami Dolphins offensive lineman Richie Incognito, let’s not fail to engage everyone we know on the importance of this topic. Help take a stand to stop people who bully others—no matter what age they are. Please SHARE this image on all your social media
- [Student QUESTION of the Week: When Trust Has Been Broken](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-question-broken-trust/): You had a complete trust in your partner but it was broken. How do you rebuild that trust? Share your answers in the COMMENTS section.
- [Win iPhone 5/5s Case!!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/win-iphone-5-case/): To win the customized iPhone case you see to the right, SHARE in the COMMENTS section below how The DATE SAFE Project, our resources, and/or the "Can I Kiss You?" program has either helped or impacted your life. 10 People will be selected to receive the iPhone 5/5s case. Over the past year, Mike Domitrz
- ["Piñata" - the STRENGTH of a Survivor: Pages Matam](https://www.centerforrespect.com/pinata-survivor-youtube/): Watch Pages Matam share the below courageous Slam Poetry reading with the world (and now the video is gaining momentum via YouTube). The below video takes you on a powerful journey sparked by a cruel comment of a person on a subway ride. WARNING: Please know this passion-filled YouTube video does contain content that may
- ["Gift of RESPECT" NOW on iTunes](https://www.centerforrespect.com/gift-of-respect-now-on-itunes/): You can now listen to our "Gift of RESPECT" weekly radio show hosted by our Founder, Mike Domitrz, on iTunes as a PODCAST. in iTunes, search under Podcasts > Health > Self-Help > Gift of RESPECT Be sure to listen each week!
- ["Loved to Death" on "48 HOURS" (CBS)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/loved-to-death-on-48-hours-cbs/): Watch this Saturday (October 26th) at 10pm Eastern Time and Pacific Time (9pm Central / 8pm Mountain) on CBS. During the show, you are encouraged to tweet #datingviolence and #48hours. 48 HOURS: “Loved to Death” explores dating and breakup violence through an inside look at the murder of 18-year-old Lauren Dunne Astley at the hands
- [Listen to Allison Massari online Today](https://www.centerforrespect.com/meet-allison-massari/): Critically acclaimed artist, survivor and entrepreneur Allison Massari (www.AllisonMassari.com) is a survivor, entrepreneur, critically acclaimed artist, author, and life-changing speaker. Allison Massari found peace, purpose, and happiness after overcoming two extraordinary personal tragedies. In 1998, she survived a near fatal 60 mph car crash where she was trapped and burned severely. Just three years later she was
- [Student QUESTION of the Week: What Do Guys Want?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/what-guys-want/): A student recently asked the following question: I wish someone could help me with my confidence, with myself, and my instinct in men. About a year ago, I broke up with my all-through-high-school boyfriend because he gave me the ultimatum I knew was coming eventually: I have sex with him within the next couple of
- ["Safe It Up" App - What Do You Think?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/safe-it-up-app/): Have you heard about the new app "Safe It Up" designed by a team out of Australia? You can check it out at http://www.safeitup.com/ The creators sent us the following description: SafeItUp allows you to set up check-in alerts (or set them for your children or friends) so that if for some reason a check-in is
- [Book Review, Natasha Brooks reviews "May I Kiss You?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/book-review-of-michael-j-domitrzs-critically-acclaimed-book-may-i-kiss-you/): Monday, October 21, 2013 from Examiner.com My rating: 4 of 5 stars Inspired by the rape of his sister in 1989, Michael J Domitrz wanted to make a difference on the very uncomfortable subject of sexual assault. It became his quest to learn everything he could about the subject and then teach others about this
- [Listen to LeAnn Thieman from "Operation BabyLift" TODAY](https://www.centerforrespect.com/leann-thieman-operation-babylift/): LeAnn Thieman (www.LeAnnThieman.com) is the nurse who was accidentally caught up in Vietnam Orphan Airlift - who has since become a renowned motivational speaker and author, sharing life-changing lessons that she learned during her airlift experiences. After her Operation Babylift story was featured in Chicken Soup For the Mother's Soul, she became one of their most prolific writers.
- [Congratulations to 2-Day Training Scholarship Recipient](https://www.centerforrespect.com/congratulations-scholarship/): The person chosen to receive a FULL SCHOLARSHIP to attend the 2-Day Training for becoming licensed to be a "Can I Kiss You?" presenter in K12 Schools (Middle Schools and High Schools) is Cheryl of Roseburg, Oregon. The Scholarship includes Full Airfare (donated by Rita Hookstead), Hotel, and 100% of Registration Fees. Congratulations, Cheryl!! The 2-Day
- [Georgia Tech Student APOLOGIZES - including for using the term "Rape Bait."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/georgia-tech-rape-bait/): Since we originally asked you to react to an email a Georgia Tech student and Fraternity brother sent referring to luring your "Rape Bait" (read the full story here), the student who wrote the email has sent an apology letter. READING WHAT THE STUDENT WROTE Click here to read the ORIGINAL EMAIL **Warning: the email is offensive
- [Behind the Scenes with "Kiss Me in New York"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/behind-the-scenes-kiss-me-in-new-york/): Below is a Behind the Scenes video of the song "Kiss Me in New York" being produced by Nicar with Bayani Music. You will notice a shout out to The DATE SAFE Project in the video. Let us know what YOU THINK of the video in the COMMENTS section below. If you want to share
- [Receive $1,000 in special bonuses while making a difference in your community this Spring (2014)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/make-difference-spring-2014/): Did you know that when you bring the "Can I Kiss You?" program hosted by Mike Domitrz to your community in the Spring of 2014, you receive the following 2 special bonuses worth over $1,000? SPRING 2014 SPECIAL BONUSES 42 copies of Mike Domitrz's best selling book May I Kiss You? A Candid Look at
- [The WNBA and an Unwanted Kiss at Work](https://www.centerforrespect.com/wnba-taurasi-kiss/): Spreading on YouTube is this footage of a WNBA player, Diana Taurasi, kissing an opposing player, Seimone Augustus, in the middle of playing in a game. The ref responded by calling a personal foul on both players (appears Augustus was called for one due to language used). Wouldn't this be great if in the workplace
- [Should you LOVE YOURSELF FIRST?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/love-yourself-first/): Written by: Mike Domitrz STUDENT QUESTION OF THE WEEK: "What I wish someone could help me with is understanding the link between self-worth/self-image and dating/relationships. I've heard from so many people 'you can't love someone else until you love yourself,' but I am pretty sure this is not true because I have loved every guy that
- [Novelist, Erin O'Riordan reviews "May I Kiss You?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/erin-oriordan-review/): FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 6, 2013 from GoodReads.com May I Kiss You?: A Candid Look at Dating, Communication, Respect, and Sexual Assault Awareness - Review My rating: 5 of 5 stars Everyone should read this book, but it's an especially good one for families whose children are soon to be of dating age, and for organizations that work
- [Radio or Podcast? Which do YOU prefer?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/radio-or-podcast/): Do you currently listen to online radio shows and/or podcasts? We would LOVE YOUR FEEDBACK about having us start our own online radio show / podcast hosted by our Founder, Mike Domitrz. Please take a minute to answer this super short survey: https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/3XK8QFF
- [Reviewers Speak Up in 10th Year](https://www.centerforrespect.com/reviewers-10th-year/): 2013 marks the 10 year anniversary of the critically-acclaimed book May I Kiss You? A Candid Look at Dating, Communication, Respect, & Sexual Assault Awareness by our Founder, Mike Domitrz. Recently national book reviewers took a fresh look at this powerful, life-changing book. Highlights from the reviews included: Reviewer: Chris Dubey, Hartford Books Examiner, posted
- [Football players? Who cares!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/football-players-who-cares/): Have you ever noticed when a high school or college athlete, particularly if a basketball and football player, is charged with sexual assault that articles in the media (online and traditional) make a point to lead with the fact the perpetrator is an athlete? Just a few days ago, the following case was breaking news
- [Asking First is the Ultimate Sign of Romance](https://www.centerforrespect.com/asking-first-is-the-ultimate-sign-of-romance/): To help spread this message, please SHARE the below image with family, friends, and colleagues via FaceBook, Twitter, Pinterest, LinkedIn, and others.
- [Alex Helps Create Caleb's Law in Georgia](https://www.centerforrespect.com/alex-calebs-law-georgia/): The INSPIRATION of family. As I was getting ready to speak at Berry College last week, Marshall (a dedicated Advisor to the Peer Health Educators) said that I should meet the student who was introducing me to the audience. Her name is Alex Sorohan. Marshall shared how from the inspiration of her brother, Alex is
- [Impact of Program Addressing Consent & Sexual Assault](https://www.centerforrespect.com/impact-sexual-assault-program/): Discover the impact one program is having on college & universities campuses for addressing consent, asking first, bystander intervention, sexual assault, rape, and opening the door for survivors: WHAT HUNDREDS OF STUDENTS SAID: CLICK HERE to read what hundreds of university and college students on September 4th in Canada said they were going to differently in
- [Generosity and Being of Service to Others](https://www.centerforrespect.com/generosity-and-being-of-service-to-others/): This weekend, I met a HERO when it comes to customer service. Would you trust a stranger with $100 of your money? I was leaving the Hilton Garden Inn (@HiltonGardenInn) to go speak to the incoming class at Algonquin College in Ottawa, Ontario (Canada). As I got packed up and closed my car trunk, I
- [Failure to ACT in Dodge County Fight](https://www.centerforrespect.com/failure-to-act-in-dodge-county-fight/): When you watch the following news report, you will find a case of a massive fight breaking out at a country fair in Wisconsin (only about 1 hour from our offices). The Sheriff is looking at charging both the teen girls involved in the fight AND the bystanders who watched (and even cheered the fight
- [Robin Thicke's Blurred Lines Video & Miley Cyrus](https://www.centerforrespect.com/robin-thickes-blurred-lines-video-miley-cyrus/): If you listen to any mainstream radio station that plays Top 40 Pop / R&B, you've heard Robin Thicke's song "Blurred Lines" many times. As a person who loves good dance music, I would turn the song up when it started playing on the radio. The beat is catchy . . . UNTIL I just
- [#its11pm hashtag and the power of Twitter](https://www.centerforrespect.com/its11pm-hashtag-and-the-power-of-twitter/): Unlike many educational presenters, our Founder, Mike Domitrz encourages audiences of the "Can I Kiss You?" Show to TURN THEIR PHONES ON to tweet throughout the presentation. What occurs in the Twittersphere can be both entertaining and inspiring. If you are ever doing educational programming, give it a shot. Create a simple hashtag your attendees/students can
- [KYW Newsradio 1060 in CBS Philadelphia Features The DATE SAFE Project](https://www.centerforrespect.com/kyw-newsradio-1060-in-cbs-philadelphia-features-the-date-safe-project/): Listen to CBS Philadelphia News interviewing our Founder, Mike Domitrz. [field name="javascript"] Topics covered include: rape and sexual assault, bystander intervention, supporting survivors, college students, how-to skills, verbal communication, asking for a kiss, the role of a man speaking out, survivors of sexual assault sexual violence the impact on family members and friends of survivors the
- [The Daily News Covers "Can I Kiss You?" presentation at Washington State University](https://www.centerforrespect.com/daily-news-covers-can-i-kiss-you-at-washington-state-univ/): Meredith Metsker with the Daily News in Pullman, Washington, did a wonderful job covering the "Can I Kiss You?" presentation at Washington State University. You can read her full article addressing how the presentation by Mike Domitrz impacted students from inspiring them to "Ask First", Open a Door to support loved ones and survivors, and
- [Univision discusses "Can I Kiss You?" program.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/univision-discusses-can-i-kiss-you-program-in-san-antonio/): Univision (Channel 41 in San Antonio) came out to the "Can I Kiss You?" presentation at St. Mary's University and did a feature story on their 10:00pm news covering the program. The reporter interviewed our Founder, Mike Domitrz, and students who attended the show. Plus, the segment included footage from "Can I Kiss You?" with
- [College students discuss the word "Whore" and the impact](https://www.centerforrespect.com/college-students-discuss-whore-slut-ho/): How much do words have an impact on how people think and ACT? Recently at Colorado Mesa University during the "Can I Kiss You?" show in the role-play of asking for a kiss, a female student struggled to say, "May I Kiss You?" to her role-play partner. Upon further discussion, she revealed that as a
- [Chris Ashton Kutcher Talks "SEXY" at Teen Choice Awards](https://www.centerforrespect.com/chris-ashton-kutcher-talks-sexy-at-teen-choice-awards/): When you work with teenagers, you understand how much impact (good and bad) celebrities can have on people, especially younger individuals. In 2007 when I was speaking in an elementary school in South Africa, students were asking my sons if they knew Beyonce, David Beckam, and other celebrities. Why? Because when many of these students
- [Viktor Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning and Survivors](https://www.centerforrespect.com/mans-search-for-meaning/): Have you read the thought-provoking and inspiring writing of Viktor Frankl's book Man's Search for Meaning? Frankl was a psychiatrist and neurologist who survived being imprisoned in multiple concentration camps during World War II. His insights to surviving and finding meaning in one's life can be helpful and applicable to many people struggling today. The
- [Observers TOOK ACTION in sexual assault case at Vanderbilt University](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-case-vanderbilt/): 4 football players were dismissed from the Vanderbilt University football team after charges of sexual assault were brought against them this past week. When you read the details of the case, you notice something very unique about HOW this sexual assault case was discovered. From CNN.com, it said: "The incident first came to light when
- [Porn, Seyfried, Lovelace, and the Harm Done](https://www.centerforrespect.com/amanda-seyfried-lovelace-porn-harm/): Actress Amanda Seyfried discusses her upcoming film "Lovelace" and the porn industry. Notice how Seyfried says Linda Lovelace did not like what she was doing in the films she was featured in such as "Deep Throat." Seyfried acknowledges she does not like porn. What are the harms you feel Porn does to individuals and our
- [President Obama talks with Marines on Ending Sexual Assault](https://www.centerforrespect.com/president-obama-marines-end-sexual-assault/): The DATE SAFE Project knows the military is full of passionate individuals who agree 100% with President Obama's statements today to US Marines about ending sexual assault within our military ranks. While conducting trainings on installations, I've heard military leaders tell their troops unequivocally that every individual in the military needs to do his/her part
- [The Misrepresentation of the "Forced Lesbian Kiss" News Story from Red Hook, NY](https://www.centerforrespect.com/misrepresentation-forced-lesbian-kiss-news-story-red-hook/): Here at the DATE SAFE Project, teaching "Asking First" and respecting boundaries is one of our main missions. While the Peer Educators who recently taught an "Asking First" scene to middle school students in Red Hook, NY were not affiliated with nor licensed by The DATE SAFE Project, we want to fully discuss what has
- [Can a Bracelet SAVE a life?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/bracelet-saves-life/): Can something as simple as a bracelet make a difference or even save a life? Last week, Jared Ensling answered that question with the following post on FaceBook. After reading Jared's post, please SHARE in the COMMENTS section below how you've helped someone by wearing the "Ask First. Respect the Answer" bracelet, or by telling someone
- [2-Day Training is a WOW Moment!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/2-day-training-is-a-wow-moment/): One week ago today, we began the first ever 2-day training workshop to license 24 people from around the country to present the "Can I Kiss You?" Program in their local middle schools and high schools. Each attendee brought his or her own story and passion for why they wanted to become licensed to present
- [What age should parents talk about sex?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/what-age-should-parents-talk-about-sex/): At what age should parents begin talking to their children about sex? Should you talk to your sons differently than your daughters? Discover these answers and many more in this "Parenting with Playdate Planet" radio interview where Meryl Neiman interviews Mike Domitrz. LISTEN NOW (click here).
- [Conviction in Steubenville is RIGHT](https://www.centerforrespect.com/conviction-in-steubenville-is-right/): Today's conviction of two high school students in the Steubenville, Ohio rape case is the right decision. When a person is intoxicated, he/she cannot give consent. To read more, click here.
- [HOW to talk with your child: dating violence and respect](https://www.centerforrespect.com/abram-talk-child-dating-violence/): Dr. Annie Abram had our Founder, Mike Domitrz, on her show to discuss HOW TO talk with your sons and daughters about dating, dating violence, and respect (February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month). Listen to this insightful interview giving you specific strategy and approaches for helping your preteens and teenagers to make the best
- [Big mistake good parents make when talking about rape](https://www.centerforrespect.com/mistake-parents-make-rape-nbc/): Watch the following video from NBC Channel 3 in Las Vegas to learn a common mistake caring parents make when talking to their preteen and teen sons and daughters about sexual assault and rape. [field name="video"] What are additional mistakes you believe parents make? **Because we use FaceBook Comments, login to FaceBook for leaving your
- [Help college video go viral from Miami](https://www.centerforrespect.com/miami-university-ohio-sexual-assault-education/): The HAWKS Peer Educators at Miami University of Ohio just broadcast the following YouTube Video. The video is based on the "Can I Kiss You?" Presentation given on their campus two weeks ago. The ending to the video is greatly appreciated, please let me be the first to say Thank YOU for packing the room
- [Sons and daughters need to know dangers of online video](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sons-daughters-online-video/): For 3 years, we have been warning parents of the added risks for their sons and daughters, preteens and teenagers, interacting on social video chat websites with strangers (such as Chat Roulette). The sites are known by many teenagers and young adults for being used as live sex shows between two strangers (even though some
- [A Must Watch video with Jackson Katz discussing men](https://www.centerforrespect.com/jackson-katz-men-women-sexism/): Take a few minutes today to watch Jackson Katz share wonderful insight in his TEDx video below addressing men in society. Then post your thoughts and questions in the COMMENTS section below (be sure you are logged into FaceBook for the Comments to appear). I will invite Jackson to answer any questions that are posted.
- [Sex Ed in Your Local Schools](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sex-ed-in-your-local-schools/): In Vermillion Parish, Louisiana, students made what would be considered an astounding request by many: they asked for more classroom time, and even more remarkably, they asked for more sex-ed (click here to see news story). The response from school administrators? The Superintendent, Jerome Puyau, said, “If we implement too many SMALLER TOPICS, even though
- [Review: "helped open the eyes of our students to consent in relationships and sexual violence issues..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-4/): “First, I’d like to say how great it was to work with you again. Our students and staff really enjoyed meeting you. I know I speak for everyone at Point Park University when I say, thank you for everything you do. You have helped open the eyes of our students to consent in relationships and
- [Feb 18th - 21st is now for YOU!!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/feb-18th-21st-is-now-for-you/): Almost never during this time of the year does an entire week open up for you to bring Mike Domitrz to your community for one day or for 4 days in a row. Due to one of the military branches overseas having a last-second change in their training activities, Mike is suddenly available Monday through
- [Moms and Dads, what do YOU think?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/moms-and-dads-what-do-you/): Are you aware of 3 NEW shows for parents we are about to launch? We would be honored to have your input for creating the NAME of each show and WHO you would like to have us interview on the show. Here are the new shows which are about to launch: A bi-weekly (every 2
- [Seeking Your Vote on Gender Roles.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/seeking-your-vote-on-gender-roles/): Recently we published a blog post about taking the role of money out of dating (click here to read Be A Friend. Pay Your Way). On our FaceBook Fan Page at http://www.FaceBook.com/datesafe, we received feedback from a few readers that fulfilling traditional gender roles in a relationship is important to them. The readers were referencing
- [Politicians Threatening Survivors’ Choice](https://www.centerforrespect.com/politicians-threatening-survivors-choice/): A major issue trending in the last 24 hours is the following statement by Richard Mourdock, a U.S. Senate candidate in Indiana, who during a pre-election debate said the following (from CNN.com): "I realized that life is a gift from God, and I think even when life begins in that horrible situation of rape, that
- [Marriage Starts with Asking for a Kiss](https://www.centerforrespect.com/marriage-starts-with-asking-for-a-kiss/): If you work with students and/or are in a role where you have the opportunity to help create positive change in individuals, remember you never know how many days, months, or years your impact will last for. The majority of universities that bring the “Can I Kiss You?” show to their campuses do so on
- [Child Does NOT Want to Talk About Sex](https://www.centerforrespect.com/child-does-not-talk-sex/): When you have a child who refuses to talk with you about sex, what do you do? You’ve tried taking the smartest approach of “lots of small talks” verses “The Talk.” Still no success. Now what? First, ask the teenager what day and time the two of you are going to talk. You provide a
- [What IS sex?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/what-is-sex/): Since the President Clinton and Monica Lewinsky situation, the question has continued to be debated in our culture. What IS sex? How do schools define it? How does the definition vary from institutions of faith, families, teenagers, to the differing laws in individual states? What if the standard definition was the following? When two individuals
- [Automatic Assumptions > Awful Awkwardness > Amusing Awareness](https://www.centerforrespect.com/automatic-assumptions-awful-awkwardness-amusing-awareness/): Walking off the stage after delivering the “Can I Kiss You?” program to an incoming class at Colorado Mesa University, I noticed three parents waiting for me at the back of the room. The grim looks on their faces and their crossed arms immediately triggered me to worry, “They don’t look to happy. I wonder
- [Do You Have IT?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/do-you-have-it/): IT is positivity. Are you bringing body positivity to your intimacy? How do you feel about yourself when you look in the mirror? Do you see all that is awesome about what you’ve got? While I don’t have the abs I had during my college swimming years, when I flex my my pecs, and tighten
- [Parents, STOP Focusing on LOVE.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parents-stop-love/): While presenting the “Can I Kiss You?” workshop for parents of teens, many moms and dads tell me how they stress the importance of “LOVE” in a dating relationship. Do you want love to be the focus of a child discovering relationships? Have you seen a love-crazed tween or teenager recently? Getting them to focus,
- [Awkward or Stupid?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/awkward-or-stupid/): Last week at a presentation for the Navy, a sailor in the audience said, "your talk made me realize it’s better to be awkward than stupid or disrespectful." The fear of being awkward is common, but lethal for sexual intimacy. Why? If you are not being awkward, you are not trying anything new. You’re not
- [HUMANIZE the Stranger](https://www.centerforrespect.com/humanize-the-stranger/): While speaking on a military installation in Europe this summer, a sailor at the end of the show said, "Today, you taught me how important it is to humanize the stranger." As he said the words "humanize the stranger," the hair on the back of my neck stood up. Why? Think about how our world
- [Teaching Marc Smirnoff to "Ask First"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teaching-marc-smirnoff-to-ask-first/): In the NY Times article titled "Editor Fired Following Harassment Accusation" (available here), Marc Smirnoff tries to defend himself from sexual harassment accusations with the following statement: “It was acceptable to her in that moment,” he said, saying that she did not object to his behavior at the time. “My take of it was that we were trying to see if
- [Reality TV. Really?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/reality-tv-really/): My Godson, David, texted me last night saying, "The family and I are watching 'The Bachelorette' and we were thinking you should do a blog about how they never ask for a kiss on the show and the poor example it sets." David is correct that showing more realistic "Asking First" scenes on TV and
- [Yes, I deserve a choice in sexual activity.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/yes-i-have-a-choice-sex/): At the end of speaking to several hundred high school students yesterday, a student stood up and said, "I now know I have a CHOICE. I have the CHOICE to say, 'Yes' or 'No.'" What a powerful moment for everyone in the room. The word consent was being understood by some teenagers yesterday for the
- [WIN TODAY ONLY!!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/win-today-only/): Here goes. Today is our Founder's, Mike Domitrz, Birthday and we want EVERYONE to have an amazing day. Here is the offer: Do something unique to address the issues we address (Asking First, talking with your child about sexual decision-making, donating to a crisis center, supporting survivors) and THEN SHARE on our FaceBook page (click
- [Protecting Your Teen's Online Reputation](https://www.centerforrespect.com/protecting-your-teens-online-reputation/): This article is a GUEST BLOG written by Daniela Baker of CreditDonkey. Protecting your teen’s online reputation is more important now than ever. Right now, everyone from credit lenders in charge of issuing credit cards to college admissions officers weighing which students to accept regularly uses information found on the Internet, particularly on social networking
- [Wristband VIDEO Contest](https://www.centerforrespect.com/wristband-video-contest/): WIN SHIRTS, BOOKS, or POSTERS in our new Wristband CONTEST. Record video footage of yourself and/or friends having conversations while wearing the "ASK FIRST. RESPECT THE ANSWER." wristbands (could be among friends, around campus, an intimate moment, and/or at parties). Keep it as simple as you want or be creative. Your choice. To enter the contest, post your video
- [THANKS to those serving our country!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/thanks-to-those-serving-our-country/): Just a few weeks ago, I returned from speaking on verbal consent, bystander intervention, and sexual assault with our Army Troops in South Korea. The honor to fly throughout the world sharing with our service men and women whom are thousands upon thousands of miles away from their families (in this case right before the
- [Single Parent Dating 101 (special guest post)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/single-parent-dating/): Are you a single parent who is dating or is thinking of dating again? After a divorce, dating eventually protrudes its pretty little head out of the bushes. Like most newly single parents, dating has become completely foreign after a long unhealthy marriage. With so many responsibilities on the shoulders of the single parent, loneliness
- [Understanding Child Abuse and Neglect](https://www.centerforrespect.com/understanding-child-abuse-and-neglect/): Written by Guest Blogger, Sharon Fox. Child abuse is more than broken bones and bruises. While physical abuse is shocking due to the scars it leaves, not all child abuse is as obvious. Ignoring children’s needs, putting them in unsupervised, dangerous situations, or making a child feel worthless or stupid are also child abuse. Regardless
- [Protect Children from Sex Trafficking & Abuse](https://www.centerforrespect.com/protect-children-from-sex-trafficking-abuse/): Today, we hosted a LIVE ONLINE INTERVIEW with Lori Regnier and Pastor Mike from the Starbright Foundation Inc of Arizona. They did a fantastic job sharing how to protect children from Sex Trafficking and Abusive Relationships. BUMMER: Unfortunately, the recording had an error and so we do not have the recording available. We greatly apologize.
- [Download or Listen to Interview with Amanda Graybill](https://www.centerforrespect.com/join-live-interview-with-amanda-graybill/): Get the recording of the LIVE INTERVIEW with Amanda Graybill from the Little Black Dress Society. The entire program is free for everyone who registers below. ***You must sign-up below to have access to the recording. Then you can listen to the entire interview at any time you choose. Who: Amanda Graybill, Founder of The
- [Military's Approach to Sexual Assault Gets RESULTS!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military-takes-well-rounded-approach-to-sexual-assault-gets-results/): In the past 6 weeks, we have seen multiple military installations in the Army and Air Force take a well rounded approach to reducing sexual assault, increasing bystander intervention, and helping change the ways we people help support survivors of sexual assault. April 18th - 21st, Fort Riley brought the "Can I Kiss You?" program
- [2 Hours from Unrest!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/2-hours-from-unrest/): As you read this article, I am only 2 hours from Unrest - a 2 hour drive in the dessert heat from Syria (a country who's unrest is being observed by the world). What am I doing here? Preparing to talk with middle school students, high school students, and their parents tomorrow night in Southern
- [Old Dominion University](https://www.centerforrespect.com/old-dominion-university/): Tonight, the "Can I Kiss You?" presentation was delivered at Old Dominion University where the Athletic Department's support of the Women's Centers efforts to be put the night together - SHOWED with a packed room. Thanks, everyone for all your hard work and for your passion for wanting to create change. While the audio did
- [60 Minutes on Campus Sexual Assaults](https://www.centerforrespect.com/60-minutes-on-campus-sexual-assaults/): Below is an important notice. Please watch 60 Minutes on CBS this Sunday: Dear Friends, Please tune into CBS 60 Minutes on Sunday, April 17th, 6 p.m. This Sunday, 60 Minutes will feature a story on Sexual Assaults on college campuses and includes an interview with the Women’s Center of San Joaquin, a rape crisis
- [The Army says, "It's Time"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-army-says-its-time/): Army soldiers at Redstone Arsenal make a commitment to say, "It's Time . . .to end Sexual Assault" in the below video as part of Sexual Assault Awareness Month. [field name=iframe]
- [Fairchild Air Force Base Says, "IT'S TIME"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/fairchild-air-force-base-says-its-time/): Today was the wonderful honor of working with the men and women serving our country at Fairchild Air Force Base. Both audiences at the "Can I Kiss You?" Show took a pledge to make a positive difference with the following 2 videos. Please share the videos on your FaceBook pages and via Twitter. Here is
- [Ask First in Images](https://www.centerforrespect.com/ask-first-in-images/): What creative ways can you use imagery for promoting April as Sexual Assault Activism (Awareness) Month? Here is an artist's unique way of teaching "Asking First" and the importance of verbal consent. Share your ideas with us in the "Speak Your Mind" section below.
- [Its Time to Ask First (starting now in April)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/its-time-to-ask-first-starting-now-in-april/): April is Sexual Assault Activism Month across the country. As we promised yesterday, each day we are posting a special message, photo, and/or video in honor of all survivors. The theme this year is "Its Time" and so we share with you IT'S TIME TO ASK FIRST. Enjoy the music video below. Remember to
- [Chocolate is GREAT WAY to start the conversation](https://www.centerforrespect.com/chocolate-is-great-way-to-start-the-conversation/): Chocolate is a great way to start many conversations. Check out what Staci did with Chocolate to honor Sexual Assault Activism Month below: [field name=iframe]
- [Honoring Sexual Assault Activism Month](https://www.centerforrespect.com/honoring-sexual-assault-activism-month/): April is Sexual Assault Awareness ACTIVISM Month. Do something unique each day to honor survivors and/or to create positive influence toward reducing sexual assault. Starting today, we promise to post one unique image, video, and/or other outlet to promote April as Sexual Assault Activism Month. Join us by sharing your comments in the LEAVE A
- [Releasing Survivor Self-Blame](https://www.centerforrespect.com/releasing-survivor-self-blame/): WARNING: This article discusses sexual activity and a conversation with a survivor. Please know the article is a Guest Writer and thus does not necessarily reflect the opinions and/or viewpoints of The Date Safe Project, Inc.. Please share your reactions in the "Speak Your Mind" Section of this post. Releasing Survivor Self-Blame Written by: Kristin E. Eisenhauer, Ph.D.
- [Sexual Assault Case in Cleveland, Texas and the Norm](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-case-in-cleveland-texas-and-the-norm/): If you have been following the sexual assault case in Cleveland, Texas, you are aware of the outrageous and horrific statements and questions being aimed at a 11 year old. Keli Goff wrote a great piece on the Huffington Post today (click here to read) titled "Of Course She Was Asking For It." Read the
- ["How To" videos for DSP Team](https://www.centerforrespect.com/how-to-videos-for-dsp-team/): 10% Program Weekly Payouts to Non-Profits: Directions are as follows: 1. Login to Kickstart and Click on "Orders" 2. Run Sales Report of "Product Sales by Item" 3. MINUS and "Voices of Courage" Product Sales (and log that amount) 4. Multiply the new total by .1 5. Take that 10% and ADD in the
- [Welcome to the Affiliate Login Page](https://www.centerforrespect.com/welcome-to-the-date-safe-project-affiliate-program/): Scroll down to login (Click here to learn more) [field name=iframe]
- [Masculinity in Disney Films](https://www.centerforrespect.com/masculinity-in-disney-films/): What do you think of the following videos analysis of masculinity in Disney movies? I share my thoughts below the video. Please share your feedback after watching the complete video! [field name=iframe] While this short documentary does not acknowledge many of the characters its relying on are the "Bad Guys" in the film, the analysis
- [Kansas State University Wildcats Show in Numbers](https://www.centerforrespect.com/kansas-state-university-wildcats-show-in-numbers/): Kansas State University hosted a Training Session and the "Can I Kiss You?" show yesterday. Everyone was wonderful to work with and was clearly passionate about creating positive change for their students and community. Meeting several students who first saw the show 3 years ago and came back out was very special. Thank you for
- [North Dakota National Guard Training with Families](https://www.centerforrespect.com/north-dakota-national-guard-hosts-great-training/): Today, I was honored to be the guest speaker for the North Dakota National Guard's weekend training program (particularly their sexual assault training). They brought 4 training weekends into one - resulting in 300 National Guard members AND their families attending. They started their Saturday morning off with a beautiful rendition of the National Anthem
- [UW Green Bay and Brown County make GREAT TEAM!!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/uw-green-bay-and-brown-county-make-great-team/): Last night, UW (University of Wisconsin) Green Bay and Brown County teamed up for a great night. First, we met with the Sexual Assault & Alcohol Task Force on campus which was comprised of Law Enforcement from Brown County, Family Services Crisis Center, UWGB students, and staff. The hour spent with everyone was wonderful. You
- [High school students discuss dating, sex, & bystander intervention](https://www.centerforrespect.com/high-school-students-discuss-dating-sex-bystander-intervention/): High school students at West Allis Central High School discuss their reactions after the "Can I Kiss You?" show at their school where the entire student body participated in the General Assembly. Academic Dean Laura Wescott and Principal Paul Mielke did a great job insuring everything ran smoothly!
- [Top 10 Songs, Blaming Girls, and More in Today's News](https://www.centerforrespect.com/top-10-songs-blaming-girls-and-more-in-todays-news/): In Today's News, we discuss Usher, Eminem, Train, Katy Perry, the upcoming "Monster" music video, and why the media is focusing on "girls & sex" on TV. Watch, read the follow-up, and then SHARE! Read the blog entry titled "Girls Are to Blame for Teen Sex (According to the PTC )." PTC stands for Parents
- [Shame on coverage concerning reporter sexually assaulted in Egypt](https://www.centerforrespect.com/shame-on-coverage-concerning-reporter-sexually-assaulted-in-egypt/): When a reporter was recently sexually assaulted in the middle of a crowd in Egypt, some media, news, and bloggers have been having shameful discussions concerning the survivor. We are not referencing her name on our website until she chooses to speak out herself (if she chooses to makes that choice). Since the assault against
- [Cleveland High school students talk consent & dating](https://www.centerforrespect.com/high-school-students-in-cleveland-talk-about-consent-respect-dating-and-much-more/): A big THANKS goes out to ALL the students yesterday in Cleveland high schools who made Valentine's Day special for all the right reasons (respect and caring for all people). Watch the video below and LEAVE YOUR FEEDBACK in the Comments Section!! P.S. Remember to LEAVE YOUR FEEDBACK in the Comments Section!!
- [Finding the Right Book for Your Class & Students](https://www.centerforrespect.com/dating-respect-sexual-assault-book/): Educators, when it comes to dating and sexuality, do your students struggle to connect with the many complexities involved with consent, respect, boundaries, bystander intervention, sexual assault, and supporting survivors? If so, you know how FEW resources are available for these discussions. For most teachers and professors, finding a comprehensive and effective solution for the
- [Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/mike-domitrz-michael/): His Story & Mission Award-Winning Author & Publisher Educator, Ally, and Expert His Story and Mission: Why does Mike Domitrz, Founder of The Date Safe Project, have such an intense passion and drive to: Dramatically improve society’s approach to healthy dating; Create a better understanding of how “consent” is obtained in intimacy; Reveal the keys to
- [Use the News EVERY DAY from Dear Abby to Nancy Grace!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/use-the-news-every-day-from-dear-abby-to-nancy-grace/): Often educators, parents and activists share with me that one of their daily struggles is finding a way to connect with teenagers and others not involved in this work, especially with the important issues of consent, bystander intervention, sexual assault, and support survivors. Learn a simple technique in this episode of DSP TV. You might
- [MTV "Skins" Show Controversy on DSP TV](https://www.centerforrespect.com/mtv-skins-show-controversy-on-dsp-tv/): The controversy surrounding the show "Skins" on MTV is being discussed on TV, blogs, and in print around the country. Parents and parenting organizations are protesting and boycotting due to teenagers being portrayed engaging in sexual activity and using illegal drugs. One major advertiser has already pulled Ads from being aired during the show. In
- [The King's Speech - See It!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-kings-speech-see-it/): When it comes to The King's Speech, we provide a fun challenge for you in this episode of DSP TV:
- [Chicago Area Students Speak OUT against Ranking System](https://www.centerforrespect.com/chicago-area-students-speak-out-against-ranking-system/): In today's episode of DSP TV, discover a strong examples of students INTERVENING while the media and news outlets focus on the disturbing side of the case involving Oak Park - River Forest High School in the Chicago area. After watching this episode of DSP TV, leave a comment below. I will personally respond to
- [Rewarding Schools, Campuses, Organizations, and our Military for Making an Impact!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/rewarding-schools-campuses-organizations-and-our-military/): If you have ever brought the "Can I Kiss You?" program and/or the "HELP! My Teen Is Dating" program to your area (or are bringing one of the presentations to your community in the coming year), you are going to be excited about the NEW Referral Special and the 2nd Date Discount (Loyalty Discount). Referral Special:
- [Finding a Date for Your Community](https://www.centerforrespect.com/finding-a-date-for-your-community/): Discounts Available for Middle Schools, High Schools & Communities See Speaking Tour / Schedule Past Clients Due to the high demand for the "Can I Kiss You?" program each year, the best way to insure getting Mike Domitrz to your community is to reserve a date as quickly as possible. Available dates are limited throughout
- [ESPN & Sexually Degrading Comment](https://www.centerforrespect.com/espn-sexual-harassment/): If you haven't heard, reports are saying ESPN recently terminated an announcer for making a sexually degrading comment to a sideline reporter. While some in the public have defended ESPN, many have criticized ESPN. You can read more details about the case at CNN.com. We have heard people say, "You can't have fun in the
- [Want a Fund-Raising EVENT?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/want-a-fund-raising-event/): Many non-profits are struggling to raise funds for their organization and we want to HELP! Does a non-profit you know involve working with teenagers and/or parents (including, but not limited to club sports teams, crisis centers, student groups, school organizations, faith based groups, parenting organizations, community groups such as Rotary, Kiwanis, and others)? Good news!
- [NO THEY DIDN'T](https://www.centerforrespect.com/etsy-has-removed-card-mocking-sexual-assault/): Earlier this morning, I reported, "Etsy.com has removed a card which was mocking a person being sexually assaulted. A big THANKS goes out to everyone who petitioned, protested, and contacted Etsy.com to request the removal of the card!! Your positive actions are a great example of creating important change!" UPDATE: The card is BACK UP!!
- [STOP Etsy from allowing Vendor to sell "Rape" Cards](https://www.centerforrespect.com/stop-etsy-from-allowing-vendor-to-sell-rape-cards/): Etsy.com is currently allowing a vendor to sell disgusting and damaging "Congratulations" cards for rape and sexual assault survivors. WARNING: the image and the words on the card are both disturbing and dangerous. To find the card, all a person needs to do is go to Etsy.com and do a search for "Rape." The card
- [Perrish Cox sexual assault case and how the NFL reacts](https://www.centerforrespect.com/perrish-cox-sexual-assault-case-and-how-the-nfl-reacts/): Have you heard about the recent Perrish Cox sexual assault case? He is an NFL player with the Denver Broncos who has been CHARGED with felony sexual assault. The criminal report occurred on October 28th and charges were recently brought forward against him. The NFL's reaction and/or the Denver Bronco's reaction? Watch the video below
- [All Guys are Jerks and Women are Trouble](https://www.centerforrespect.com/all-guys-are-jerks-and-women-are-trouble/): How often have you heard a teenager, student, and/or parents make statements such as, "All guys are jerks" and/or "All girls are trouble"? Often people use derogatory generalizations to scare younger individuals from dating and/or to help a friend "feel better" after being unhappy in a relationship. Watch this episode of DSP TV to see
- [Guest Bloggers WANTED!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/guest-bloggers-wanted/): Would you like to be a guest blogger here at The Date Safe Project, Inc? If so, click on our "Contact Us" section and send us a message with WHY you would like to be a guest blogger, what you would like to guest blog about, and your background. We are looking forward to sharing
- [Discussing the 4 letter “F” word with your students](https://www.centerforrespect.com/discussing-the-4-letter-f-word-with-your-students/): Yes, you need to talk with students of all ages (teenagers, middle school, high school, college, university) about the "4 letter F word" and so openly. Watch today's video to see why this lesson is important:
- [Bridal Plasty on E! Network promotes Plastic Surgery for Brides](https://www.centerforrespect.com/bridal-plasty-on-e-network-promotes-plastic-surgery-for-brides/): The TV show "Bridal Plasty" on the E! Network is awarding brides a wedding and PLASTIC SURGERY by competing in various challenges. See our reaction in the latest episode of DSP TV below. I will personally respond to each comment and/or suggestion! FYI: E! Network is owned by Comcast Corporation. Remember, I will personally respond
- [REACTION to “Law & Order: SVU” titled “Grey”](https://www.centerforrespect.com/svu-reaction/): This post is a reaction to tonight's episode of "Law & Order: SVU" based on a college campus (further down on our blog page is the original post about the episode which we posted BEFORE the show aired). Now, is the time to react to the actual episode where several concerns arose. Please be aware
- [WRONG 3 words for sexual activity and getting permission](https://www.centerforrespect.com/wrong-3-words-for-consent-with-sexual-activity/): In today's episode of DSP TV, discover the WRONG 3 words to rely on for obtaining consent in sexual activity. Many middle school, high school, and college students rely on these 3 words when engaging in sexual intimacy and/or hooking up. What 3 words are we referring to? Watch the show below AND share your
- [NBC’s Law & Order “SVU” and Grey Rape Discussion](https://www.centerforrespect.com/nbcs-suv-and-grey-rape-discussion/): NOW THAT THE SHOW HAS AIRED, SEE THE LATEST REACTION by CLICKING HERE)!! The following blog post was written BEFORE the show aired on NBC. Today's Moment video discusses an upcoming NBC episode of "Law & Order: SVU" titled "Grey." The term "grey rape" results in misconceptions on the role of alcohol in a sexual
- [Boycott Amazon and the "Pedophile's Guide"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/boycott-amazon-and-the-pedophiles-guide/): UPDATE on 11/11/10: Since the original post below was published yesterday, AMAZON HAS REMOVED THE BOOK! Thank you, Amazon, for rethinking the initial decision and for making the right choice!! As of Wednesday, Nov 10th, Amazon is allowing the sale of a book which is meant to "help" pedophiles NOT get caught (part of the
- [Discussion on alcohol and sexual assault](https://www.centerforrespect.com/discussion-on-alcohol-and-sexual-assault/): Was informed today my response to the question, “How can the link between alcohol and sexual violence be best taught to students?” has been posted on Outside The Classroom’s website: http://www.outsidetheclassroom.com! Join the conversation and share your thoughts!
- [Central Washington University Students Drugged at Party AND the Reaction](https://www.centerforrespect.com/central-washington-university-students-drugged-at-party-and-the-reaction/): A party was thrown about 30 miles from Central Washington University this past weekend in Roslyn, Washington. 9 students were rushed to a hospital due to what is suspected to be alcohol spiked with a drug (many suspect a "date rape" drug was involved). Our hearts go out to the students effected and to the
- [Nickelodeon Wants Your Help To End Sexual Violence](https://www.centerforrespect.com/nickelodeon/): The Nickelodeon Network is looking to feature a 15yr old to 19yr old female activist working to end sexual violence. Please email us ASAP by the end of Tuesday (October 12th)! A representative from the Nickelodeon Network called us last night looking for a 15yr old to 19yr old female student activist working to end
- [Duke Student PowerPoint "Sex List" Coverage MISSING the point](https://www.centerforrespect.com/duke-sex-list-coverage-missing-the-point/): With all the recent news and media coverage discussing the Duke student's PowerPoint "Sex List" (what she titled a Thesis), almost all of the discussion is missing one important point: A RAPE appears to be described in her PowerPoint presentation. One of the sexual encounters she writes about is when she is "blacked out." Because
- [Bullying MUST be addressed](https://www.centerforrespect.com/bullying-must-be-addressed/): This past week, much of our country learned about the Tyler Clementi suicide case (after fellow students humiliated him by posting a video of him in a private situation). How are you bringing this conversation about bullying and humiliating others into your home, your community, among your friends, colleagues, and family? October is National Bullying
- [WORLD PREMIER of "Can I Kiss You?" Song](https://www.centerforrespect.com/world-premier-of-can-i-kiss-you-song/): YES, we have the WORLD PREMIERE of the "Can I Kiss You?" song by Jordan Broghammer and Tyler Archey of Central College (IA) for you right here. After recently attending the "Can I Kiss You?" program on their campus, they emailed me sharing how they wrote and recorded the following song. To hear the song, click on
- [York University in Canada Appreciates Programming](https://www.centerforrespect.com/york-university-in-canada-appreciates-programming/): York University was another great show in Canada last night. The appreciation and respect for discussing respect AND survivors of sexual assault is inspiring. The number of times last night an audience member applauded while I was mid-sentence discussing TAKING ACTION and supporting survivors was unique. I'd make a serious point and suddenly hear an
- [True Support for Your Students](https://www.centerforrespect.com/true-support-for-your-students/): Whether you are a parent or an educator, you know the importance of having support in your life. Imagine your boss tells you, "Go ahead and give it a shot" and then does everything possible to make your life difficult in accomplishing your goal. Your Boss's actions did not match his/her words. When we see
- [College Students ARE Taking Action](https://www.centerforrespect.com/college-students-are-taking-action/): How much fun is getting students to make positive statements about consent? In the past 3 weeks of our Fall "Can I Kiss You?" Tour, we have had a record number of audiences choose to make videos for YouTube on Asking First. NOTE: The university officials in attendance ALWAYS have the final say on what
- [Western Rocks Rez Rally!!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/western-rocks-rez-rally/): Each year, the University of Western Ontario throws one of the best opening day for students. From 9am til late night, the day is packed - full of learning AND fun. I am honored to be a part of this annual celebration/learning event called the REZ RALLY! Becca Carroll and her entire team do a
- [Timing IS everything](https://www.centerforrespect.com/timing-is-everything/): How often does the following happen to you? You've just got home from work. You're exhausted from the day. Upon you entering your home, your partner is waiting to tell you ALL about his/her day and how rough it went (ALL the details). Do you listen? Yes. You want to support your partner. Is doing
- [What Tools Do YOU have ready?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/what-a-week/): 15 miles from Poughkeepsie, NY this past week and on my way to speak at Vassar College, the tire on my rental car blows out! I was in a remote area on a Restricted Roadway (tow trucks cannot service the area without a State Police request first). I like to give myself an extra hour
- [Bearcats Love Cheri](https://www.centerforrespect.com/bearcats-love-cheri/): As you may know, the person who inspired me to want to speak out originally back in the early 90s was my sister Cheri, an amazing survivor. Tonight, a campus ASKED to honor Cheri in a video statement. Northwest Missouri State University students unanimously voted to have the following video filmed. I was moved and
- [Students and Customer Service](https://www.centerforrespect.com/students-and-customer-service/): Do you work with students? When they first approach, do you think, "How can I help this student today? How can I make his or her day AWESOME?" Imagine if every student felt educators and professionals had that goal in mind for them. In the past 24 hours, I was doused with great customer service.
- [Keuka goes BIG](https://www.centerforrespect.com/keuka-goes-big/): Keuka College has me speak to their incoming students each year in the Chapel which is a beautiful location. The seating goes far back and so last night Keuka provided a video screen upfront showing a closeup of the show. The results? The students in the back were as equally engaged as those in the
- [St. Lawrence raises MONEY at "Can I Kiss You?" Show.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/st-lawrence-raises-money-at-can-i-kiss-you-show/): Last night, St. Lawrence University in Canton, NY had 2 great turnouts. Due to the size of their incoming class, they have me present the "Can I Kiss You?" program at 2 different times of 7pm and 9pm. The attendance at each session was wonderful and the interaction and reactions afterward were fantastic. Chris Morrin
- [Smothering vs Connecting](https://www.centerforrespect.com/smothering-vs-connecting/): As a parent of a teenager, do you ever feel like you are losing a bit of connection with your teenager? Feels like your son or daughter prefers time alone? This process for your son or daughter is completely normal. Your teen is seeking out the independence sought in the pubescent years. If your like
- [A Change is Gonna Come](https://www.centerforrespect.com/a-change-is-gonna-come/): On my United Airlines flight last Thursday night to go speak at the University of Southern Utah, I was scrolling throught the various videos on my iPad. The first video which caught my attention was Jon Bon Jovi and Bettye LaVette singing "A Change is Gonna Come" in front of the Lincoln Memorial as part
- [Lake Forest College Pities the Fool](https://www.centerforrespect.com/lake-forest-college-pities-the-fool/): Tonight, Lake Forest College made a commitment to asking first. In fact, they threw a challenge out to those who DO NOT ASK FIRST. Altogether, they chanted, "I Pity the Fool Who Doesn't Ask First" (yes aka The "A" Team). In the picture to your right is Barbie - a Resident Assistant at Lake Forest
- [Southern Utah University ROCKED THE ARENA](https://www.centerforrespect.com/southern-utah-university-rocked-the-arena/): Southern Utah University, its past 10 O'Clock now. You rocked the arena today. Sitting through 2 consecutive presentations in the middle of a warm afternoon is tough for anyone. You were a blast share with. I look forward to hearing what you've done SINCE our time together. Remember to share in our forums and you
- [Go For It in College & In Life](https://www.centerforrespect.com/go-for-it-in-college-in-life/): Are you ever amazed how many people give college students advice like, "Don't do anything stupid while you are in college!" Are you kidding me? What kind of life are you living if you never look stupid once in a while. As my Godson goes off to college, I was thinking of what I learned
- ["In a perfect world, what would you need and want?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/in-a-perfect-world-what-would-you-need-and-want/): When working on a project for the National Speakers Association earlier today, Randy Gage (Prosperity Expert), asked me this question: "In a perfect world, what would you need and want?" Then he was able to provide us what we needed and wanted. Thanks, Randy. Now what about you? For working to help students, young adults,
- [Georgia College and State University Kicks it off](https://www.centerforrespect.com/georgia-college-and-state-university-kicks-it-off/): A big thanks goes out to GA College and State University tonight. They were fantastic in getting the Fall Tour off on a great start. Jennifer with the Women's Resource Center was wonderful to work with as always!! Here is their video from tonight's students pledging to Ask First: Be sure to enter the drawing
- ["Like" page on FaceBook - now we are making waves](https://www.centerforrespect.com/like-page-on-facebook-now-we-are-making-waves/): You have to love FaceBook for the medium it provides everyone. Today, we discovered someone started a "Like" page against asking for a kiss (specifically the phrase "Can I Kiss You?"). In fact, this person actually is using the BUTTONS we provide here on our website for their image on their FaceBook "Like" page (yes
- [5 Fun Keys to Dating (plus 5 Bonuses)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/5-fun-keys-to-dating/): Do you wish dating wasn’t so hard – or hurtful? Below is a list of ten helpful tips for having dates based upon mutual respect, fun and possibility. The title said, “5” fun keys. I like to surpass your expectations and so you get 10 (wouldn’t dating be more fun if dates surpassed expectations)? No
- [Creative bursts in teaching change](https://www.centerforrespect.com/creative-bursts-in-teaching-change/): With today's fast-moving entertainment and news cycles, creativity is a requirement for connecting with an audience. Even the nightly news is now filled with entertainment segments. No, you don't need to be a comic or to include "entertaining material" in your educational presentation "just because." Use creativity where it will enhance your presentation AND bring
- [Final Call on Teen Dating Posters](https://www.centerforrespect.com/final-call-on-teen-dating-posters/): In our efforts to provide 4 new posters addressing teen dating and teen relationships, your final input is going to decide 2 of the last 3 posters. In answer the following questions listed below in the form for you to fill out, please remember the posters are meant to have a POSITIVE approach to dealing
- [Using Technology to Spread a Message](https://www.centerforrespect.com/using-technology-to-spread-a-message/): Yesterday, we talked about teaching verbal skills to a generation who loves technology as their means of communication. How do take the benefits of technology to reach those students? Here is a simple concept: Take a quick picture relating to the lesson you want to teach. Send the picture as a Text Message to your
- [VOTE for FINAL "Want Some Action?" Shirt](https://www.centerforrespect.com/vote-for-favorite-want-some-action-shirts/): Below are the T-shirt designs selected by our website visitors to be the TOP 5 FINALISTS for becoming the new "Want Some Action?" T-shirt. You get to choose and help pick the new shirt for the upcoming 2010-2011 School Year! Plus, you get the chances to win the #1 shirt. LOTS of input is what
- [Boy Scouts Share Important Message](https://www.centerforrespect.com/6355-2/): Are you ever asked, "How do you know you are making a difference? How do you know your audience (or students) actually remembers your message?" Speakers in the education world and teachers particularly get this question a lot because so many people wonder if teens retain the messages being shared with them. Yesterday, audience members
- [Thank you!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/thank-you-poster-2010-feedback/): By sharing your votes today, you have impacted the the choices being made for creating 4 new posters on Teen Dating & Teen Relationships to add to the "Do You Ask?" poster series. THANK YOU!! Once the final choices go to production, names will be drawn to give you the chance to win FREE posters.
- [VOTE for Statements on Posters - and ADD](https://www.centerforrespect.com/vote-for-statements-on-posters-and-add/): Below are statements provided to us by students for an upcoming addition to our current "Do You Ask?" educational poster series. This new addition of posters will be addressing texting, safer dating, and healthier relationships with a PROACTIVE APPROACH (as the "Do You Ask?" posters currently do with consent and sexual decision-making). You are voting
- [WHO do you want to hear from?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/who-do-you-want-to-hear-from/): Having just returned from the National Speakers Association (NSA) Convention in Orlando earlier today, I was reminded of how my being actively involved in NSA has surrounded me with some of the top minds in the world (in various fields of expertise). I want to bring this special community's skills and knowledge to you. The
- [Thanks - Now DOUBLE your chance to Win a shirt!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/thanks-now-double-your-chance-to-win-a-shirt/): Thanks for confirming your email address with us here at The Date Safe Project, Inc. For you taking the time to confirm your email address, we want to DOUBLE your opportunity to win the new "Can I Kiss You?" T-shirts being launched in a couple of weeks. To double your chances, please VOTE for your
- [Survivors forum II](https://www.centerforrespect.com/5796-2/)
- [Thanks for making an IMPACT](https://www.centerforrespect.com/thanks-for-making-an-impact/): By sharing your votes today, you have impacted the final selection of the "Want Some Action?" T-shirt. THANK YOU!! On August 9th, names will be drawn to give you the chance to win FREE SHIRTS (both the "Can I Kiss You?" shirts and the "Want Some Action?" shirt). Plus, the email you will receive on
- [INTERNS and Volunteers Wanted!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/interns-and-volunteers-wanted/): Are you creative and/or talented? Are you a problem-solver? We are currently looking for caring and talented individuals who want to volunteer their time to help spread the mission of The Date Safe Project Inc. If you are a student, we would be happy to create a volunteer internship to help you gain credit at
- [True Blood has horrific violent sex scene](https://www.centerforrespect.com/true-blood-has-horrific-violent-sex-scene/): On the June 27th episode of HBO's "True Blood" TV series, the ending sexual scene was extremely violent. The vampire character "Bill" twists the vampire character "Lorena's" head and neck around as he is forcibly penetrating her. Making the scene equally concerning for many people was the fact the Lorena was smiling throughout the intense
- [Fluidity is necessary for parents raising teenage boys and girls](https://www.centerforrespect.com/fluidity-is-necessary-for-parents-raising-teenage-boys-and-girls/): If you are a parent or the teacher of teenagers, you know how much they take pride in being correct and in proving adults wrong. Rightfully so. After all, society loves to make cliche statements to them such as, "When you get in the REAL WORLD." Their world is very real. As a parent, one
- [Apply BP approach on YouTube - to Reducing Sexual Assault](https://www.centerforrespect.com/bp-approach-solutions-youtube-reducing-sexual-assault/): Have you seen all the great YouTube videos providing solutions to the Oil Crisis in the Gulf? Let us take on this same challenge with addressing sexual assault and ending sexual violence. For every person who provides a true YouTube solution to sexual assault (not a parody or a joke) and shares it with us
- [Chris Brown Performance on BET Awards](https://www.centerforrespect.com/chris-brown-performance-on-bet-awards/): Since Chris Brown's performance on the BET Awards last night, many fans, critics, and the media are talking about whether Chris Brown's performance was sincere or if he has learned from the violence he assaulted Rihanna with previously (watch coverage on ABC). NO ONE can know that answer! Yes, no one - not even Chris
- [Parenting Unplugged - Listen In](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parenting-unplugged-listen-in-mike-domitrz-teens-tweens-dating/): Parenting Unplugged just had Mike Domitrz, the Executive Director of The Date Safe Project Inc, to reveal unique and helpful strategies for parents of tweens and teens. Listen to the thought-provoking interview below. You will get lots of great ideas you will want to implement immediately with your family. If you are a teacher, you
- [Single, Married, Parents, and Schools](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-program-for-parents-in-the-military-their-teens/): On this page, DISCOVER: #1 for Single, Committed, & MARRIED individuals! The Program for Parents in the Military & Their Teens! Presentations for Your DoDEA Schools (and local schools) #1 for Single, Committed, & MARRIED individuals! As you know, finding an educational and engaging program for the men and women on your installation can be
- [What is the TREASURE you seek?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/what-is-the-treasure-you-seek/): When trying to reduce sexual violence, create a healthier understanding of intimacy, inspire bystander intervention, and support survivors, what is the TREASURE you seek? What is the goal you are pursuing? The goal YOU have control over achieving and will sacrifice to do so? Share in the "COMMENTS" section below and let each of us
- [Share YOUR "favorite teacher" story](https://www.centerforrespect.com/share-a-story-at-least-once-a-day/): How many "story" or "chain emails" do you receive each day? You know the email filled with great life lessons. Have you received so many over the years that you've stopped reading them? Is your day too busy to read "those" emails anymore? If your day is "too busy," maybe you need to take a
- [Listen LIVE to Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/listen-live-to-mike-domitrz/): Tuesday, June 22nd, Mike Domitrz will be the featured guest on Parenting Unplugged Radio at http://parentingunpluggedradio.com/ at 1pm (Central Time Zone or 11am West Coast Time Zone). You can listen live from the website. Mike will share strategies for talking to your tweens and teens about dating, intimacy, and decision-making. Join this insightful, revealing, and
- [Opressor vs Bystander. The cruelty in both.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/opressor-vs-bystander-the-cruelty-in-both/): "What hurts the victim most is not the cruelty of the oppressor, but the silence of the bystander" ~ Elie Wiesel What does this quote make you think of? Share examples in our COMMENTS section of situations where you've seen people take ACTION on behalf of someone else being oppressed and/or examples of where everyone
- [Stop blaming girls and their clothes!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/stop-blaming-girls-and-their-clothes/): In a recent article about a school in England, females are not being allowed to wear skirts as a "safety" precaution. However, Year 11 females ARE ALLOWED to wear skirts. The reasoning by the school is that skirts put the girls in more danger. If so, then why do the Year 11 females get to
- [Are you a Matador or do you like the costume?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/are-you-a-matador-or-do-you-like-the-costume/): "Remember that there are many people who think they want to be matadors, only to find themselves in the ring with two thousand pounds of bull bearing down on them, and then discover that what they really wanted was to wear tight pants and hear the crowd roar." ~Terry Pierce The above quote is fantastic
- [Parents Just Don't Understand (especially parents of teens going to parties)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parents-just-dont-understand-especially-parents-of-teens-going-to-parties/): Remember the old Will Smith song, "Parents Just Don't Understand"? Well I fell into that category last night (along with another Mom of a high school teenager hosting a party). One of my sons was going to a party at a house where we did not know the family. As we advise in our programs,
- [Students in Mosinee in Trouble over Sexual Assault Awareness](https://www.centerforrespect.com/students-in-mosinee-in-trouble-over-sexual-assault-awareness/): High school students in Mosinee, WI took action to speak out about sexual assault with a T-shirt concept often used on college campuses around the country. You can see a picture of one of the shirts speaking out against sexual assault in the full article here. Here is a quote from the Acting Associate Principal
- [Review: "Laughter filled the Base..."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/review-laughter-filled-the-base/): Laughter filled the Base Chapel as Marines and sailors experienced a unique sexual assault prevention training April 30. Mike Domitrz, executive director of The Date Safe Project, gave a presentation called “Can I Kiss You?” twice last week Friday, as an interactive form of sexual assault prevention training for service members. Recruiting volunteers from the
- [Follow vs Lead:  FOLLOW in this case](https://www.centerforrespect.com/follow-vs-lead-follow-in-this-case/): While all of us as parents have talked to our children, especially teenagers (sons and daughters), about being a "Leader," what about being a follower? Whether the issue is drinking, drugs, sex, dating, or grades, often being a follower can be MUCH MORE productive and create amazing results. Without the thousands of people who BELIEVE
- [Progressive Insurance PULLS AD with sexual reference!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/progressive-insurance-pulls-ad-with-sexual-reference/): Recently, Progressive Insurance launched a new national TV commercial where their main character, Flo, refers to riding the Pink Pony. Upon our contacting them to inform them of this pornographic sexual reference, they responded quickly and in a very positive action. We give them KUDOs for taking decisive, positive steps to correct the situation. Here
- [Parents of Teens AND My Friends discuss dating, sex, and intimacy](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parents-of-teens-and-my-friends-discuss-dating-sex-and-intimacy/): Last night, I had the honor of speaking at my childrens' school to 8th graders and their parents. Entertainers and speakers will tell you the toughest audience is the one you know best (family and friends). We were blessed to have a strong turnout and some great insight shared. One Dad stated, "Tonight, I realized
- [Alturas, CA and TEACH, Inc Draw Over 200!!!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/alturas-ca-and-teach-inc-draw-over-200/): In a community where the high school has around 275 students, 200 PEOPLE attended the evening "Can I Kiss You?" show in their community last night. 80% of the room was filled with high school students. How did they draw such a fantastic audience? 1. They ADVERTISED FREE PIZZA to all attendees! 2. They had
- [High school students address dating and asking first with intimacy](https://www.centerforrespect.com/high-school-students-address-dating-and-asking-first-with-intimacy/): Students at Washburn High School in Washburn, WI did a GREAT job making the commitment to create positive change. From middle school through the high school, they realized the importance of "Asking First," "Being a Friend," and "Opening a Door." Watch their videos below AND LEAVE A COMMENT ON THIS POST! I will personally respond
- [Featured Person of Impact: Dayna Freund](https://www.centerforrespect.com/featured-person-impact-dayna-freund/): What Schools, Communities and/or Organizations are you involved with (past or present)? • University of Wisconsin – Milwaukee Masters of Science in Educational Psychology – Community Counseling Bachelors of Science in Women’s Studies and Communication, certificate in LGBT studies • Counselor, The Healing Center Counsel survivors of sexual assault • Project Assistant, University of Wisconsin
- [Sexual Assault Training Takes a Twist](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-training-takes-a-twist/): This article was written at army.mil by Kris Gonzalez, Fort Jackson Leader AIT Soldiers learn about dating, respect and how to prevent sexual assault FORT JACKSON, SC -- "Can I kiss you?" It's a question not commonly asked by a man before he first attempts to kiss a woman. Whether it's because he thinks it
- [Role Model: Phil Mickelson](https://www.centerforrespect.com/role-model-phil-mickelson/): The following story was emailed to me with no recognition as to who wrote and so I apologize now for the inability to recognize the author who makes such a wonderful point in the story below. ENJOY, be inspired, and LEAVE A COMMENT! If you know the author, please let us know: For the past
- [USA Swimming Reacts with Strong, Positive Actions to Sexual Abuse Situations](https://www.centerforrespect.com/usa-swimming-reacts-with-strong-positive-actions-to-sexual-abuse-situations/): Today, an email was sent out by USA Swimming showing the strong response they have chosen to take following the 20/20 news story over a week ago. This is exactly the kind of response we were asking and hoping for USA Swimming to take. Here is a copy: FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE: Wednesday, April 21, 2010
- [University of South Carolina Peer Educators, Sororities, and Being Asked](https://www.centerforrespect.com/university-of-south-carolina-peer-educators-sororities-and-being-asked/): Tonight, the University of South Carolina showed their commitment and passion for making a difference in ending sexual violence, teaching consent, and supporting survivors of sexual assault. We started the day with a "Train the Trainer" dinner with the Peer Educators. They asked great questions to help themselves be even more powerful and effective when
- [NFL chooses suspension in Ben Roethlisberger case](https://www.centerforrespect.com/nfl-takes-action-in-ben-roethlisberger-case/): To see the NFL take action against Ben Roethlisberger is encouraging. The league specifically mentioned his intentional attempt to aid in the further intoxication of someone who is underage. Here at The Date Safe Project, we teach how to Be a Friend and intervene in such situations. According to reports, the female's friends tried to
- [Fort Jackson Soldiers SPEAK OUT today](https://www.centerforrespect.com/fort-jackson-soldiers-speak-out-today/): Today at Fort Jackson in South Carolina, male and female soldiers spoke out against sexual assault; in support of survivors and loved ones; and stated the importance of being a "Battle Buddy" to STOP sexual assault from happening when someone tries to use alcohol as a date rape drug. Watch their 2 videos below: P.S.
- [On 20/20, USA Swimming fails to address sexual abuse](https://www.centerforrespect.com/on-2020-usa-swimming-fails-to-address-sexual-abuse/): As a former USA Swimming Coach and club swimmer, I was extremely disappointed with Chuck W's interview with 20/20 discussing sexual abuse of youth swimmers - by their coaches. When he had the opportunity to apologize to the swimmers and families who experienced abuse at the hands of USA coaches, his smug response was completely
- [Fort Detrick kicks off Sexual Assault Awareness Month and Child Abuse Awareness](https://www.centerforrespect.com/fort-detrick-kicks-off-sexual-assault-awareness-month-and-child-abuse-awareness/): Today at Fort Detrick in Maryland, I was honored to be the opening speaker for their kickoff of Sexual Assault Awareness and Child Abuse Awareness Month. The Commander on base gave a very passionate talk about ending Child Abuse and endorsed the importance of the presentation we were about to give. Both programs went great!
- [Domitrz reacts on NBC to Juneau County DA](https://www.centerforrespect.com/domitrz-reacts-on-nbc-to-juneau-county-da/): This evening, Mike Domitrz appeared on NBC reacting to the comments by Juneau County (Wisconsin) District Attorney Scott Southworth about potentially pursuing criminal charges against teachers following state mandated curriculum concerning sex education in high schools. Click on the link below to watch the entire news segment on NBC: http://www.todaystmj4.com/ Charles Benson did a great
- [High school student supports survivors of sexual assault and rape](https://www.centerforrespect.com/high-school-student-supports-survivors-of-sexual-assault-and-rape/): Listen to this high school student support survivors of sexual assault and rape in the below video. He filmed this statement about being there for survivors from his high school in Lakenheath, England (on the Lakenheath Air Force Base). The "Can I Kiss You?" and "HELP! My Teen Is Dating" presentations toured the Air Force
- [2 high school students discuss dating and asking first](https://www.centerforrespect.com/2-high-school-students-discuss-dating-and-asking-first/): These 2 students at Lakenheath Air Force Base High School in England make a strong statement about asking first when it comes to intimacy and dating in high school. The last 2 weeks of this tour was filled with speaking to wonderful groups of high school students throughout Air Force Bases in Europe. LEAVE A
- [District Attorney in Juneau County THREATENING teachers for following mandated law](https://www.centerforrespect.com/district-attorney-in-juneau-county-threatening-teachers-for-following-mandated-law/): A district attorney in Juneau County, Wisconsin (Scott Southworth) is threatening to charge teachers with crimes for following state mandated curriculum on sexual education. Read today's breaking news in the following link: District Attorney Scott Southworth of Juneau County, Wisconsin threatens teachers following mandated sex education curriculum. WHY is Scott Southworth threatening teachers when they
- [This high school student Asks First & Supports Sexual Assault Survivors](https://www.centerforrespect.com/this-high-school-student-asks-first-supports-sexual-assault-survivors/): This Senior student at Bitburg Air Force Base High School makes a strong statement about asking first and supporting sexual assault survivors. The last 2 weeks was filled with speaking to wonderful groups of high school students throughout Air Force Bases in Europe. LEAVE A COMMENT to let him know what you think (he is
- [Senior high school student in England speaks of ASKING FIRST](https://www.centerforrespect.com/senior-high-school-student-in-england-speaks-of-asking-first/): This Senior student at Lakenheath High School makes a strong statement about consent and asking first. LEAVE A COMMENT to let him know what you think (he is excited to see your comments)! Share your thoughts by LEAVING A COMMENT!
- [High School students & drunk "hook-up"s (sexual assault)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/high-school-students-drunk-hook-ups-sexual-assault/): Within 5 minutes of the "Can I Kiss You?" presentation concluding at Alconbury Air Force Base High School in Alconbury, England, these 5 Seniors created the below role playing skit addressing alcohol and sexual assault. The students show you a creative way to address bystander intention (and did this all in 5 minutes). Be sure
- [Sexual assault and dating discussed with Air Force Base High School students, parents, and the Airmen/women.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-and-dating-discussed-with-air-force-base-high-school-students-parents-and-the-airmenwomen/): For the past week, Air Force Base high school students, parents, and the 18 - 25 year olds have been participating in the "Can I Kiss You?" and "HELP! My Teen Is Dating" presentations on bases throughout Europe. The positive feedback has been overwhelming. The week started in Lajes, Portugal (one of the Azore Islands
- [Airmen Share Support and Love](https://www.centerforrespect.com/airmen-share-support-and-love/): Enjoy the powerful video below of 2 Airmen sharing statements of love and support for those they care about.
- [YWCA presents safe dating tips for Big Island students](https://www.centerforrespect.com/ywca-presents-safe-dating-tips-for-big-island-students/): Recent article posted on Hawii247.org. Almost 2,500 intermediate, high school and college students across the Big Island were encouraged to take the Pledge for Action for healthy relationships and safe dating in a program put on by the YWCA Hawai’i Island last Wednesday and Thursday. Mike Domitrz, executive director of the Date Safe Project (DateSafeProject.org)
- [Rhodes College Sororities FILL THE HOUSE](https://www.centerforrespect.com/rhodes-college-sororities-fill-the-house/): The Sororities at Rhodes Colllege in Memphis, TN did a fantastic job of creating a "Standing Room" only for the "Can I Kiss You?" show tonight. Liz and Whitney did a fantastic job promoting the event. Watch the students making a strong statement:
- [Parents, protect your teenager from the danger's of today's overly sexualized culture.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/protect-your-teenager-when-making-dating-and-sexual-decisions/): Parents, how did you learn about dating, boundaries, and intimacy? Remember how most our parents stayed away from such talks? Remember all the horrible dating advice your friends gave you? The odd part is most of us actually did or tried at least some of what our friends suggested. Now picture your teenager alone in
- [Congrats to Hope House of South Central Wisconsin](https://www.centerforrespect.com/congrats-to-hope-house-of-south-central-wisconsin/): A big "WOW!" and CONGRATULATIONS goes out to Hope House of South Central Wisconsin. This past week, I was honored to be the keynote speaker for their annual fund-raiser which brought in the most money they've ever raised at an event - over $21,000. Their running of this event was amazing - from start to
- [GREAT example of writing to draw intrigue](https://www.centerforrespect.com/great-example-of-writing-to-draw-intrigue/): One of the best articles I've seen a person write about getting students and parents to want to attend a program addressing sexual assault was sent to me today. Read the article below and then share here what the writer did WELL. How do you share? "Leave a Comment" on this post. Here is the
- [Featured Survivor: Lynn Tolson](https://www.centerforrespect.com/featured-survivor-lynn-tolson/): Involvements/Organizations Co-Founder: Finding Our Voices: Healing Art Activities for Survivors of Sexual Assault Domestic Violence Emergency Response Team Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault Victim Advocate Court Appointed Special Advocate, Pike’s Peak Region Depression, Bi-Polar Support Alliance (group facilitator) Women’s Resource Center (group facilitator) Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network (Speaker’s Bureau) Sexual Assault and Suicide Attempts
- [Thank you to Good Men Project featuring Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/thank-you-to-httpwww-goodmenproject-org/): A big THANKS goes out to the http://www.goodmenproject.org/ for recognizing our founder and Executive Director, Mike Domitrz. Check out the article at http://www.goodmenproject.org/
- [The General Assembly Parents LOVE to bring to their schools!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/speaker-general-assembly-parents-middle-high-schools/): When it comes to middle schools and high schools teaching teenagers vital skills for decision-making regarding teen dating, intimacy, a comprehensive safety approach to sex and/or abstinence, MANY school systems do very little because they are afraid of how parents will react. Thus, students learn from each other and we all know teens teaching teens
- [Halifax Brings Powerful Statement](https://www.centerforrespect.com/halifax-statement/): Speaking in Halifax, Nova Scotia (Canada) tonight for Dalhousie University was an unique opportunity this evening. Half of the audience was parents and their teenagers - with the remaining half being college/university students. As I noticed this diversity of audience members prior to starting, I had to make a decision: WHO do I focus this
- [University of Alabama Rolls w/ Tide of Change by "Asking First"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/university-of-alabama-rolls-with-tide-of-change-for-asking-first/): Tonight, the sorority sisters at the University of Alabama made a commitment to Asking First, Being a Friend, and Opening a Door. They were a passionate group of students who shared their viewpoints and made a verbal agreement to make a difference on their campus. While we had 2 shows (one at 6pm and one
- [Ah the power of a Birthday](https://www.centerforrespect.com/birthday-power/): Ah, the age old celebration of a birthday. Recently, I had one of those landmark birthdays people often celebrate or dread in a big way. Looking back over the few days surrounding the birthday, the interesting part was people's reactions. In one group of parents, I was clearly one of the youngest people in the
- [WOW to TOWSON!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/wow-to-towson/): Towson University made me say, "WOW!" throughout the day today. The students desire and passion to create positive change was obvious from the start of our "Train the Trainer" session with the RAs (Resident Assistants) and the Peer Educators on campus. Everyone asked great questions and dived deeply into the discussion. You could tell this
- [Jacob, 18 yr old high school senior, speaks out](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-program-inspires-jacob-18-yr-old/): After watching the sexual assault and healthy dating general assembly at his high school titled "Can I Kiss You?", 18 year old Jacob shares his thoughts. Often students dread attending programs on serious and sensitive topics such as sexual assault. Jacob reveals this concern early on and then shares what happened as the program advanced.
- [College Students and Military Work Together](https://www.centerforrespect.com/college-students-and-military-work-together/): Tonight at South Dakota School of Mines was a great audience. We had a combination of college students and representatives from various military branches. The military professionals were attending as part of their annual SARC training. The "Can I Kiss You?" program counts as their training requirements and so individuals drove in from over 6
- [Teenage Dating: 18 year old asks a question](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teenage-dating-18-year-old-asks-a-question/): Ron, a high school senior in South Dakota, is asking you the following question in the video. WHAT do you think Ron is referring to? After WATCHING the video, see the possible answers and then find out the TRUTH. [poll id="5"] Find out the answer by entering your name and email below. Hit SUBMIT and
- [Ron is referring to the age of consent for teenage dating](https://www.centerforrespect.com/18-teenage-dating/): Ron is referring to the age of consent - the age at which an individual can give consent to engaging in sexual activity with another person who IS THE AGE OF CONSENT or older. Ron wants more students to think about waiting for sexual activity until they are of the legal age to do so.
- [Sexual assault, alcohol & supporting survivors @ Wake Forest](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-alcohol-and-supporting-survivors-at-wake-forest/): WOW! Wake Forest University knows how to promote an educational event addressing sexual assault, intimacy, dating, and alcohol. Better yet, they know how to get RESULTS! Last night, over 1100 students (over 25% of their student body) attended the "Can I Kiss You?" program in Wait Chapel. The team on campus who was responsible for
- [Tell us what YOU WANT on this site!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/decide-what-you-want/): "The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want." ~Ben Stein With a new semester getting started or about to start in schools and universities, what have you DECIDED you really want for this year? What are you going to do to make that happen? I
- [Teenagers effected by parents' stress](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teenagers-effected-by-parents-stress/): Is your family dealing with more stress than usual (unemployed parent, stress at work, tight family budget, etc...)? How is your stress being passed down to your teenagers? A recent Las Vegas Sun newspaper report titled More teenagers depressed, engaging in risky behavior shares a study saying how our country's tough times are effecting today's
- [Pakistan and Women's Rights . . . and the US](https://www.centerforrespect.com/pakistan-and-womens-rights-and-the-us/): At the center of all our work is each person having equal rights in all existence. If one believes a partner is not an equal, the one is more likely to disregard their rights to consent, choice, respect, and dignity. Join us in signing the following pledge for equality: http://www.whiteribbon.org.pk/one-million/index.php Often efforts for change are
- [Mike Domitrz and His Story](https://www.centerforrespect.com/mike-domitrz-and-his-story/): Why does Mike Domitrz, the Founder of The Date Safe Project, Inc., have such an intense passion and drive to: * Dramatically improve society’s approach to healthy dating; * Create a better understanding of how “consent” is obtained in intimacy; * Reveal the keys to effective bystander intervention with alcohol and sexual activity; and *
- [Martin Luther King Jr. and Haiti](https://www.centerforrespect.com/martin-luther-king-jr-haiti/): Yesterday was our country's day to honor Martin Luther King Jr. and his efforts to create change. The power of honoring Martin Luther King Jr. as we see the destruction in Haiti is important. In King's spirit, do we care enough for others to speak out and create long-lasting change (in addition to the money
- [Modernized Sex Education Videos](https://www.centerforrespect.com/modernized-sex-education-videos/): In a recent article discussing sex education videos for schools in Fenton, MI, the reporter refers to Modernized Sex Ed. This concept of modernizing sex ed is often considered controversial when it should be an automatic process. Times change. The world students live in and what they are exposed to changes. Thus, the education must
- [Low standards are easier to maintain?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/low-standards-are-easier-to-maintain/): "All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity are easy. Stay away from easy." Scott Alexander, film writer and director I disagree. When we speak of low standards being easier to maintain, we belittle our own morality and sense of standards. One of the greatest injustices we do to children
- [Extra Workshops for Students, Staff, Parents, and Community Leaders](https://www.centerforrespect.com/extra-workshops-and-training-sessions-for-students-staff-and-community-leaders/): On this page, DISCOVER more information on: "Train the Trainer" Sessions "HELP! My Teen Is Dating. Real Solutions to Tough Conversations" ~ for Parents "Talk Back Hour" Customizing for Specific Audiences (Faith Based / Alternative Schools / Boarding Schools) When you bring Mike Domitrz and the "Can I Kiss You?" program to your schools, you
- [Sexual & dating decision-making DVD endorsed by Mom & Daughter](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-and-dating-decision-making-dvd-endorsed-by-mom-and-daughter/): Often when reviews and endorsements are received for our DVD on education concerning teenage dating, sexual decision-making, and safety titled HELP! My Teen Is Dating. Real Solutions to Tough Conversations, the praise is being given by an educator or head of a parenting organization. What is unique about today's endorsement is this time the reviewer
- [Feedback from Middle Schools & High Schools](https://www.centerforrespect.com/educators-review-can-i-kiss-you/): Scroll down this page and read reviews and feedback from educators of 6th - 12th grade students, the students and survivors. You will see the long-lasting impact the "Can I Kiss You?" program and Mike Domitrz is having on schools and communities. On this page, DISCOVER: Reviews from Teachers & Community Educators Letters from Schools
- [Most In-Depth and "How To" Curriculum Available](https://www.centerforrespect.com/continuing-the-message-long-after-the-program/): Receive the Instructor's Guide and the 30 books for the classroom when you bring the "Can I Kiss You?" presentation to your schools! Imagine your students immediately implementing the lessons they discovered in your classroom into their own dating lives and for helping their friends in unhealthy relationships. You will be sharing a curriculum that
- [Project Connect provides funding](https://www.centerforrespect.com/project-connect-violence-against-wome/): The Family Violence Prevention Fund (FVPF) is launching a new multi-state initiative, Project Connect: A Coordinated Public Health Initiative to Prevent Violence against Women, supported by the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS), Office on Women's Health (OWH). This initiative is a result of funding from the Violence against Women and Department of Justice
- [THE school assembly for creating positive change!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/middle-schools-high-general-assembly-speaker-sex-assault-drinking/): Is your school and community looking for an educational program that is both Entertaining and Life Changing - while also providing your students needed SKILLS for addressing: Healthy Relationships (and reducing Dating Violence) Respecting Boundaries & Consent Bystander Intervention (Intervene in dangerous alcohol situations) Supporting Survivors of Sexual Assault When it comes to dating, decision
- ["Can I Kiss You?" Presentation](https://www.centerforrespect.com/can-i-kiss-you-presentation/): The Date Safe Project offers 2 different "Can I Kiss You?" presentations designed for specific audiences: 6th - 12th Grade and College Students. Click below on the appropriate audience for your school or campus!
- [College & University Students CHEER](https://www.centerforrespect.com/college-university-students-cheer/): More for You. Please click on the following links for more info on the "Can I Kiss You?:" About Watch the Video "Train the Trainer" Reviews from Students College Tour Schedule Huge Attendance Continuing Impact Reserve a Date Downloads Is Your Campus Looking for a Program that is BOTH Entertaining and Educational? Do you want
- [Middle School and High School students react to "Can I Kiss You?" Program](https://www.centerforrespect.com/middle-school-and-high-school-students-react-to-can-i-kiss-you-program/): More for You. Please click on the following links for more info on the "Can I Kiss You?:" About Watch the Video "Train the Trainer" Student Feedback Reserve a Date Downloads The most powerful feedback is often from students because they say exactly what they are thinking. Below you will see what middle school students
- [How does accountability effect your ability to make an impact?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/how-does-accountability-effect-your-ability-to-make-an-impact/): How are you accountable in your mission to make a difference? One of my dearest friends is an amazing person I'm honored to have in my life - Sam Silverstein. Sam and I talk each week: sharing, laughing, and inspiring each other to try new concepts and then holding each other to the highest standards.
- [The Date Safe Project Team has joined Twitter](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-date-safe-project-team-has-joined-twitter/): We saw the great interactions Mike was having on Twitter, we thought we'd join as well. Let's connect and start the conversation today! To follow us start by clicking the image below.. Are you not following Mike already? Start by clicking the link below.. Thank you, The Date Safe Project Team
- [Porn and "Cuties" Gone Wild addressed on TV sitcom rerun](https://www.centerforrespect.com/porn-and-cuties-gone-wild-addressed-on-tv-sitcom-rerun/): Who knew I would be inspired by a sexist TV sitcom scene discussing porn over the holiday break? While working out over, I had the TV on. The show on TV was "According to Jim" starring Jim Belushi. The three men in the scene are about to watch a DVD they received in the mail
- [Ending violence, dating abuse, and sexual assault reminds us of a Helen Keller quote](https://www.centerforrespect.com/ending-violence-dating-abuse-and-sexual-assault-reminds-us-of-a-helen-keller-quote/): When you think of ending sexual violence, dating abuse, and sexual assault, how will you commit to taking more of an active role in speaking out and taking positive actions? Who will you turn to for INSPIRATION along your journey? How will you keep yourself motivated when challenges begin facing you, especially when dealing with
- [Social entrepreneurship blog recognizes Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/social-entrepreneurship-blog-justin-sachs-mike-domitrz/): The blog "Entrepreneur Success" by Justin Sachs has recognized Mike Domitrz for the powerful difference he is making through Social Entrepreneurship. In the blog, Justin states, "If you even KNOW a teenager, you are going to want to hear about Mike Domitrz." The article shares the journey Mike Domitrz has taken from hearing about his
- [Bystander Intervention stops rape](https://www.centerforrespect.com/bystander-intervention-in-south-africa-to-stop-rape/): To start off 2010, we have a powerful example of bystander intervention which took place in Alberton, South Africa and resulted in stopping a robbery and potentially a rape from occurring. Louis Venter, a former traffic officer, discovered his neighbors were being robbed and immediately intervened. In doing so, all of the attackers were captured
- [](https://www.centerforrespect.com/watch-600-students-engage-on-their-campus/): Click the PLAY button on the video to your left and begin watching over 600 students experiencing the "Can I Kiss You?" program at 8 in the morning!. You will notice they are engaged, thinking, opening their minds, and making decisions to change their actions. Bring the "Can I Kiss You?" program to your campus
- [Watch School Assembly with over 600 Students at 8am!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/watch-school-assembly-with-over-600-students-at-8am/): In this video, you are watching over 600 students at 8am in a School Assembly of the "Can I Kiss You?" program engaged, thinking, opening their minds, and making decisions to change their actions. Bring the "Can I Kiss You?" program to your community and witness your students talking nonstop about the positive changes they
- [Continuing the Impact Long Term](https://www.centerforrespect.com/drawing-large-crowds-positive-media-2/): On this page, you will DISCOVER: Do You Ask? Educational Poster Series Critically-Acclaimed Books Pledge for Action POSTERS After you bring an educational program to your campus, do you wish you had more opportunities to continue the lessons learned in the expert's presentation? Now you can! The "Do You Ask?" poster series is the most
- [Downloads & More for your Community](https://www.centerforrespect.com/downloads-more-for-your-community/): Download 20 Page Informational Magazine on "Can I Kiss You?" Program Download the in-depth 20 page informational magazine by clicking on the image to the left. In this special publication, you will get to read articles, hear from educators, professionals, survivors, & students from throughout North America. To have the packet mailed to you, call
- [Finding a Date for Your Campus](https://www.centerforrespect.com/campus-tour-schedule/): Discounts Available for Campuses See Speaking Tour / Schedule Past Clients Due to the high demand for the "Can I Kiss You?" program each year, the best way to insure getting Mike Domitrz to your community is to reserve a date as quickly as possible. Available dates are limited throughout the year. Below you will find
- [Customized Workshops & Specific Audience Groups](https://www.centerforrespect.com/train-the-trainer/): On this page, DISCOVER information on: "Going All the Way with . . . " Workshop (aka "Train the Trainer") "Talk Back" Session Customizing for Specific Audiences (Faith Based, Res Life, Athletics, Greek Life, and more) When you bring Mike Domitrz and the "Can I Kiss You?" program to your campus or community, you get
- [#1 for Single, Committed, & MARRIED individuals!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/single-committed-or-married/): As you know, finding an educational and engaging program for the men and women on your base can be difficult because you have single individuals, people in committed relationships who are not married, and you have married couples. One of the best aspects of the "Can I Kiss You?" program and Mike Domitrz's approach is
- [Audio Testimonial Program](https://www.centerforrespect.com/call/): Often, people ask us, "How can we help spread the word about The Date Safe Project and the many resources you provide - including the Can I Kiss You? program, your books, your posters, your DVD for parents, and all the materials you produce?" The quickest way to help is to use our Audio Testimonial
- ["Can I Kiss You?" Briefing in front of over 800 Active Duty](https://www.centerforrespect.com/can-i-kiss-you-briefing-in-front-of-over-600-students/): To watch the video at FULL SCREEN, click on the lower right-hand corner of the video. [field name="javascript"] Call Rita in our offices at 800-329-9390 TODAY! **You can click here to send us an email. INSURING A GREAT PROGRAM FOR YOUR INSTALLATION: One of the biggest fears many installations have is "How can we know
- [Persistence is the KEY](https://www.centerforrespect.com/persistence-is-the-key/): One of the most common questions I get asked as I travel the country he is, "How did you successfully get the word out about your organization and the programs you present throughout the country?" The number one answer is persistence. If you would love to help overcome more challenges in your work, check out
- [DOD Reports on Sexual Assault in the Military](https://www.centerforrespect.com/dod-reports-on-sexual-assault-in-the-military/): Working with the US military has always been a great honor for everyone here at The Date Safe Project, Inc. (DSP). When it comes to addressing sexual assault (education, prevention, and supporting survivors), a lot of passionate and caring individuals are making positive changes for our men and women in the US military. We have
- [Dear AMY in Chicago Tribune - OH DEAR AMY!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/dear-amy/): Recently, the column "Dear Amy" in the Chicago Tribune responded to a question from a survivor of sexual assault. Upon receiving a great deal of negative comments about her response to the column (as you can read on their site), "Dear Amy" printed another column responding to her original response. You can read the original
- [Let someone know on Black Friday](https://www.centerforrespect.com/let-someone-know-on-black-friday/): "Silent gratitude isn't very much use to anyone." ~ Gertrude Stein (1874 - 1946) On this hectic day for many of being "Black Friday" shopping, RUN QUICKLY to someone you need to say, "THANKS" to and tell them!
- [On Thanksgiving, thanks to YOU](https://www.centerforrespect.com/on-thanksgiving-thanks-to-you/): "I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my friends, the old and the new." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803 - 1882) As today is Thanksgiving, THANKS to you and all the supporters who work to support our mission - "Asking First" + "Being a Friend" + "Opening a Door."
- [Thanksgiving is almost here.  Appreciation and Thanks!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/thanksgiving-is-almost-here-appreciation-and-thanks/): "Feeling grateful to or appreciative of someone or something in your life actually attracts more of the things that you appreciate and value into your life." ~ Christiane Northrup, M.D. As Thanksgiving is upon us here in the USA, what are you grateful for? Who do you appreciate? Share with all of us. Remind us
- [Courage and Bystanders](https://www.centerforrespect.com/courage-and-bystanders/): "Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear - not absence of fear." ~ Mark Twain (1835 - 1910) As we have recently seen more discussions about bystander intervention, may we all remember Mark Twain's words. When someone tells you, "I was too afraid to say anything," remind him/her, "Everyone is afraid. FEAR is your
- ["Can I Kiss You?" shirt for only $10 (Limited Time)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/can-i-kiss-you-shirt-for-only-10-limited-time/): The front of the shirts reads, Can I Kiss You? The back of the shirts reads, Do You Ask? - Take One Moment to Care Order for only $10.00 Click here to visit our Educational Store & Resources
- [Discover who WAS A FRIEND during the Richmond High School gang rape (sexual assault) of a 15 year old student](https://www.centerforrespect.com/discover-who-was-a-friend-during-the-richmond-high-school-gang-rape-sexual-assault-of-15-year-old-student/): In the video below, discover a powerful element the media is not covering much in the Richmond High School gang rape (sexual assault) of a 15 year old student outside the Homecoming Dance. THEN, sign the THANK YOU page below the video. Click here to say THANK YOU to Raul Rubio and Margarita Vargas!
- [Sexual assault professionals share and inspire](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-professionals-share-and-inspire/): "The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt (1884 - 1962) Professionally, how are you living life? How are you "reaching out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experiences"? When you face
- [Bystander Intervention and the Rape Case at Richmond High School in CA and the Beating in Southside Chicago](https://www.centerforrespect.com/bystander-intervention-and-the-recent-rape-case-at-richmond-high-school-in-california-and-the-beating-in-southside-chicago/): "To see what is right and not to do it is want of courage." Confucius, Chinese philosopher & reformer (551 BC - 479 BC) With all of the recent cases where teenagers stood by as another teenager was beaten to death and/or raped, how do you interpret Confucius's quote above? The country and the media
- [Life is full of obstacle illusions](https://www.centerforrespect.com/2809-2/): "Life is full of obstacle illusions." ~ Grant Frazier What obstacle illusions are stopping you in your current goals and/or projects? Often what we believe is an obstacle is simply something we've placed in the middle of our own course for success. Today, what obstacle will you realize is simply an illusion? Often in the
- [Middle & High Schools: Speaker Information](https://www.centerforrespect.com/middle-high-schools-speaker-information/): More for You. Please click on the following links for more info on the "Can I Kiss You?:" About Watch the Video "Train the Trainer" Student Feedback Reserve a Date Downloads Informational Packet Download this in-depth 20 page informational magazine by clicking on the image or by clicking here. In this special publication,
- [Lackland Air Force Base Making a Difference](https://www.centerforrespect.com/lackland-air-force-base-making-a-difference/): Tuesday was a great day spent with the wonderful people at Lackland Air Force Base by presenting to the schools and conducting a "Train the Trainer" session for SARC offices from various bases in the area. Charlotte with the SARC Office did a fantastic job putting together a productive and successful day. We started by
- [Keloland TV Reports on "Can I Kiss You?" w/ Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/keloland-television-reports-on-can-i-kiss-you-with-mike-domitrz/): While at South Dakota National Guard Armory in Sioux Falls, SD, Keloland Television interviewed Mike Domitrz about the "Can I Kiss You?" program. Keloland High Schoolers attended this event. Courtney Zieller reporting. Watch our "Can I Kiss You?" promo video (CLICK HERE)
- [Northern State University Athletes Make a Difference](https://www.centerforrespect.com/northern-state-university-athletes-make-a-difference/): Tonight, the Northern State University athletes did a fantastic job making a commitment to create positive changes. Here is their video:
- [North Dakota State University Rocks](https://www.centerforrespect.com/north-dakota-state-university-rocks/)
- [Sioux Falls College Students Make a Difference](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sioux-falls-college-students-make-a-difference/): Sioux Falls college students speak out and say, "Respect the Answer." Students from 3 campuses came together at Augustana College to make a difference and have fun. Earlier in the day, high school students from 9 different high schools attended the "Can I Kiss You?" program and a breakout session with me. We had a
- [Washington State University GOES ALL THE WAY!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/washington-state-university-goes-all-the-way/): Wow! Tonight at Washington State University in Pullman, WA, the students packed the house soo tightly for the "Can I Kiss You? " program they had to remove people from the standing-room only!! Way to go, WSU!! Tonight was one of the highest energy audiences of the semester. They were FUN, interactive, and passionate. You
- [Washington College says JUST ASK](https://www.centerforrespect.com/washington-college-says-just-ask/): Washington College was a great host tonight! Thank you, Sarah, for being a fantastic host and to all your student leaders who provided a FUN dinner!! Maggie did a sensational job with introducing the show and your students interaction was wonderful. Here is the video for everyone:
- ["How To" Videos for Moms and Dads](https://www.centerforrespect.com/how-to-videos-for-moms-and-dads/): Moms and Dads, do you wish you had a quick reference guide to parenting teens - both sons and daughters? Now you do. By watching the "How To" videos you will find here, you will gain fast, flexible, and realistic tools for talking with and helping your teenager (and YOU). Starting September 1st, you are
- [Change is Your Friend](https://www.centerforrespect.com/change-is-your-friend/): "No matter how hard you’re working to figure out and prepare for your life, you’re actual life will be different than your plan. Therefore make change your friend. Get good at it. Learn to be comfortable with it. Expect it. A life lived outside of your comfort zone will bring you the biggest rewards." Chris
- [Film, TV, & Music Reviews BY and FOR you](https://www.centerforrespect.com/film-tv-music-reviews-by-and-for-you/): Every week, new films and songs are released around the globe. Throughout the year, TV shows are launched. 24 hours, 7 days a week, you can turn to "Breaking News" on one of the many "news dedicated" cable channels. With all of these mediums constantly changing, how can you stay up-to-date or know how to
- [Bring the LIVE Workshop to Your Community](https://www.centerforrespect.com/bring-the-live-help-my-teen-is-dating-workshop-in-your-community/): **This is a LIVE and in-person program for parents. For the HELP! My Teen Is Dating DVD, click here.** Parents, how did you learn about dating, boundaries, and intimacy? Remember how our parents stayed away from such talks? Remember all the horrible dating advice your friends gave you? The odd part is most of us
- [Student of Impact: Anne Katherine Dunham](https://www.centerforrespect.com/anne-katherine-dunham/): School: St. Lawrence University Involvements: Member of Omnicron Delta Kappa Member of Psi Chi Dance Ensemble Secretary & Treasurer Swing Dance Club Co-President Advocate against Sexual Violence Advocates Program AWARE Training Co-Coordinator Member of International House Volunteer at Renewal House (local domestic violence shelter) Go Beyond Director (Spring 2009) Horseback Riding Lessons (local and on
- [St. Joseph's College is all about RESPECT!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/st-josephs-college-is-all-about-respect/): What a turnout! The incoming class at St. Joseph's College in West Hartford, CT, (an all Women's school) was to attend the "Can I Kiss You?" program last night on their campus. Thanks to the word getting out around campus, many of the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th year students also attended with the incoming class
- [University of Georgia is taking ACTION to make a difference](https://www.centerforrespect.com/university-of-georgia-is-taking-action-to-make-a-difference/): Over 900 college women at the University of Georgia took action this afternoon to make a difference on their campus. They agreed to intervene and "Be a Friend" when a friend is in a situation involving intimacy and alcohol use. They committed to "Asking First" and always supporting survivors of sexual assault. After a full
- ["Can I Kiss You?" and Mike Domitrz raise funds for 871 survivors!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/can-i-kiss-you-and-mike-domitrz-raises-funds-to-support-871-survivors/): The Date Safe Project, Inc and Mike Domitrz were just honored to receive notice from RAINN (Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network) that our auction of the "Can I Kiss You?" program (and Mike Domitrz providing 2 extra presentations) was so successful that 871 more sexual assault survivors will now be able to receive support
- [Downloads & Speaker Information](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military-academies-speaker-information/): Download 20 Page Informational Magazine on "Can I Kiss You?" Program Download the in-depth 28 page informational magazine by clicking on the image to the left. In this special publication, you will get "How To" articles and in-depth information on the "Can I Kiss You?" Briefing along with much more (including hearing from professionals, survivors,
- [Downloads & More for Campuses](https://www.centerforrespect.com/educators-speaker-information/): Download NEW Informational Magazine ("How To" articles and info on "Can I Kiss You?" Program). Download the NEW in-depth informational magazine by clicking on the image to the left. In this special publication, you will get to read articles, hear from educators, professionals, survivors, & students from throughout North America. To have the packet mailed
- [Our Daily Giveaway Winners](https://www.centerforrespect.com/2252-2/): Two recent Daily Giveaway Winners wearing our "Pledge for Action" shirt. Sign up for our Newsletter for your chance to win one of the following: "Can I Kiss You?" shirt "Pledge for Action" shirt May I Kiss You? book Voices of Courage book The following 10 college students won the "Want Some Action?" T-shirts on
- [Colleges & Universities:  Speaker Information](https://www.centerforrespect.com/colleges-universities-speaker-information/): More for You. Please click on the following links for more info on the "Can I Kiss You?:" About Watch the Video "Train the Trainer" Reviews from Students College Tour Schedule Huge Attendance Continuing Impact Reserve a Date Downloads Informational Packet Download this in-depth 20 page informational magazine by clicking on the image or by
- [What students are saying about the "Can I Kiss You?" program](https://www.centerforrespect.com/what-students-are-saying-about-can-i-kiss-you/)
- [North Dakota State College of Science Makes Chemistry!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/north-dakota-state-college-of-science-makes-chemistry/): The North Dakota State College of Science turned out in electrifying numbers for tonight's presentation of "Can I Kiss You?." Professors, staff, and the entire campus did a wonderful job of bringing the students out to see unique approach to discussing consent, bystander intervention, and supporting sexual assault survivors. Georgia, Shirley, and Kathy did an
- [GUSTIES and the KING were GREAT TONIGHT (Sept 23rd)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/gusties-and-the-king-were-great-tonight-sept-23rd/): Every year, Gustavus Adolphus College in St. Peter, MN does an AMAZING job drawing a HUGE audience at the "Can I Kiss You?" show (1/3 of their students) - including a line outside the doors which starts over 3 hours before the show (see the pictures posted farther down the page)! Their student body, staff,
- [St. Thomas Fills the House](https://www.centerforrespect.com/st-thomas-fills-the-house/): At St. Thomas, the students filled the house for the 7:30 PM show and brought a nice intimate setting with them to the 4:30pm show. Both groups brought energy, interaction, and a commitment to making a difference. This year was the first time I worked with Josh and he did a fantastic job making sure
- [Sexual assault, peer education, consent, and much more at Loyola](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-peer-education-consent-and-much-more-at-loyola/): Every year, I look forward to discussing sexual assault, consent, peer education, and much more at Loyola. Xavier is always one of the highlights of working at Loyola. When you call him, you're going to hear jazz music playing behind him. Sure enough, Xavier did not disappoint. As I was approaching his campus, I called
- [St. John's prep school in Collegeville Minnesota](https://www.centerforrespect.com/st-johns-prep-school-in-collegeville-minnesota/): Middle school and high school students are often a unique challenge for some presenters. When you have six grade through 12th grade students in the same room, you must be careful to address all the different mindsets and experiences of those students. While a Senior in high school maybe more experienced than the typical sixth-grader,
- [Berry College students discuss sexual assault and consent](https://www.centerforrespect.com/berry-college-students-discuss-sexual-assault-and-consent/): Japanese food, great sushi, sexual education discussion, consent, a packed house, and all in one night at Berry College in Mount Berry, Georgia. Started off meeting Katherine Powell, who does a great job running the program on campus. Catherine brought together several for peer educators and mentors to have us discuss ways to help them
- ["Can I Kiss You?" program at Bloomsburg University and Deb](https://www.centerforrespect.com/can-i-kiss-you-program-at-bloomsburg-university-and-deb/): After 32 years of working at Bloomsburg College, our contact, Deb, will be retiring this February. She's a wonderful, passionate, and caring person who has been fantastic to work with over the past few years. Deb, we wish you the best of success in all your future endeavors. Before we started, I had asked someone
- [Daily Giveaway Update](https://www.centerforrespect.com/daily-giveaway-upadte/): Due to technical difficulties we will not post the winners for the 10 "Want Some Action?" T-shirts from our website until tomorrow at 12pm (central time). We apologize for any inconvenience this may cause. Thank you, The Date Safe Project, Inc.
- [More College Students WIN 10 "Want Some Action?" T-shirts](https://www.centerforrespect.com/more-college-students-win-10-want-some-action-t-shirts/): The following 10 college students won the "Want Some Action?" T-shirts on Tuesday night at 11pm. Remember how special 11pm is? Congratulations!! Sarah from Ontario Kieran from Ontario Silver from Missouri Brianne from New Jersey Katie from New Iowa Morgan from Connecticut Mark from New Jersey Ashley from Missouri Meghan from New Jersey Rayven from
- [College Students WIN 10 "Want Some Action?" T-shirts](https://www.centerforrespect.com/college-students-win-10-want-some-action-t-shirts/): The following 10 college students won the "Want Some Action?" T-shirts on Thursday night at 11pm. Remember how special 11pm is? Congratulations!! Ciera from Alberta Joellen from Iowa Morgan from Iowa Kristin from Missouri Ryan from New Jersey Sarah from New York Shane from New York Sydnie from New York Bridget from Ohio Jacqueline from
- [4500 college students address dating, sexual assault, asking first, and intimacy](https://www.centerforrespect.com/4500-college-students-address-dating-sexual-assault-asking-first-and-intimacy/): Over 4500 students took on the issues of dating, consent, sexual assault, alcohol intervention when intimacy is involved, and supporting survivors of sexual assault at the University of Western Ontario in London, Ontario (Canada). The students were energetic and showed determination in wanting to make a difference. To see over 4500 students come together on
- [Canada college students speak out against sexual assault and using alcohol to take advantage of others](https://www.centerforrespect.com/canada-college-students-speak-out-against-sexual-assault-and-using-alcohol-to-take-advantage-of-others/): Sexual assault, consent, bystander intervention regarding alcohol, and supporting survivors is addressed by the University of Alberta incoming students earlier this evening. Each year, the students on campus do a great job of showing up in total support of the messages we share in the "Can I Kiss You?" program. Chelsea does a great job
- [Western CT State University Asks for a Kiss](https://www.centerforrespect.com/western-ct-state-university-asks-for-a-kiss/): Thanks to Sharon Guck and Walter Cramer for another great night at Western Connecticut State University. They do one of the most unique promotions. Every student attending specific events throughout the week have a chance to win 1/2 their tuition. Then, the winner is drawn at the end of the "Can I Kiss You?" program
- [University at Albany provides 2 shows - 2 fun & different outcomes](https://www.centerforrespect.com/university-at-albany-provides-2-shows-2-fun-different-outcomes/): At the University at Albany tonight, we presented 2 shows. Each audience was very different and each was rewarding to work with. In our first audience, the students wanted to debate the idea of "asking first" right from the start and so we adapted the program to address those concerns right away. By the end,
- [Neumann University Fills the Theatre - TWICE](https://www.centerforrespect.com/neumann-university-fills-the-theatre-twice/): Neumann University moved the "Can I Kiss You?" program to their theatre this year and had 2 shows for the incoming students. This change of venue paid off tremendously - as the intimate setting in the theatre fostered some great conversations between myself and a few of the audience members. Megan has been a wonderful
- [Sexual Assault Survivors Praise "Can I Kiss You?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-survivors-react-to-can-i-kiss-you/): The most important person in the audience of a program discussing sexual assault is each SURVIVOR. While many programs discuss the pain of sexual assault, you want to insure the presentation you bring to campus UPLIFTS and provides each survivor a positive outlook for the future. Read below to see the difference the “Can I
- [Reviews from Military Professionals, Survivors, & Media](https://www.centerforrespect.com/reviews-from-military-professionals/): On this page, DISCOVER: Feedback from Military Professionals (SARCs and Command) Military Media Coverage of the Program Words from Survivors in the Audience MILITARY PROFESSIONALS & LEADERS Read the following feedback from Military Professionals at various levels: Hello Mike, I just wanted to thank you again for offering an insightful, entertaining, and most importantly an
- ["Can I Kiss You?" & Mike Domitrz at John Carroll University](https://www.centerforrespect.com/can-i-kiss-you-mike-domitrz-at-john-carroll-university/): First off, a special "THANKS" goes out to Ryan Knotts for bringing the "Can I Kiss You?" program to John Carroll University for the past 5 years. Ryan is moving into a new position in a few months. Ashley, we are excited to work with you in the coming years. Ashley was brought in just
- [Featured Survivor: Anne Katherine Dunham](https://www.centerforrespect.com/featured-survivor-anne-katherine-dunham/): School: St. Lawrence University Involvements: Member of Omnicron Delta Kappa Member of Psi Chi Dance Ensemble Secretary & Treasurer Swing Dance Club Co-President Advocate against Sexual Violence Advocates Program AWARE Training Co-Coordinator Member of International House Volunteer at Renewal House (local domestic violence shelter) Go Beyond Director (Spring 2009) Horseback Riding Lessons (local and on
- [Parents & Your Community WILL BE EXCITED!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/drawing-large-crowds-positive-media/): The greatest way to help guarantee support for a needed educational program on a sensitive topic is to work with a professional team who is fantastic at creating a "buzz" at your school and in your community. From giving you fun posters to providing you with a detailed schedule for PR & Marketing Tips, The
- [Sexual Assault Survivors Respond to "Can I Kiss You?"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-survivors-respond-to-can-i-kiss-you/): The most important person in the audience of a program discussing sexual assault is each SURVIVOR. While many programs discuss the pain of sexual assault, you want to insure the presentation you bring to your military installation UPLIFTS and provides each survivor a positive outlook for the future. Read below to see the difference the
- [Northwest Missouri State Makes a Statement](https://www.centerforrespect.com/northwest-missouri-state-make-a-statement/): Northwest Missouri State University just made a powerful statement. Over 750 incoming students wanted to do a serious video to spread online. Please help them move this video through FaceBook, YouTube, and Twitter - any means you can think of. Here is the video:
- [NW MO State does it AGAIN](https://www.centerforrespect.com/nw-mo-state-does-it-again/): Only 1 hour had passed and the audience in the 8pm show was just as passionate at NW MO State University. They wanted to make a difference and so they chose a sentence no one else had said this year. Here is their video below. REMEMBER to invite people to watch these videos and help
- [Thanks & Pics from NW Missouri State University](https://www.centerforrespect.com/thanks-pics-from-nw-missouri-state-university/): A big thanks goes to Leslie Chandler and everyone at NW Missouri State University. Their gift bag was very cool. My sons are going to especially love the pizza cutter!! Each year, you graciously present me with your incoming classes T-shirt and I am always happy to wear it! Below are pictures from the night:
- [On to John Carroll University](https://www.centerforrespect.com/on-to-john-carroll-university/): Currently in route to John Carroll University where Ryan Knotts has been wonderful to work with for the past several years. Ryan is now moving on to a new position and so today will be my last chance to work with him. Thanks for the opportunity to work with you over the years, Ryan.
- [Forums for College Students to Share](https://www.centerforrespect.com/forums-for-college-students-to-share/): Click here to begin sharing with college students on your campus and around the country!!
- [Vassar College Shares & Leads](https://www.centerforrespect.com/vassar-college-shares-leads/): Last night Vassar College brought the "Can I Kiss You?" to campus for their incoming students. As an educator, one of the greatest gifts an audience can give you is feedback. The students last night were engaged at an incredibly high level of interaction. Even after the show, many students were sharing their thoughts and
- [Forums to Share & Discover Together](https://www.centerforrespect.com/forums-to-share-discover-together/): Click here to begin sharing with others and discovering helpful ideas from others.
- [Unique & Educational Resources Available to You](https://www.centerforrespect.com/powerful-programs-and-materials-for-military-installations/): Do you notice how often men and women on your installation walk right by educational posters, signs, and campaigns addressing intimacy, sexual decision-making, and specifically sexual assault? What if you could grab their attention in a manner which would result in significant changes in their beliefs and actions? Do you wish you had a place
- [Molloy College](https://www.centerforrespect.com/molloy-college/): This morning was waking up at 4am - catching a flight to JFK in NYC and then driving to Molloy College for a 9:30am presentation. Afterward, I drove to Vassar College in Poughkeepsie, NY. Molloy College is always special because they are one of the first schools we worked with. Bob brought me in from
- [Voices of Courage (Book and CDs)](https://www.centerforrespect.com/voices-of-courage/): From tragedy to triumph, inspiring lessons unfold in this one-of-a-kind book by twelve survivors of sexual assault. An eye-opening journal of personal growth and recovery, Voices of Courage will forever change your perspective on life after a sexual assault. Each chapter Is written by a different survivor of sexual assault. Professionals, survivors, family members, educators,
- [Share Your Views With Educators, Parents & Professionals](https://www.centerforrespect.com/join-the-dsp-advisory-board/): Imagine being on a team with educators, parents, professionals, and community members from around the country sharing their insights and feedback regarding decisions The Date Safe Project, Inc. makes throughout the year. As a DSP Advisory Board member, you are a part of the strategic thinking for what content, educational resources, services, and products The
- [Exclusive Videos and Articles for You](https://www.centerforrespect.com/exclusive-videos-and-articles-for-you/): Do you wish you had a resource where you could quickly get tips and ideas from top experts who could help you with talking to students and community members about the sensitive issues surrounding sexual assault, healthy intimacy, respect, and decision-making? Now you do. By watching the videos and reading the articles you will find
- [Get Ideas from the Experts](https://www.centerforrespect.com/get-ideas-from-the-experts/): Do you wish you had a resource where you could quickly get tips and ideas from top experts who could help you with talking to the men and women at your military installation about the sensitive issues surrounding sexual assault, healthy intimacy, respect, and decision-making? Now you do. By watching the videos and reading the
- [Featured Survivors](https://www.centerforrespect.com/featured-survivors/): Throughout the year, survivors will be featured here at The Date Safe Project, Inc. as the “Featured Survivor.” Individuals are nominated by their peers, educators, professionals, students, and/or can nominate themselves. The “Featured Survivor” represents some and/or all of the below criteria: A sexual assault survivor who has helped others. A survivor who's own journey
- [Keuka College in 2009](https://www.centerforrespect.com/keuka-college-in-2009/): Tonight, "Can I Kiss You?" was presented at Keuka College in Keuka Park, NY. The ride is ALWAYS gorgeous as you drive along the Finger Lakes region which is filled with beautiful views of the water on one side and wineries on the other side. You want to stop and take pictures every few miles.
- [Finding a Date](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tour-schedule-2/): Discounts Available for Military Installations See Speaking Tour & Schedule Past Military Clients (Installations & Academies) Due to the high demand for the "Can I Kiss You?" program each year, the best way to insure getting Mike Domitrz to your military community is to reserve a date as quickly as possible. Because Mike believes in
- [Person of Impact](https://www.centerforrespect.com/person-of-impact/): Throughout the year, selected individuals will be featured here at The Date Safe Project, Inc. as the “Person of Impact.” Individuals are nominated by their peers, educators, professionals, students, and/or can nominate themselves. The “Person of Impact” represents some and/or all of the below criteria: Has had success running and/or coordinating an educational campaign in
- [Students & Their Teachers are CHEERING](https://www.centerforrespect.com/students-their-teachers-are-cheering/): More for You. Please click on the following links for more info on the "Can I Kiss You?:" About Watch the Video "Train the Trainer" Student Feedback Reserve a Date Downloads Do you want a speaker, author, and expert who is going to have your students rolling in the aisles from laughter and then just
- [1-on-1 Direct Access to Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/1-on-1-direct-access-to-mike-domitrz/): The Date Safe Project Inc. provides multiple platforms for parents to access valuable resources in helping their tweens, teenagers, and young adults make the safest choices possible. For those families who want MORE direct access to Mike Domitrz, you can join others in his Personal Coaching program. What you get! Blunt and upfront conversation with
- [St. Lawrence Leads the Way with Advocates](https://www.centerforrespect.com/st-lawrence-leads-the-way/): Tonight, I was at St. Lawrence University and every year they WOW me with their fantastic Advocates Program. If you work on a college campus and want to see a great example of student advocates in action, this is the campus to follow. Each year, over 30 students are trained to be sexual assault advocates.
- [Continuing the Impact LONG after the program](https://www.centerforrespect.com/continuing-the-impact-long-after-the-program-3/): After you bring an educational program to your community, do you wish you had more opportunities to continue the lessons learned in the expert's presentation? Now you can! The "Do You Ask?" poster series is the most direct consent based educational poster series used throughout the world. Each poster is both eye-catching and educational. The
- [Huge Turnout on Campuses](https://www.centerforrespect.com/huge-turnout-on-campuses/): More for You. Please click on the following links for more info on the "Can I Kiss You?:" About Watch the Video "Train the Trainer" Reviews from Students College Tour Schedule Huge Attendance Continuing Impact Reserve a Date Downloads The greatest way to help guarantee great attendance to an event is to work with a
- [College Students RAVE about "Can I Kiss You?" Show](https://www.centerforrespect.com/college-students-rave-about-can-i-kiss-you-show/): More for You. Please click on the following links for more info on the "Can I Kiss You?:" About Watch the Video "Train the Trainer" Reviews from Students College Tour Schedule Huge Attendance Continuing Impact Reserve a Date Downloads "All I can say is WOW!! I attended one of his sessions for the Peer-Ed people
- [Sexual Assault Survivors in College PRAISE program.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-survivors-in-college-praise-program/): The most important person in the audience of a program discussing sexual assault is each SURVIVOR. While many programs discuss the pain of sexual assault, you want to insure the presentation you bring to campus UPLIFTS and provides each survivor a positive outlook for the future. Read below to see the difference the "Can I
- [Download the latest materials for your campus](https://www.centerforrespect.com/download-the-latest-materials-for-your-campus/): Download this in-depth 20 page informational magazine by clicking on the image above or by clicking here. In this special publication, you will get to read articles, hear from educators, professionals, survivors, & students from throughout North America. To have the packet mailed to you, call us toll-free at (800) 329-9390. Download PR & Marketing
- [Student of Impact](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-of-impact/): Throughout the school year, selected students will be featured here at The Date Safe Project, Inc. as the "Student of Impact." Students are nominated by their peers, educators, professionals, and can nominate themselves. The "Student of Impact" represents some and/or all of the below criteria: Has had success running and/or coordinating an educational campaign at
- ["How To" for Students](https://www.centerforrespect.com/how-to-for-students/): Have you ever thought to yourself, "That sounds good and all, but exactly how am I suppose to pull that off?" Now you have a source for "How To" advice, tips, and information when it comes to: Dating & Relationships (including "Hook up" situations) Intimacy Ending Sexual Violence (sexual assault and rape) Bystander Intervention (stopping
- [Student Advisory Board](https://www.centerforrespect.com/student-advisory-board/): Imagine being on a team with students from around the country sharing their insights and feedback regarding decisions The Date Safe Project, Inc. makes throughout the year. As a Date Safe Project (DSP) Student Advisory Board member, you are a part of the strategic thinking for what content, educational resources, services, and products The Date
- [Tip for You](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tip-for-you/): One of the greatest ways you can help others is by continually working on making yourself the best person you can be. For this reason, each week you will find a new "Tip for You" on this page - from The Date Safe Project, Inc. and our many friends from around the world who are
- [Gotta Know](https://www.centerforrespect.com/gotta-know/): Have you ever thought to yourself, “That sounds good and all, but exactly how am I suppose to pull that off?“ Now you have a source for “How To” advice, tips, and information when it comes to: Dating & Relationships (including “Hook up” situations) Intimacy Ending Sexual Violence (sexual assault and rape) Bystander Intervention (stopping
- [Film, TV, & Music Reviews with a Twist](https://www.centerforrespect.com/film-tv-music-reviews-with-a-twist/): Every week, new films and songs are released around the globe. Throughout the year, TV shows are launched. 24 hours, 7 days a week, you can turn to "Breaking News" on one of the many "news dedicated" cable channels. With all of these mediums constantly changing, how can you stay up-to-date or know how to
- [More with "Train the Trainers"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/more-than-ever-before-ciky-cs/): More for You. Please click on the following links for more info on the "Can I Kiss You?:" About Watch the Video "Train the Trainer" Reviews from Students College Tour Schedule Huge Attendance Continuing Impact Reserve a Date Downloads When you bring Mike Domitrz and the "Can I Kiss You?" program to your college or
- [Campuses are CHEERING and so are their students!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/campuses-are-cheering/): Is your campus looking for an educational program that is both Entertaining and Life Changing - while also providing your students needed SKILLS for addressing: Consent, Bystander Intervention and Supporting Survivors of Sexual Assault Do you want an expert and author who is going to have your students rolling in the aisles from laughter and
- [Resources](https://www.centerforrespect.com/resouces/): NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nation's largest anti-sexual assault organization. RAINN operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1.800.656.HOPE. RAINN carries out programs to prevent sexual assault, help victims and ensure that rapists are brought to justice. RAINN uses its extensive entertainment industry and community-based connections to educate more
- [The College of New Jersey speaks out](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-college-of-new-jersey-speaks-out/): Just finished speaking at The College of New Jersey (TCNJ) and they packed the house for both presentations. Over 1300 students heard today's sessions and 930 sign-up via their cell phones for our BONUS TIPS. From stage, I provide the students a number to text. When they text the number and follow our instructions (take
- [Continuing the Impact LONG After the Program](https://www.centerforrespect.com/continuing-the-impact-long-after-the-program-2/): On this page, you will DISCOVER: Do You Ask? Educational Poster Series Critically-Acclaimed Books Pledge for Action POSTERS After you bring an educational program to your installation, do you wish you had more opportunities to continue the lessons learned in the expert's presentation? Now you can! The "Do You Ask?" poster series is the most
- [](https://www.centerforrespect.com/205-2/): Looking for programs & presentations that are BOTH Entertaining and Educational?
- [](https://www.centerforrespect.com/206-2/): Posters addressing boundaries, respect, bystander intervention, dating violence & consent.
- [](https://www.centerforrespect.com/208-2/): Protect your teenager with realistic solutions for addressing dating, hooking up, and parties.
- [](https://www.centerforrespect.com/209-2/): Engaging curriculum, classroom exercises, and a moving school assembly for creating change.
- [](https://www.centerforrespect.com/210-2/): Find helpful resources and be inspired by sexual assault survivors. If you want, share your own story.
- [](https://www.centerforrespect.com/212-2/): Get the most interactive materials and programs for engaging men and women serving our country.
- [](https://www.centerforrespect.com/213-2/): Date Safe Project TV where we discuss hot topics. Please suggest your hot topics.
- [](https://www.centerforrespect.com/222-2/): Dive into fun talks with other students on intimacy, relationships, and decision-making.
- [Soldiers Speak Out](https://www.centerforrespect.com/soldiers-speak-out/): As Mike Domitrz spoke at Schriever Air Force Base, Airman applauded his approach to providing them with real solutions they can immediately apply in their own lives. Best of all, the men and women loved the fun and hard-hitting approach to this talk.
- [Father's Day Challenge](https://www.centerforrespect.com/fathers-day-challenge/): On Father's Day weekend, this challenge goes out to all Dads. See how you do with the challenge in the video below and report back to us by leaving your ideas and comments in the "Leave a Reply" box below. This challenge will give Dads a thought-provoking look at Fatherhood on the weekend specially recognizing
- [High school students take action on intimacy & sexual assault!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/high-school-students-take-action-on-intimacy-sexual-assault/): Too often, the media and entertainment industry (TV news shows, gossip magazines, & online new sources) focuses so much attention on negative and/or dangerous choices male and female teenagers engage in - that they miss a lot of the positive choices high school students make concerning intimacy, dating, sexual activity, and supporting sexual assault survivors
- [Support Women - Take Action on VAWA funding](https://www.centerforrespect.com/support-women-take-action-on-vawa-funding/): --While this posting originated as an e-mail from the Wisconsin Coalition Against Sexual Assault, it applies to EVERYONE!! Read the entire posting please. You'll see what you can do right now (Today): Today, the U.S. House of Representatives will begin consideration, with votes throughout the week, of funding for VAWA (Violence Against Women Act) programs
- [Teach consent to family, friends, and colleagues](https://www.centerforrespect.com/todays-challenge-of-the-day/): Learn how to teach everyone around you about consent through casual conversation at work, at home with your family, at sporting events, and hanging out with friends. The Date Safe Project and Mike Domitrz reveal this simple tip for engaging people in a fun learning moment. Find out how your colleagues, employers, friends, sons, daughters,
- [Monday, June 15th Challenge of the Day](https://www.centerforrespect.com/challenge-of-the-day/): The Date Safe Project's Challenge for the Day today is to tell us WHO is YOUR "Person of the Week" - find at least one person in your life who has positively influenced you on relationships, intimacy, equality, and in honoring sexual assault survivors. Then, thank the person. Look him or her right in the
- [Person of the WEEK](https://www.centerforrespect.com/person-of-the-week/): The Date Safe Project's first PERSON of the WEEK is Cheri, a strong and courageous sexual assault survivor who inspired me to begin speaking out against sexual assault / rape and would go on to inspire the founding of The Date Safe Project, Inc. at http://www.DateSafeProject.org and now The Date Safe Foundation (the new non-profit
- [Welcome to 2009 Blog](https://www.centerforrespect.com/welcome-to-2009-blog/): Welcome to our 2009 Blog. As you can see, we have included posts from our previous blogs from 2007 - 2008 before we took a break to remodel our online community which is now launching in the summer of 2009. The Date Safe Project blog is a CONVERSATION and so please engage and SHARE with
- [Summer Dating & Your Teens](https://www.centerforrespect.com/summer-dating-your-teens/): Parents, are you ready for the Summer Days of Dating when your teenager has soo much free time? Here are 4 quick tips: 1) While you may have a great trusting relationship with your teens, still create safety measures for your house (parental settings on cable boxes; have a lock on liquor cabinets; etc...). While
- [Military Installations and SARC are CHEERING](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military-installations-and-sarc-are-cheering/): Is your installation looking for an educational program that is both Entertaining and Life Changing - while also providing your males and females needed SKILLS for addressing: Consent, Bystander Intervention, and Supporting Survivors of Sexual Assault. Do you want an expert and author who is going to have your military members rolling in the aisles
- [Mike talking to parents](https://www.centerforrespect.com/testing-video/): Check out this video:
- [Tweens are dating while some parents and educators are often sleeping.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tween-are-dating-while-some-parents-and-educators-are-often-sleeping/): Many parents and educators make the mistake of thinking education on dating starts when a child turns 13 years of age. The reality is many males and females are engaging in sexual conversations and acts during their tween years (some even younger). What’s a tween? Typically people consider children 11 and 12 years old to
- [Kids online activities and Parent Monitoring](https://www.centerforrespect.com/kids-online-activities-and-parent-monitoring/): How many hours a month do you think pre-teens and teenagers are online? On average, most kids are spending 20 hours online. Most kids between the ages of 13 – 17 believe their parents have no clue as to what their activities are online. imagine the freedom college brings 1st year students and their online
- [Tea Party With Moms and Sexually Active Teen Daughters](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tea-party-with-moms-and-sexually-active-teen-daughters/): Parents involved in their children’s lives encourage kids to walk the right path. Creating a bond with your child and understanding their world opens lines of communication. Once those lines are open, it’s easier for your kids to feel they can approach you about the challenges and questions most teenagers will never talk to their
- [Sexual Assault Awareness Signs Being Torn Down at Princeton](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-awareness-signs-being-torn-down-at-princeton/): SpeakOut is a simple posting found in bathroom stalls all over Princeton’s campus. SpeakOut is thought provoking and raises awareness about sexual harassment and assault. Unfortunately, their signs are disappearing. Why? The people who make up the SpeakOut group believe it is a form a protest. The SpeakOut group was formed because it was recognized
- [Sexual Predators only need 15 seconds with your child / teenage son or daugther.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-predators-only-need-15-seconds-with-your-child-teenage-son-or-daugther/): How many seconds does it take for a police officer posing as a minor to be approached by a sexual predator? 15 seconds. It only takes 35 – 45 seconds before a predator turns on his web cam and begins performing sexual acts for the camera. Sexual predators are crafty and have a sixth sense.
- [Glamorizing Porn at Yale](https://www.centerforrespect.com/glamorizing-porn-at-yale/): "Sex week" is taking place at Yale. If you know of my work, you know how strongly I believe in colleges and universities addressing healthy sexuality. This particular "Sex Week" is not the kind of "healthy sexuality" we believe in promoting. Next Saturday, as part of the student-run program "Sex Week" at Yale, pornographer Steve
- ["Not One More Child" Campaign Against Sexual Predators](https://www.centerforrespect.com/not-one-more-child-campaign-against-sexual-predators/): 2 activist groups; Surviving Parents Coalition (SPC) & National Association to Protect Children (PROTECT) joined forces to launch their "Not One More Child Campaign." Click here to read details. Did you know there are thousands of sexual predators roaming the street of America - freely and without care? Did you know that law enforcement has
- [Girl Scouts, Cookies, Violence, and Empowerment](https://www.centerforrespect.com/girl-scouts-cookies-violence-and-empowerment/): When people think of the Girl Scouts, most get the image of a pig tailed little girl hawking yummy confections that only come out once a year. That's when most of America seems to take notice of the Girl Scouts. The Girl Scouts is an organization whose main goal is empowering young females. Nothing proved
- [Connecticut Students let silence speak out against violence](https://www.centerforrespect.com/connecticutt-students-let-silence-speak-out-against-violence/): Sometimes silence is stronger than words. Students in Stamford, Connecticut participated in National Teen Violence Awareness week by holding signs stating, "Love is NOT abuse" and "Love is NOT a shove." The silent protests were heard around the nation. With Connecticut ranked number two in the nation for domestic violence, the teens in Connecticut are
- [How Did YOUR State Rank during National Teen Violence Awareness Week?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/how-did-your-state-rank-during-national-teen-violence-awareness-week/): The results are already in. Out of 50 States, only 3 received an "A" grade when it came to National Teen Violence Awareness week! Congrats to California, Oklahoma and New Hampshire. What about the other 47 states? Why is our country still sweeping this major societal crime under the carpet? Why do parents and school
- [Parents, Cyber Bulling Among Teens is Growing IN HOMES!!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parents-cyber-bulling-among-teens-is-growing-in-homes/): Do you know one of the fastest growing forms of teen violence is? Cyber Bullying. Bullies have moved from the hallways of schools directly into our childs' lives at home. While most people assume Cyber Bullying occurs only in social networking forums such as MySpace.com, the reality is bullying is taking place through chat rooms
- [Online Child Abusers Are In Homes Everywhere, Parents.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/online-child-abusers-are-in-homes-everywhere-parents/): The Internet brings a wide array of how children can be victimized. Abusers can instantly get what they want: child pornography, sexually explicit chats, and the opportunity to coerce a child into a meeting. These abusers come right into your home and make contact with your children. The group most victimized by this behavior is
- [Parent need to talk with teenagers about teen dating violence and abuse.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parent-need-to-talk-with-teenagers-about-teen-dating-violence-and-abuse/): Do you realize how common teen dating violence is? Look at these stats below: One in three female teens in a dating relationship report having feared for their safety. About 30% of teens in a dating relationship have been text-messaged 10, 20 or 30 times an hour by a partner finding out where they are.
- [Teenagers in North Texas Address Teen Dating Violence](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teenagers-in-north-texas-address-teen-dating-violence/): As we find ourselves right in the middle of National Teen Dating Violence Awareness Week, I am encouraged to see teens and schools around the country participating in making a difference. What we fail to realize is dating violence is often learned in schools from peers. Educating our teens about healthy relationships and raising awareness
- [Wichita Teen Speaks Out Against Dating Violence](https://www.centerforrespect.com/wichita-teen-speaks-out-against-dating-violence/): With this week being dedicated nationally to addressing Teen Dating Violence, we are working hard to provide you insightful tips, stories, and inspirations throughout this week. Today's focus? How do teens recover from violence? What outlets can we give them to express themselves? Brian Latta, a Digital Productions teacher at Northwest High School in Wichita,
- [Parents need to take notice of signs for dating violence and abuse of teenagers](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parents-need-to-take-notice-of-signs-for-dating-violence-and-abuse-of-teenagers/): When it comes to teen violence, many families struggle to notice it, even with their own children. Some people write off inappropriate comments by thinking, "That just part of being a teenager" or "Kids will be kids." Other adults are intimidated by their own ignorance. You may not know the current language teenagers are using
- [Signs of Dating Violence or Abuse in Teen Relationships and/or Dating](https://www.centerforrespect.com/signs-of-dating-violence-or-abuse-in-teen-relationships-andor-dating/): Over the past few years, many of you do a really good job as educators and law enforcement identifying the signs of domestic abuse in children. You know what to do when you suspect it is happening; who to call; and actions to take. When it comes to teens abusing teens, the knowledge just isn’t
- [Dating Violence Among Teenagers Ignites Activism](https://www.centerforrespect.com/dating-violence-among-teenagers-ignites-activism/): Monday, February 4, 2008 marks the third annual “National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Week’. Beginning Monday, students across the country will begin campaigns bringing to light this reality among our children. Sadly, this reality has been an unnoticed problem for a long time. According to the CDC (Center for Disease Control and Prevention)
- [Sexual Harrassment, students, parents, and schools](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-harrassment-students-parents-and-schools/): I came across an article that got my attention. A school was having difficulty with outbreaks of hazing, violence, and sexual assault. To combat it, they put together a taskforce of teachers & administration, parents and students. Making students a part of the process to make their environment safer gave them ownership and insight to
- [Students, Teachers, Parents, and Administrators Tackle Sexual Harrassment](https://www.centerforrespect.com/students-teachers-parents-and-administrators-tackle-sexual-harrassment/): Monday, February 4, 2008 marks the third annual “National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Week’. Beginning Monday, students across the country will begin campaigns bringing to light this reality among our children. Sadly, this reality has been an unnoticed problem for a long time. According to the CDC (Center for Disease Control and Prevention)
- [Parents and Teens, Let’s Talk About Sex](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parents-and-teens-lets-talk-about-sex/): What is the message parents are giving their children when it comes to sex education? For the most part, is seems to be nervousness. You can read examples in the following article: Kids continually tell stories about how awkward their parents acted when giving them “the talk”. Is that the message parents should be sending;
- [Sex Ed in Schools](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sex-ed-in-schools/): Below is a link to an article on Sex Ed in schools. Please comment with your reactions: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=1622610&sc=emaf
- [Helping it RAINN for sexual assault survivors across the country.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/helping-it-rainn-for-sexual-assault-survivors-across-the-country/): If you are aware of R.A.I.N.N. (the Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network), you know the wonderful work Scott Berkewitz and his entire staff does for survivors. When sexual assault survivors e-mail us asking for resources available to them outside of their local area, R.A.I.N.N. always does a great job of supporting those individuals. How
- [Honoring Martin Luther King Jr., His Legacy, & Respect](https://www.centerforrespect.com/honoring-martin-luther-king-jr-his-legacy-respect/): Martin Luther King Jr. once said, "A genuine leader is not a searcher for consensus but a molder of consensus." On this day set aside to remember and honor the positive impact he had on our world, may we all work to mold a new consensus of respect of all people, males and females. May
- [CALCASA, Violence Against Women, Sexual Assault, and the Department of Justice: a great day in Washington, D.C.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/calcasa-violence-against-women-sexual-assault-and-the-department-of-justice-a-great-day-in-washington-dc/): Today, I presented at CALCASA's Campus Training and Technical Assistance Institute in Washington, D.C.. Being asked to speak at this specific conference was a great honor. The conference started two days ago on Tuesday and was finishing up today (Thursday). The attendees were all recipients of the Violence Against Women Grant. The morning started with
- [Strength of a Sexual Assault Survivor](https://www.centerforrespect.com/strength-of-a-sexual-assault-survivor/): After we received an amazingly powerful letter from a survivor who had recently read the book Voices of Courage, Karen D. Carroll (one of the survivors in the book and the Associate Director at Bronx SART) shared the following comment with us: "I am frequently asked about how I got through my ordeal. I spent
- [YouTube video hits home on Sexual Assault Awareness and College Students](https://www.centerforrespect.com/youtube-video-hits-home-on-sexual-assault-awareness-and-college-students/): Claire Kaplan, the Director of Sexual & Domestic Violence Services at the University of Virginia, shared a very powerful YouTube video earlier today. Ask yourself how you can utilize this video on your campus, with your peer educators, with students, with parents. Who could you get to work with you on spreading this video (your
- [Parents, Give Your Teenager Freedom from YOU](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parents-give-your-teenager-freedom-from-you/): After coaching my son's basketball game today, he wanted to ride home with my wife. We had drove separately to the game and he was not in a good mood after this big loss. My wife and I decided to have him drive home with me so that he and I could talk. Plus, if
- [A new semester of school brings fresh challenges for educators (mentally, emotionally, and physically).](https://www.centerforrespect.com/a-new-semester-of-school-brings-fresh-challenges-for-educators-mentally-emotionally-and-physically/): Teachers, professors, educators, advisors, student leaders, and activists have shared throughout the years how busy this time of the year is for everyone. For middle schools and high schools, the first semester is wrapping up. For colleges and universities, a new semester is about to begin. Not surprisingly, do you notice how many people get
- [Saying "No" to Teenage Resolutions for 2008!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/saying-no-to-teenage-resolutions-for-2008/): Happy New Year, parents! Welcome to 2008. One of the silliest notions this time of the year is to make a New Year Resolution! Why? Shouldn't you be working to improve yourself on a daily basis? Instead of getting you or your teenager to make a resolution for the year, ask your child, "Why do
- [National Treasure:  the movie, your teenagers, and you being a parent.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/national-treasure-the-movie-your-teenagers-and-you-being-a-parent/): Last night, I went to the movie National Treasure: Book of Secrets with my kids. The film was based on finding a book of secrets each President passes to the next President. The book is filled with answers to all our country's greatest mysteries. Isn't this concept every parent's dream? Picture yourself receiving the Book
- [Jamie Lynn Spears Pregnancy, Statutory Rape, and Parents](https://www.centerforrespect.com/jamie-lynn-spears-pregnancy-statutory-rape-and-parents/): The Jamie Lynn Spears' official announcement she is pregnant is bringing up conversations about the legal age of consent for sexual activity. From the Genarlow Wilson case in Georgia earlier this year to now the pregnancy of 16 year old Jamie Lynn Spears, our country needs to take a sincere look at consent and society's
- [Jamie Lynn Spears, Pregnancy, Statutory Rape, and the How Schools Need to Talk with Students](https://www.centerforrespect.com/jamie-lynn-spears-pregnancy-statutory-rape-and-the-how-schools-need-to-talk-with-students/): Jamie Lynn Spears' official announcement she is pregnant is bringing up conversations about the legal age of consent for sexual activity. From the Genarlow Wilson case in Georgia earlier this year to now the pregnancy of 16 year old Jamie Lynn Spears (the star of Nickelodeon's "Zoey 101" and sister of Britney Spears), our country
- [Michael Vick and the Hypocrisy](https://www.centerforrespect.com/michael-vick-and-the-hypocrisy/): Michael Vick, former quarterback for the Atlanta Falcons of the National Football League (NFL), should be condemned for the horrific actions he and others took against dogs. His behavior and actions were atrocious. The media jumped all over this case and the country rightfully so came to the defense of the dogs (many of which
- [Labor Day was anything but WORK](https://www.centerforrespect.com/labor-day-was-anything-but-work/): As I said last night, I love what I do and today was another fun day on the road. Starting at Union College, I got to see Matt Milless who is a member of my Advisory Council for The Date Safe Project. Matt always comes out to my program and shows great support. Kari made
- [Labor Day - Putting it to Work](https://www.centerforrespect.com/labor-day-putting-it-to-work/): As Labor Day officially began at 12 midnight, I found myself working on my computer in a hotel room in Albany, NY. I chose to celebrate Labor Day by working. Have you ever heard someone say, "Oh, you HAVE to work today?" like working is a bummer? I enjoy my work. In fact, I look
- [Going Home!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/going-home/): Today was a special day - the day I return to my hometown and my college alma mater, the Univesity of Wisconsin at Whitewater. The first presentation to over 800 incoming students included some special guests: my sister, her son, her daughter, my 2 oldest sons, my wife, my Dad, my brother-in-law, and Beth (our
- [St. Lawrence Men Stand Out](https://www.centerforrespect.com/st-lawrence-men-stand-out/): What a drive. From Albany to Canton, NY, you experience a beautiful journey through the Adirondack Mountains (including going through Lake Placid, NY). The mountains went forever with sporadic points of special beauty, including lakes in the middle of the range. Gorgeous. At the end of the 4 hour drive, I arrived in Canton to
- [SUNY - Albany comes out on their own](https://www.centerforrespect.com/suny-albany-comes-out-on-their-own/): Typically, this time of the year (Welcome Week, Orientation, etc...), most of the students coming to my program are mandated to attend. Clearly, mandating draws great audiences and works very well. Not all schools are able to mandate. SUNY - Albany did not mandate and still drew an incredible audience last night. On only their
- [Brandeis University Asks First](https://www.centerforrespect.com/brandeis-university-asks-first/): Tonight, my program was at Brandeis University. As I travel to various campuses, I get to meet student leaders from all walks of life. Rarely have I met so many students who were proud of their university and excited to be part of a special process for the incoming students. This team of leaders who
- [Whale of a Time in Boston](https://www.centerforrespect.com/whale-of-a-time-in-boston/): Yesterday, I finished speaking at Neumann College in Philadelphia mid-afternoon and was able to catch an early evening flight to Boston for tonight's speech at Brandeis University. The result was me having most of the day open today in Boston. My dear friend, Karen Brady, came to visit me from Providence. Karen has been a
- [Neumann Works Together](https://www.centerforrespect.com/neumann-works-together/): As I arrived at Neumann College, all the incoming students were listening to the Dean of Student Life. After he spoke, Sister Marguerite spoke next and talked to the students about self-respect and making good choices (being good people). Next was my turn. The students were a great group! Afterward, the President came up to
- [John Carroll Speaks Out](https://www.centerforrespect.com/john-carroll-speaks-out/): Today, I was speaking to all the incoming students at John Carroll University (OH). After speaking, I normally start receiving e-mails from students a few hours later. Today, the John Carroll students were e-mailing and sharing their thoughts and comments within one hour of my program ending. A few of the new students were already
- [10 Campuses in 8 days - The FUN has begun](https://www.centerforrespect.com/10-campuses-in-8-days-the-fun-has-begun/): Right now, I am in the beginning stages of my longest, consecutive run of schools for this Fall. The non-stop travel and speaking to students from all over the country is lots of fun. Of course, I miss my 4 boys and wife. Thursday was the start with Marywood University in Scranton, PA. A.J. picked
- [Are you STILL listening?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/are-you-still-listening/): When someone says something that you vehemently disagree with, at what point do you stop listening? Our "Talk Show" society has a track record of "cutting off" people in mid sentence. The person is not even close to finishing an explanation of an approach and the "host" interupts. What kind of a "host" is your
- [The Mules Kick It Up!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-mules-kick-it-up/): The time is 6:45pm. Sitting in the basement dressing room, you can hear the students packing Hendricks Hall Auditorium. The sound of their voices is getting louder and louder as the time passes. You can hear the excitement above. You walk up the stairs to the stage and now you can feel the energy. You've
- [University of Dayton Shows Up Big](https://www.centerforrespect.com/university-of-dayton-shows-up-big/): Yesterday afternoon, I spoke at the University of Dayton. Each year, they bring me to speak to their incoming students. This year was special because it was my 4th year in a row on their campus. The 4 consecutive years is cool because you know that almost every student on that campus has had the
- [Slowing down](https://www.centerforrespect.com/slowing-down/): Last night as I drove through the Appalacian Moutains, I was taken aback by the beauty, the serenity, the green of the hillsides, and the roll of the individual mountain. After landing in Dayton, OH this morning, I was driving into the city and noticed a wonderous water fountain to the left of the expressway.
- [Lees-McRae College Kicks off 2007-2008](https://www.centerforrespect.com/lees-mcrae-college-kicks-off-2007-2008/): The official start to my 2007-2008 school year kicked off tonight in Banner Elk, NC at Lees-McRae College. The day started by conducting a "Train the Trainers" session for the student Peer Educators, SART (Sexual Assault Response Team), and the Counseling Center. Everyone in attendance showed great passion for wanting to create a positive cultural
- [A new school year begins - so does this blog!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/a-new-school-year-begins-so-does-this-blog/): We are back from summer break and a new school year has begun. Tomorrow, I speak at Lee McRae University and then at the University of Dayton on Sunday. After that, I speak in 11 cities in 11 days. This time of the year is energizing. Students are starting a new chapter in their life.
- [South Africa - Wow!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/south-africa-wow/): One week ago, I returned from a trip to South Africa which included speaking at a primary school to the 6th and 7th graders. The experience was both emotionally moving and encouraging. As soon as I returned, people were asking me, "So was it difficult giving your speech, especially knowing the cultural differences between you
- [Youth Leadership Conference Begs the Question](https://www.centerforrespect.com/youth-leadership-conference-begs-the-question/): Earlier today, I spoke at NSA's (National Speaker's Association) Youth Leadership Conference. The attendees are 130 students ranging in age from ten year olds through sixteen year olds from around the world. The conference chair is a good friend of mine and fellow speaker, Sunjay Nath (www.sunjaynath.com). When he asked me to present, I was
- ["Equal Choices" is a powerful slogan](https://www.centerforrespect.com/equal-choices-is-a-powerful-slogan/): Earlier today, I was speaking at a Wellness Conference for educators and counselors. The audience asked me questions about healthy dating, dating violence, and relationships pertaining to teenage students. If you work with teenagers today, you know many of them shut down the moment you say, "Dating Violence" because they feel the term is overused
- [Long Distance Relationships](https://www.centerforrespect.com/long-distance-relationships/): Each summer, Kansas State University brings me to speak to their Wildcat Warm-up students in June. Wildcat Warm-up is a special weekend for incoming students who want a chance to get acquainted with the campus and college life. This year, they had big numbers in attendance. The students were full of energy. After my presentation,
- [Take Friday to HONOR this past Monday's victims, survivors, family, and friends](https://www.centerforrespect.com/take-friday-to-honor-this-past-mondays-victims-survivors-family-and-friends/): Being that I work on college campuses across the country, we have seen the effect Monday's tragedy has had throughout our nation. Here is a very simple way to HONOR those whose lives were greatly changed by Monday's shootings. ==================================The following paragraph was provided by the University of Kentucky's Women's Place================================== Spread the word -
- [We Must Take Notice](https://www.centerforrespect.com/we-must-take-notice/): Monday's shootings once again started with violence against women. We must start to engage our media and news outlets in this horrific pattern that is occurring throughout our country. The Amish School shootings targed females. The Bailey, Colorado school shootings targed females (include sexual molestation). Monday's shootings began by the man killing two females in
- [Thoughts and Prayers go out to Virginia Tech](https://www.centerforrespect.com/thoughts-and-prayers-go-out-to-virginia-tech/): As our nation is learning about the horrific tragedy at Virginia Tech earlier today, our thoughts and prayers go out to the students, the staff, faculty, employees, and the entire community. To the family and friends of the deceased and the injured, we pray for and with you. You will continue to be in our
- [Speaking on Air Force Base is an Honor and a Rush!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/speaking-on-air-force-base-is-an-honor-and-a-rush/): This past Monday, I spoke to many of the men and women at Offutt Air Force Base in Nebraska. From the leaders of the base to the newest of the enlisted, everyone was wonderful to work with. Often non-military people will ask me the following two questions about speaking to the military, "Who brings you
- [New DVD and book combintation for parents of preteens and teenagers on addressing healthy dating, intimacy, respect, sex, and safety -- "Help! My Teen is Dating.  Real Solutions to Tough Conversations."](https://www.centerforrespect.com/new-dvd-and-book-combintation-for-parents-of-preteens-and-teenagers-on-addressing-healthy-dating-intimacy-respect-sex-and-safety-help-my-teen-is-dating-real-solutions-to-tough-conversation/): Prom season is about to be in full swing across the country. Having your teenager dating can be a scary at any time of the year, but especially true with the expectations and horror stories we've all heard about Prom. How do parents properly prepare their teenagers for the dangers of dating in today’s sexual
- [New Book with Mike Domitrz is NOW AVAILABLE.  "Lessons from the Road" with the Forward by Olympic Skating Champion Scott Hamilton and 2 chapters written by Mike Domitrz.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/new-book-with-mike-domitrz-is-now-available-lessons-from-the-road-with-the-forward-by-olympic-skating-champion-scott-hamilton-and-2-chapters-written-by-mike-domitrz/): Lessons from the Road: Inspirational Insights by Leading Speakers in Education is 280 pages of inspiration written by the country's top speakers and authors dedicated to youth, higher education, and service to humanity. The “Chicken for the Soup” format has the the book divided up into a diversity of insights covering the following landscape of
- [Distractor unites classmates!! Through accountability, change takes place.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/distractor-unites-classmates-through-accountability-change-takes-place/): Recently while speaking to Juniors and Seniors at a high school, we had a group of males who were being disruptive. Each time it occurred during my program, I stopped and personally addressed the individual being rude. I've always believed, "You can't tell students to stand up against 'wrongful' actions of others (such as teaching
- [Do you really want my opinion?  Do you take it in or simply let it be said?](https://www.centerforrespect.com/do-you-really-want-my-opinion-do-you-take-it-in-or-simply-let-it-be-said/): When someone provides you feedback, how do you absorb their words? Do you open your mind with a positive energy of "How can I make that work?" or do you respond with "I like your ideas, BUT . . ." and immediately share why you cannot or will not utilize their idea(s)? Recently, I was
- [Update on John Petroski, writer of "Rape Only Hurts If You Fight It"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/update-on-john-petroski-writer-of-rape-only-hurts-if-you-fight-it/): After communicating with John Petroski via e-mail over the past few days, I wish I could tell you the following happened: 1) He replied gracefully to each e-mail sent to him from the readers of this blog, especially to the survivors of sexual assault who opened up to him. 2) He e-mailed to tell us
- ["Asking First" for Delta Zeta, Residence Life, and Athletics at CSU - Long Beach](https://www.centerforrespect.com/asking-first-for-delta-zeta-residence-life-and-athletics-at-csu-long-beach/): The Delta Zeta Sorority at California State University - Long Beach (CSU - Long Beach) almost had their entire chapter in attendance for the "Can I Kiss You?" presentation (you can see them in the picture). In fact, they brought the most students from Greek Life to the program. One sorority sister shared, "By the
- [New National Teen Dating Abuse Hotline](https://www.centerforrespect.com/new-national-teen-dating-abuse-hotline/): Have you heard about the new National Teen Dating Abuse Hotline, NTDAH, (www.loveisrespect.org) announced by The National Domestic Violence Hotline and Liz Claiborne Inc.? According to press releases, it is a "24-hour national web-based and telephone helpline created to help teens (ages 13-18) experiencing dating abuse during a press conference at the National Press Club
- [R.A.D. program at Northern Michigan University "PLEDGES" to make a difference](https://www.centerforrespect.com/rad-program-at-northern-michigan-university-pledges-to-make-a-difference/): Over the past few months, we have noticed several "Sign-ups" for the "Pledge to Protect" coming from e-mail addresses at Northern Michigan University (you can join the pledge online at www.pledge2protect.org). Today, our offices received a powerful letter from Shelby Mitchell, a R.A.D. Instructor (Rape Aggreession Defense Program) at Northern Michigan University. She shared how
- [Want proof?  UC-Irvine Did](https://www.centerforrespect.com/want-proof-uc-irvine-did/): How do you keep a record of educational events on campus? Last night at the University of California - Irvine, the students, staff, and administration came together to address sexual assault awareness. Through combined efforts of various organizations, they drew a Standing-Room Only turnout for the "Can I Kiss You?" program. Students attended from athletics,
- [Loyola Marymount Stands Up for "Asking First"](https://www.centerforrespect.com/loyola-marymount-stands-up-for-asking-first/): Frequently, schools promote the "Can I Kiss You?" presentation by having Kissing Booths on their campus the days before the program. These "Kissing" Booths do not involve anyone receiving a kiss through physical contact. Instead, the people in the booth hand out Hershey KISSES to students who approach them. The kisses will often have a
- ["Freedom Writers" Shows the Drive](https://www.centerforrespect.com/freedom-writers-shows-the-drive/): After recently writing a post about "Passion vs. Drive", the movie Freedom Writers shows us a great example of the difference. While many characters in this movie had passion, one person had the drive to push standards to a higher level. Even more special is the truth component. The movie is based on an actual
- [ChangeMakers inspiring worldwide CHANGE!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/changemakers-inspiring-worldwide-change/): From the 1/24/07 Times Union (Albany, NY) . The direct link to the competition is: http://www.changemakers.net/en-us/competition/endabuse An unprecedented competition is under way to find innovative solutions to domestic violence that plagues families and communities in this country and globally. "No Private Matter! Ending Abuse in Intimate and Family Relations" is sponsored by the Robert Wood
- [Hood College Draws in Local Flavor](https://www.centerforrespect.com/hood-college-draws-in-local-flavor/): This past Tuesday night at Hood College in Frederick, Maryland, the campus did a fantastic job of getting local educators and professionals to come out for the "Can I Kiss You?" presentation. After the program, a person from the Baltimore County Schools (1 hour away) introduced herself and then an educator from the local school
- [Sexual Assault Survivors and Blogs](https://www.centerforrespect.com/sexual-assault-survivors-and-blogs/): Blogs are becoming a wonderful forum for survivors of sexual assault to share with each other and the world. Consequently, we have decided to create a list of blogs supporting and/or run by survivors. You can see the list on the left side of this blog. We hope you find this list both helpful, supportive,

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- [Home](https://www.centerforrespect.com/): Mike Domitrz teaches consent, boundaries, healthy relationships, bystander intervention, and respect in schools, universities and for the US Military.
- [Colleges & Universities](https://www.centerforrespect.com/universities/): Create a culture of consent before its too late. Welcome to the keynote speaker for helping campuses reduce sexual assault, increase bystander intervention, support survivors, and build mutually amazing relationships (consent) led by author and Hall of Fame Speaker, Mike Domitrz. Get a program with a proven track record of excellence spanning 3 decades: Over
- [Mike Domitrz & the “Can I Kiss You?” Program for Students](https://www.centerforrespect.com/universities/keynote-speaking/): “Can I Kiss You?” is one of the most inclusive and sought-after programs for providing specific how-to skills for teaching consent, respect in relationships, bystander intervention, and addressing sexual assault. Each year, the program is delivered to tens of thousands of students on campuses all over North America. Play Video Students describe this keynote as:
- ["SAFER Choices" Assembly with Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12/general-assembly-speaker/): “SAFER Choices” is one of the most inclusive and sought-after school assemblies for creating a safe, age appropriate look at consent, respect in relationships, boundaries, bystander intervention, and working to reduce sexual assault. For 2 decades, the program has been brought in by schools throughout North America (public, private, faith-based, boarding, urban, rural, etc...). Have
- [Thank you for reaching out](https://www.centerforrespect.com/thank-you-for-reaching-out/): Thank you for reaching out on our website. If you would like immediate resources about bringing Mike Domitrz to speak, here are helpful pages on our website which include several pdf files you can download: Middle Schools & High Schools: https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12/inquiry/ Universities: https://www.centerforrespect.com/universities/inquiry/ Military: https://www.centerforrespect.com/military/inquiry/ Businesses, Associations, & Organizations: https://www.mikedomitrz.com/ We look forward to connecting soon! If you’d
- [Train the Trainer](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military/train-the-trainer/): Lead from Within or Fail. Become Champions of Respect This training complies with current DoW guidelines and applicable Executive Orders. The KEYS TO ENGAGEMENT “Education thru Engagement” Full-Day(s) The KEYS TO ENGAGEMENT “The KEYS TO ENGAGEMENT” IMPORTANT: You can have author, subject matter expert, and Hall of Fame Speaker (CPAE), Mike Domitrz, present this program online
- [Welcome to the “Can I Kiss You?” Briefing](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military/can-i-kiss-you-briefing/): Shift the paradigm for your troops … from a “Don’t” Perspective to a “How To” – the Respectful way! PLAY VIDEO This briefing complies with current DoW guidelines and applicable Executive Orders. Here’s how to build a culture of respect: "Can I Kiss You?" briefing lead by Mike Domitrz, CSP, CPAE. IMPORTANT: You can have
- [The "RESPECT" Assembly with Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12/respect-assembly-with-mike-domitrz/): The“RESPECT” Assembly is one of the most inclusive, skills-based school assemblies for creating a culture of respect for every person throughout the school. The program has been brought in by schools throughout North America (public, private, faith-based, boarding, urban, rural, etc...). Play Video Have author and Hall of Fame Speaker (CPAE), Mike Domitrz, share with
- [Leadership Training with Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military/leadership-training/): The MISSION is TRANSFORMATION Repeatedly sharing statistics concerning rape with our military members and telling them “What Not To Do” results in them quickly having Training Fatigue (add-in PowerPoint and the fatigue rises to levels of complete disengagement). This training complies with current DoW guidelines and applicable Executive Orders. Here’s how to build a culture
- [Middle Schools & High Schools](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12/): Create a culture of respect before it's too late. Welcome to the school assembly for reducing sexual assault, increasing bystander intervention, supporting survivors, and teaching healthy relationships (including boundaries and consent) led by author and Hall of Fame Speaker, Mike Domitrz. Get a program with a proven track record of excellence spanning 3 decades: Over
- [Let's Talk Student Assembly](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12/lets-talk/): Let's Talk Student Assembly for middle schools and high schools wanting to equip and empower their students in today's sexualized world
- [Parents are raving!](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12/parents/): "Outstanding & needs to be heard by every American!" Eleanor, Parent (D.C.) Here’s how to build a culture of respect: "SAFER Choices for My Child in a Sexualized World" This interactive seminar lead by author, subject matter expert, and Hall of Fame Speaker (CPAE), Mike Domitrz, is changing the way parents and their children are
- [Mike Domitrz, CSP, CPAE](https://www.centerforrespect.com/universities/about-mike/): Decades before sexual assault cases were on the cover of every major media publication, Mike Domitrz was being brought in by leading educational institutions and the U.S. military to help them pursue a new standard of consent and respect. With Mike being the author of 3 books and an award-winning DVD, you get a leading
- [Mike Domitrz, CSP, CPAE](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military/about-mike/): Over a decade before sexual assault and sexual harassment cases were on the cover of every major media publication, Mike Domitrz was being brought in by leading educational institutions and the U.S. military to help them pursue a new standard of consent and respect. With Mike being the author of 3 books and an award-winning
- [Mike Domitrz, CSP, CPAE](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12/about-mike/): Decades before sexual assault cases were on the cover of every major media publication, Mike Domitrz was being brought in by middle schools, high schools, universities and the U.S. military to help them pursue a new standard of consent and respect. With Mike being the author of 3 books and an award-winning DVD for parents,
- [About Us](https://www.centerforrespect.com/about-the-center-for-respect/): Welcome to the Center for Respect We provide interactive, high energy live virtual and live onsite keynotes, trainings and workshops for creating a culture of respect for all. Topics include overcoming negative societal influences and assumptions, consent, respect, relationships, bystander intervention, supporting survivors, and building healthy relationships . Our mission is to provide clarity and
- ["Can I Kiss You?" Program for Incoming University Students](https://www.centerforrespect.com/can-i-kiss-you-program-for-incoming-university-students/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz present the “LET’S TALK” school assembly to an entire All-Boys high school. Please remember the program can be tailored to the culture and values of your school. IMPORTANT: If you
- [Welcome to Mike's Links](https://www.centerforrespect.com/card/): Mike's Keynotes, Presentations, & Trainings Student Assemblies for Schools College Keynotes & Programs Military Trainings & Briefings Join Mike's Email Community Mike's Speaker Coaching Program Get Mike's Books, Shirts, & More Mike's Blog & Writings Join Mike on Social Media Here: Mike's YouTube Mike's Instagram Mike's Facebook Mike's LinkedIn
- [Downloads for the Military](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military/downloads-web/): DOWNLOADS for Training Sessions with Mike Domitrz When you click on the below links, the documents will automatically download to your device. Mike's Introductions Introductions for each of Mike's trainings. Planning & Setting Up A.V. & Room Layout Guidelines Helpful Checklists The TEST RUN & Timeline for Live Virtual Training Sessions Pledge for Action Download
- [Downloads for Universities](https://www.centerforrespect.com/universities/downloads-web/): DOWNLOADS for Presentations with Mike Domitrz When you click on the below links, the documents will automatically download to your device. Mike's Introductions & Pledge for Action Introductions for each of Mike's programs. Pledge for Action Marketing & Communications: BEST PRACTICES for Marketing & Promo (includes Mike's BIO) Press Releases & PSA "Can I Kiss
- [Downloads for K12](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12/downloads-web/): DOWNLOADS for Presentations with Mike Domitrz When you click on the below links, the documents will automatically download to your device. Mike's Introductions Introductions for each of Mike's presentations. FOLLOWUP MATERIALS for afterwards: Questions to Further the Conversation after the Assembly. Plus, You get a Full Set of Curriculum with the Instructor's Guide . Planning
- [Resiliency Training with CSP, CPAE, Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/resiliency-training-with-csp-cpae-mike-domitrz/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of these videos is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz present a 45-minute briefing on Resiliency. Here is the link to get the downloads of Mike’s Recommending Reading List and a sample of his Morning Affirmations.CLICK HERE to download the
- [For Principals, Deans, Student Affairs Leaders, and Title IX Coordinators](https://www.centerforrespect.com/for-principals-deans-student-affairs-leaders-and-title-ix-coordinators/): For Principals, Deans, Student Affairs Leaders, and Title IX Coordinators Who Want Their Students Protected, Prepared, And Equipped To Look Out For Themselves And Each Other… Here’s How We’re Helping Schools And Campuses Just Like Yours Finally Give Students Real-World Language And Skills To Step In Early, Speak Up Safely, And Genuinely Look Out For
- [Thank you for completing the Survey](https://www.centerforrespect.com/thank-you-for-completing-the-recent-survey/): Thank you for taking the survey to help us create the best experience for your upcoming session. Mike is looking forward to meeting you and sharing with everyone. Feel free to browse the website to learn more.
- [For Military Leaders & Sexual Assault Prevention Professionals](https://www.centerforrespect.com/for-military-leaders-sexual-assault-prevention-professionals/): For Military Leaders & Sexual Assault Prevention Professionals Who Want To Get Ahead Of The Problem - Before It Becomes An Incident... Here’s How We’re Helping Commands Just Like Yours Create A Culture Where Your People Step In Early, Speak Up Safely, And Uphold Respect Across Every Level And Rank… Without The Resistance, The Shutdown,
- [Full Presentation of Live Onsite Middle School "SAFER Choices" Assembly with Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/full-presentation-of-live-onsite-middle-school-safer-choices-assembly-with-mike-domitrz/): Access to this video is for PREVIEW purposes only. You will need the password to watch this preview. If you do not have the password and would like to see the preview of this video, reach out to us by clicking on the “Contact Us” button in the right-hand corner of our website. When you
- ["SAFER Choices" at Catholic All Girls School](https://www.centerforrespect.com/safer-choices-at-catholic-all-girls-school/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz present the “SAFER Choices” school assembly to a CATHOLIC All-Girls High School. Please remember the program can be tailored to the culture and values of your school. IMPORTANT: If you
- [Books & more from Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12-safer-choices-books-from-mike-domitrz/): Thank you for joining Mike at the recent program and for completing the survey. Below are the downloads he promised AND an invitation to join him on social media. Get the books: Get Mike’s book “Can I Kiss You? A thought-provoking look at relationships, intimacy, and sexual assault” which is filled with interactive exercises, the
- [Helpful Pdf files:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12/inquiry/): When you click on the below links, the documents will automatically be downloaded to your device. "SAFER Choices" Assembly Information: "SAFER Choices" Flier. Watch 5-Minute Preview Video (will open new window to watch). Testimonials from Administrators & More Info. STUDENT Survey Responses from "SAFER Choices" Assemblies (Over 50,000 responses). PARENT Survey Responses from Special Parent
- [Downloads for You](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12/discussion/): Below are the PDF files we discussed: When you click on the below links, the documents will automatically download to your device. "SAFER Choices" Assembly Information: "SAFER Choices" Flier. Watch 5-Minute Preview Video (will open new window to watch). Testimonials from Administrators & More Info. STUDENT Survey Responses from "SAFER Choices" Assemblies (Over 50,000 responses).
- [NSA-WI February 2026 Meeting with Guest Speaker Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/nsa-wi-february-2026-meeting-with-guest-speaker-mike-domitrz/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of these videos is allowed. You will see 3 separate sessions below with each having its own video to watch from the February 27th meeting of NSA-WI. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz share with speakers on how to be more
- [RedGen Presentation with Guest Speaker Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/redgen-presentation-with-guest-speaker-mike-domitrz/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz share with RedGen on how to teach consent, addressing nudes, and more in this 45-minute session. Toward the end of this presentation, Mike shares a link to a survey that
- [The "SAFER Choices" Assembly at All-Girls School](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-safer-choices-assembly-at-all-girls-school/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz present the “SAFER Choices” school assembly to an entire All-Girls high school. Please remember the program can be tailored to the culture and values of your school. IMPORTANT: If you
- [The "Let's Talk" High School Assembly](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-lets-talk-high-school-assembly/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz present the “LET’S TALK” school assembly to an entire high school. Please remember the program can be tailored to the culture and values of your school. IMPORTANT: If you do
- [The "Let's Talk" High School Assembly at All-Boys School](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-lets-talk-high-school-assembly-at-all-boys-school/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz present the “LET’S TALK” school assembly to an entire All-Boys high school. Please remember the program can be tailored to the culture and values of your school. IMPORTANT: If you
- [The "RESPECT" Parent Presentation](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-respect-parent-presentation/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz present the “RESPECT” Parent Program at a high school. Please remember the program can be tailored to the culture and values of your school. IMPORTANT: If you do not have
- [The "RESPECT" High School Assembly](https://www.centerforrespect.com/the-respect-high-school-assembly/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz present the “RESPECT” school assembly to an entire high school. Please remember the program can be tailored to the culture and values of your school. IMPORTANT: If you do not
- [Military Magic](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military-magic/): Create a culture of respect before it’s too late. Welcome to the briefing and expert for helping the military reduce sexual assault, increase bystander intervention, support survivors and build mutually amazing relationships (consent) led by author, subject matter expert, and Hall of Fame Speaker, Mike Domitrz. Bring training with a proven track record of making
- [Colleges & Universities Magic](https://www.centerforrespect.com/colleges-universities-magic/): Create a culture of consent before its too late. Welcome to the keynote speaker for helping campuses reduce sexual assault, increase bystander intervention, support survivors, and build mutually amazing relationships (consent) led by author and Hall of Fame Speaker, Mike Domitrz. Get a program with a proven track record of excellence spanning 3 decades: Over
- [Middle Schools & High Schools Magic](https://www.centerforrespect.com/middle-schools-high-schools-magic/): Create a culture of respect before it’s too late. Welcome to the school assembly for reducing sexual assault, increasing bystander intervention, supporting survivors, and teaching healthy relationships (including boundaries and consent) led by author and Hall of Fame Speaker, Mike Domitrz. Get a program with a proven track record of excellence spanning 3 decades: Over
- [Home Magic](https://www.centerforrespect.com/home-magic/): Create a culture of respect before it’s too late. Welcome to high energy keynotes, trainings, and programs led by author, subject matter expert, and Hall of Fame speaker, Mike Domitrz. Programs with a proven track record of making an impact for all demographics spanning 3 decades: OVER 90% of audience members commit to specific positive
- [Air Force Training on Consent led by Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/air-force-training-on-consent-led-by-mike-domitrz/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz present a 2-hour webinar for the Air Force on addressing consent. In this webinar, Mike shares 2 links: Link to UCMJ definition of consent:https://uscode.house.gov/view.xhtml?req=(title:10%20section:920%20edition:prelim) Ending SURVEY that provides you
- [Air Force Training Addressing Victim Blaming and Building Safer Spaces led by Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/air-force-training-addressing-victim-blaming-and-building-safer-spaces-led-by-mike-domitrz/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz present a 2-hour webinar for the Air Force on addressing victim blaming and building more supportive training environments for survivors. Here is the link to the video about leaving room
- [Welcome. You are invited to download the following pdf files.](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military/discussion/): Below are the PDF files we talked about earlier.​ When you click on the below links, the documents will automatically download to your device. "Can I Kiss You?" Briefing Flyer for the "Can I Kiss You?" Briefing & "Mission Is Transformation" Training. Watch 5-Minute Preview Video of Military Trainings (will open new window to play)
- [Downloads for You](https://www.centerforrespect.com/universities/discussion/): Below are the PDF files we discussed: When you click on the below links, the documents will automatically download to your device. 2-page flier on the "Can I Kiss You?" Program. Watch 5-Minute Preview Video (will open new window to watch). Post-event survey responses (from over 75,000 students). Testimonials from campuses across North America. Testimonials
- [The "SAFER Choices" High School Assembly at a Catholic HS](https://www.centerforrespect.com/catholic-safer-choices-assembly/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz present the “SAFER Choices” school assembly to an entire Catholic high school. Please remember the program can be tailored to the culture of your school. IMPORTANT: If you do not
- [Full Presentation of "SAFER Choices" High School Assembly at a Catholic High School](https://www.centerforrespect.com/catholic-hs-safer-choices/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz present the “SAFER Choices” school assembly to an entire Catholic high school. Please remember the program can be tailored to the culture of your school. IMPORTANT: If you do not
- [Full Presentation of "SAFER Choices" High School Assembly in 2024-2025 School Year](https://www.centerforrespect.com/full-presentation-of-safer-choices-hs/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you will be watching Mike Domitrz present the “SAFER Choices” school assembly to an entire high school. Please remember the program can be tailored to the culture of your school. Mike works with schools across this
- ["SAFER Choices" Assembly with Mike Domitrz with Upcoming Call](https://www.centerforrespect.com/school-assembly-upcoming-call/): “SAFER Choices” is one of the most inclusive and sought-after school assemblies for creating a safe, age appropriate look at consent, respect in relationships, boundaries, bystander intervention, and working to reduce sexual assault. For 2 decades, the program has been brought in by schools throughout North America (public, private, faith-based, boarding, urban, rural, etc…).
- [Military](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military/): Create a culture of respect before it's too late. Welcome to the briefing and expert for helping the military reduce sexual assault, increase bystander intervention, support survivors and build mutually amazing relationships (consent) led by author, subject matter expert, and Hall of Fame Speaker, Mike Domitrz. Bring training with a proven track record of making
- [Helpful Pdf Files:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/universities/inquiry/): When you click on the below links, the documents will automatically be downloaded to your device.. 2-page flier on the "Can I Kiss You?" Program. Watch 5-Minute Preview Video (will open new internet window to watch) Post-event survey responses (from over 75,000 students) Testimonials from campuses across North America. Testimonials specific to the live virtual
- [Helpful Pdf Files:](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military/inquiry/): When you click on the below links, the documents will automatically be downloaded to your device. "Can I Kiss You?" Briefing "Can I Kiss You?" Briefing & "Mission Is Transformation" Training. Watch 5-minute preview video of trainings (the webpage will open a new window for you to watch) Testimonials & Endorsements from Military. Post-Event Survey
- [Weekly Videos for Conversation Starters](https://www.centerforrespect.com/military/military-weekly-videos-for-conversation-starters/): On this page, you will find the following: Over 200 “Discussion Starter” Videos on YouTube. 5-Minute Preview Video for Bringing Mike to Speak. The “Train the Trainer” Online Course led by Mike Domitrz (pre-recorded). Sign-up for Mike’s monthly email newsletter. Each week, new videos are added to this special playlist of conversation starters. Each video
- [Weekly Videos for Conversation Starters](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12/k12-weekly-videos-for-conversation-starters/): Each week, new videos are added to this special playlist of conversation starters. Each video is 60 seconds or less. Click here to Access the Full Playlist of Conversation Starters Intimacy, consent, respect, relationships, sex, decisions, boundaries, expectations, pressures, bystander intervention, sexual assault, societal influences, porn, nudes, supporting survivors, intervening when alcohol is being used
- [Welcome to Your Couples Connection Retreat](https://www.centerforrespect.com/couples-retreat/): Welcome to the Couples Connection Retreat We provide interactive, high energy live virtual and live onsite keynotes, trainings and workshops for creating a culture of respect for all. Topics include overcoming negative societal influences and assumptions, consent, respect, relationships, bystander intervention, supporting survivors, and building healthy relationships . Our mission is to provide clarity and
- [Mike Domitrz & the “Mutually Amazing” Program for Students](https://www.centerforrespect.com/universities/mike-domitrz-the-mutually-amazing-program-for-students/): “Mutually Amazing” can be a keynote, a workshop, or an online learning program for exploring how to build mutually amazing relationships throughout one's life - both personally and professionally. Led by Mike Domitrz, each person takes a close look at the standards they've been taught by society and then creates a new standard of excellence
- [Staff and Faculty Programs](https://www.centerforrespect.com/universities/staff-and-faculty/): A Respect Revolution is occurring throughout society today. Campuses who care deeply about their people and their culture are no longer “Checking the Box” to provide the minimum training. Caring campus leaders realize you must provide engaging and effective training for EVERYONE on campus - including your employees. Here’s how to build a culture of
- [Train the Trainer lead by Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/universities/train-the-trainer/): Going All the Way with . . . Here’s how to build a culture of respect: Train the Trainer with Mike Domitrz, CSP, CPAE. In this unique Train the Trainer Workshop with author and Hall of Fame Speaker (CPAE), Mike Domitrz, the skills taught are tailored to those you have attending. Even the title of
- [Teachers' Tool](https://www.centerforrespect.com/teachers-tool/): Thank you for joining us here to continue the conversation from the book Can I Kiss You? A thought-provoking look at relationships, intimacy, and sexual assault written by Mike Domitrz. As you scroll below, you will find the bonus sections for each chapter specifically written for Parents. **If you can across the page accidentally, this is a
- [Strictly Students](https://www.centerforrespect.com/strictly-students/): Thank you for joining us here to continue the conversation from the book Can I Kiss You? A thought-provoking look at relationships, intimacy, and sexual assault written by Mike Domitrz. Below, you will find the bonus sections for each chapter specifically written for Students. **If you can across the page accidentally, this is a special page devoted
- [Parents Pointers](https://www.centerforrespect.com/parents-pointers/): Thank you for joining us here to continue the conversation from the book Can I Kiss You? A thought-provoking look at relationships, intimacy, and sexual assault written by Mike Domitrz. Below, you will find the bonus sections for each chapter specifically written for Parents. **If you can across the page accidentally, this is a special page devoted
- [Online Train the Trainer](https://www.centerforrespect.com/k12/online-train-the-trainer/): Overcome the Challenges Trainers Face Addressing Topics like Sexual Violence ONLINE TRAINING ONLINE TRAINING Online Training Whether you are an educator in a school or with a nonprofit, discover presentation and engagement skills for making a greater impact with students and people of all ages!! “Education Through Engagement” with Mike Domitrz is your online course for helping create
- [Training & Coaching](https://www.centerforrespect.com/corporations-associations/training-coaching/): Lead from Within or Fail. Become Champions of Respect Train the Trainer Program Weekly Video Series Coaching Train the Trainer Program Champions of Respect™ Train the Trainer Program The key to long-term cultural transformation is ongoing education and development from within and throughout all levels of an organization. To create a supportive culture based in
- [Keynote Speaking](https://www.centerforrespect.com/corporations-associations/keynote-speaking/): A Respect Revolution is occurring throughout society today. Organizations who care deeply about their people and their culture are no longer “Checking the Box” to do the minimum education required. Instead, they are transforming their organizational culture into one founded in RESPECT. Let’s move beyond the question, “How do we address sexual harassment in the
- [Downloads](https://www.centerforrespect.com/web-downloads/): DOWNLOADS for working with Mike Domitrz Headshots Right click on the following links to download images and files to your computer, tablet, and/or phone. Download Images of Books, DVD, and Curriculum from Mike Domitrz Right click on the following links to download images and files to your computer, tablet, and/or phone. FAQ's Common Questions Professionals
- [Downloads](https://www.centerforrespect.com/downloads/): Headshots Right click on the following links to download images and files to your computer, tablet, and/or phone. Introductions & AV Guidelines available for Download Right click on the following links to download images and files to your computer, tablet, and/or phone. Mike's Introductions for Military Programs All the Introductions for Each of Mike's Training
- ["Voices of Courage" eBook & Audio Book](https://www.centerforrespect.com/voices-of-courage-download-individual-files/): Below, you will find the: E-Book Download Audio Book files to download E-BOOK DOWNLOAD: CLICK HERE to download the eBook of Voices of Courage: Inspiration from Survivors of Sexual Assault. Download each of the Audio Book chapters below: Just click on each of the below links and the chapters from the Audio Book will download to
- [Downloads from Training with Mike. . .](https://www.centerforrespect.com/downloads-from-training-with-mike-advocates/): Thank you for joining me in this recent live virtual program and for completing the survey. Your input means a great deal to me and helps me to grow as an expert, trainer, and speaker. Below are the downloads I promised and additional resources. With gratitude,Mike Domitrz Get the Handouts: Get the handouts I
- [Downloads from Training with Mike. . .](https://www.centerforrespect.com/downloads-mission-transformation-with-mike/): Thank you for joining me in the recent program and for completing the survey. Your input means a great deal to me and helps me to grow as an expert, trainer, and speaker. Below are the downloads I promised and additional resources. Get the Handouts: Get the handouts I talked about during the program –
- [Just for Parents . . .](https://www.centerforrespect.com/just-for-parents-handouts/): Thank you for joining me in the recent program and for completing the survey. Your input means a great deal to me and helps me to grow. Below are the downloads we promised AND an invitation to a really special Facebook group for parents we’ve created where we host live events (and parents are constantly
- [Books & more from Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/books-more-from-mike-domitrz/): Thank you for joining me in the recent program and for completing the survey. Below are the downloads I promised. Get the Slope, the Stairway, and the 9 "Daily Displays of Disrespect": Get the exact slides you saw during the “RESPECT” Assembly at the school. DOWNLOAD HERE Join Mike on Social Media: Instagram (click here)
- [Handouts & Downloads from Mike Domitrz. . .](https://www.centerforrespect.com/handouts-downloads-from-mike-domitrz-business/): Thank you for joining me in the recent program and for completing the survey. Your input means a great deal to me and helps me to grow as an expert, trainer, and speaker. Below are the downloads I promised and additional resources. Plus, you will see additional resources for parents and those seeking more information
- [Full Presentation of "SAFER Choices for My Child in Today's Sexualized World" Parent Session with Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/full-presentation-of-safer-choices-for-my-child-in-todays-sexualized-world-parent-session-onsite/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. You will need the password to watch this preview. If you do not have the password and would like to watch this video, click on the “Contact Us” link at the to of this webpage. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you
- [Full Presentation of Live Onsite "SAFER Choices for My Child in Today's Sexualized World" Parent Session with Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/full-presentation-of-live-onsite-safer-choices-for-my-child-in-todays-sexualized-world-parent-session-with-mike-domitrz/): No recording or broadcasting or sharing of this video is allowed. You will need the password to watch this preview. If you do not have the password and would like to watch this video, click on the “Contact Us” link at the to of this webpage. When you click on the “PLAY” button below, you
- [Books & more for the Military from Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/books-more-for-the-military-from-mike-domitrz/): Hi. Thanks for joining Mike at the "Can I Kiss You?" show. Below are the downloads he promised: Get Mike’s book “Can I Kiss You? A thought-provoking look at relationships, intimacy, and sexual assault” which is filled with interactive exercises, the exact words to use in various situations, and the mindset that can make current
- [Books & more from Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/ciky-program-giveaways-from-mike-domitrz/): Hi. Thanks for joining Mike at the “Can I Kiss You?” show. Below are the downloads he promised and your chance to share who you are. Download the books Get Mike’s book “Can I Kiss You? A thought-provoking look at relationships, intimacy, and sexual assault” which is filled with interactive exercises, the exact words to
- [Contact Us](https://www.centerforrespect.com/contact/): We’d love to hear from you! Toll-free: (800) 329-9390 (920) 326-3687 (920) 365-7066 Hello@CenterForRespect.com
- [You Choose for 2023](https://www.centerforrespect.com/you-choose-for-2023/): Choose Your Gift(s)! Thank you for bringing me in this past year to share the skills for building a culture of respect. Getting to work with you and your team was wonderful!! We would like to send you as many of the below items you’d like as a thank you from all of us at
- [Welcome to the Couples Connection Retreat with Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/welcome-to-the-couples-connection-retreat-with-mike-domitrz/): Get Away to Come Together! Saturday, November 11th to Thursday, November 16th Escape to strengthen your relationship through adventure, nature, unique bonding experiences, and fun workshops. Imagine you and your partner engaging in deep discussions that fill your souls. Next, the 2 of you are hiking to a beautiful and serene waterfall. Can you picture
- [Downloads from Mike Domitrz on Self-Care . . .](https://www.centerforrespect.com/handouts-downloads-from-mike-domitrz-self-care/): Thank you for joining me in the recent program and for completing the survey. Your input means a great deal to me and helps me to grow as an expert, trainer, and speaker. Below are the downloads I promised and additional resources. Plus, you will see additional resources for parents and those seeking more information
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- [List of Presentations](https://www.centerforrespect.com/list-of-presentations/): Keynotes, Trainings, and Workshops provided by The Center for Respect and lead by Mike Domitrz: “SAFER Choices” presented by Mike Domitrz for K12 Schools Help your students discover specific skills for building a culture of respect and consent for every human being. “Can I Kiss You?” Keynote lead by Mike Domitrz for Colleges & Universities
- [Self-Development Books I've Read & Friends Recommended by Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/self-development-books-ive-read-friends-recommended-by-mike-domitrz/): The ORIGIN of this list. I love learning and reading is a great way to expand the mind. I was looking to read a new book that would not take my mind anywhere into my work domain. So I posted on Facebook the self-development books I’ve read (2nd half of this page) and asked people
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- [About Mike Domitrz](https://www.centerforrespect.com/about-mike-domitrz/): Decades before sexual assault cases were on the cover of every major media publication, Mike Domitrz was being brought in by leading educational institutions, organizations of all sizes, and the U.S. military to help them pursue a new standard of consent and respect. With Mike being an internationally renowned speaker, the author of 3 books
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- [List of Programs](https://www.centerforrespect.com/list-of-programs/): Keynotes, Trainings, and Workshops provided by The Center for Respect and lead by Mike Domitrz: “SAFER Choices” presented by Mike Domitrz for K12 Schools Help your students discover specific skills for building a culture of respect and consent for every human being. “Can I Kiss You?” Keynote lead by Mike Domitrz for Colleges & Universities
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- [introduce](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/introduce/)
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- [motivation](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/motivation/)
- [public service announcement](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/public-service-announcement/)
- [stop texting and driving](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/stop-texting-and-driving/)
- [Tina](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/tina/)
- [accused](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/accused/)
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- [alerts](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/alerts/)
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- [loved](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/loved/)
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- [blog talk radio](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/blog-talk-radio/)
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- [Gift of RESPECT](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/gift-of-respect/)
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- [self-help](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/self-help/)
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- [broken](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/broken/)
- [question of week](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/question-of-week/)
- [rebuild](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/rebuild/)
- [rebuild trust](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/rebuild-trust/)
- [trust broken](https://www.centerforrespect.com/tag/trust-broken/)
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